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How To Tell Him My "Secrets"?!

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Date: October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)


Hi there! Newbie here. And I don't know if this is the proper place to seek for an advice but I'll do it anyway. Wala kasi ako pwedeng masabihan na malapit sakin dahil nakakahiya.

Well I'm not that young and I'm not that old, just in between. I'm a single mom. The father of my child cheated on me.

I had a few experience on having a man in my life but those "few" wholeheartedly accepted all my flaws.

So here is my problem mga sir at ma'am,

I met someone for quite sometime already during the quarantine period. We exchanged messages regularly. We "like" each other. We clicked. And it came to a point that we are so comfortable with each other that's why He wants me to show him my whole body and he wants to have sex with me. Gusto ko din naman sana as in gustong gusto talaga but I'm reluctant because of certain incidents I have scars on my body. It's surgically done. It's not "retoke" but literal na operada.

May magtatanong siguro bakit pinabayaan ko ang katawan ko, well kasi po there come a time that i got so depressed and i taken myself for granted. I don't expect na kasi na magkakaroon pa ako ulit ng someone special, though we don't have any label.

Naisip ko din naman ipaayos sana kaya lang on the other side of my mind said why would I need to that? Of the guy really likes or love me he should accept all of me. With or without flaws.

And tahat's where my insecurity comes in. I am nowhere near the women he's been in the past. You know those young and some are not so young but most of them are fresh, sexy, flawless almost perfect kind of girl. Their pink nipples and firm breast, pink pussy, round butt, white complexion and all that.

While I on the other hand is not sexy but just trying to be fit. I'm not the type who can flaunts her body on the beach wearing those two piece bikinis but I can wear sexy one piece bathing suit.

My nips are pinkish brown and I can say my breasts are not saggy they're still firm despite having a few sex experienced and I have a child. I just have a regular...

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Allenpaul
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Pasend nga

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Sorry, not really confident to show any parts of my body. That's my huge problem "insecurity and zero confidence" 😞

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syrob
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Wear sexy dress a lingerie siguro then take a photo. Think you are sexy then it will be. See yourself on mirror start appreciating yourself and soon you will realise your beauty indeed.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir for your uplifting comment. Very much appreciated.

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edzel27m
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Not all guys are nagbabase lng sa physical appearance..if he likes you d na magbabago yun..just try to be confident and be yourself..its your attitude and chracter matter the most..cheers

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir. I appreciate your comment.

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spperman00
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

If its lust or love, changes sa body should not be an issue. Playtime or enhancement para sa partner, it should be accepted. We cant blame you if you are in to those changes. Kumbaga sa maliit na titi, we guys always say nasa performance yan. Just like what you can do.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

I really don't know how he will react even though I said to him many times na wag mag expect ng sobra.
Thank you sir for your comment.

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spperman00
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Well, would you tell him ahead of time or hahayaan mo syang magulat then awkward moments. Eventually malalaman din nya. My suggestion, let him know ahead. You wont know until you get there.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir, i will definitely take your advice. Naghahanap lang ng timing.  Mas gusto ko po sa personal namin pag usapan at hindi sa phone.

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Bebeko
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Sabi mo gustung-gusto mong makipagsex sa kanya then do it instead of blaming men sa mga insecurities na iniisip mo. Alam naman nyang single mom ka, mag eexpect pa ba sya na flawless ka? Siya ba ay flawless din para magdemand sayo ng ganon?

Yung sinasabi mo na nakaset na standards ay sa showbiz, porn,  movies, tv series or erotic stories lang yan. Ilang Pinoy ang 9 inches? Ilan sa atin ang totoong maputi? That's fairytale. You need to work out your mentality and confidence dahil mas umaayaw ang mga lalaki kapag very low ang babae sa department na yan and vice versa. If may gusto ka pa idevelop sa physical mo then do it.

If sex lang yan at walang relasyon ay go do it. Grab every opportunity at baka mawala pa. Good luck

"Freedom is absolutely necessary for the progress in science and the liberal arts." - Baruch Spinoza

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir, I appreciate every word you say. I'll keep that in mind.

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ErinD
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

I too have stretch marks, not so perky boobs, mommy tummy, I'm a big girl and I can go on and on with my insecurities but I don't dwell on those things anymore. I've learned to accept na I'm not perfect. If you wanna have sex then go. Mind you they would notice but it doesn't matter. Ika nga ng mga boys its the performance that counts. Own your body, flaunt it. If di nya ma appreciate then let him go. Meron at merong ma kaka appreciate sayo. Go girl!

Don't tell me to moan, fucking make me...

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you ma'am! Coming from another female's opinion, it really helps BIGTIME! i truly appreciate it.

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Dfuck_176
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Take time don't rush :)

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir!

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proxy
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Sa personal mo po ipakita sa kanya bago kayo magsex sigurado matatanggap nya yun.

Hello. I'm new here.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Yes po, that's what I'm planning to do.
Thank you sir.

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Toto-07
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Huwag kang mag worry, typical lang kapag naki pag sex na natural lang mag-iiba porma ng lahat. Lalo na kapag sa oral sex na ginagawa mag-iiba ang kulay kasi yun dugo nakukulong sa parte umiitim ang kulay. Sometimes give it a rest it will go back to normal. Just like my partner, pero yung porma ng lips di na talaga minsan bumabalik lalo na kung torrid ang ginawa. Minsan turn on sa guy ang ganyan. Just let it happen naturally that way mag enjoy kayo.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir, I appreciate your advice.

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Mara2311
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Never beg for someone's love or attention.
If they won't accept you for what you are, then they are not worth your while.
Don't make him feel as if he's God's gift to women!

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

I never beg naman po ma'am. That's why I left the father of my child because  I am not an option and will never be.
Thank you so much for the advice.

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Jackthestreaper
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

There is nothing sexier than a person who is confident of himself/herself.

Wag mo ibase ang sarili mo according sa standards na nakikita mo sa media.

Yung mga scars na sinasabi mo and knowing that there is a story behind them, don't consider them as flaws but warrior marks.

Appreciation sa katawan should start within you. What you emanate is what you attract, ate.

Being aware of our flaws is the first step to acceptance. We get you, we have those moments of insecurity talaga, where we look in the mirror and we don't feel good enough, we don't feel fit enough, and sometimes we don't feel being enough. We don't deny it, but we should not capitulate on it. Embrace it instead.

Saka haller, pandemya na, lugi pa ba si ser sa yo hahaha!

Kaya go for it, goodluck and we'll be waiting for a confession na lang ng mga pangyayari ha.

Barba non facit philosophum.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir for the words of encouragement.

That's also the reason why I don't want to removed those scars, it's part of who I am. Nahihirapan lang talaga i-boost ang confidence. Ang tagal na din kasi since I have a special someone. When I say I had a "few" means 3 lalaki lang ang dumaan sa buhay ko.

I will definitely come back here sir to share kung ano po ang mangyayari samin pagkatapos namin mag usap.

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KingAlexandria
October 5, 2020 (25 days ago)

Just tell him po. May mga lalaki pa rin naman na hindi nagbabase sa itsura, sa past etc. Pag umayaw sya sayo katawan lang habol nya sayo. It's a test for him. Mas maigi nga yun maam na malaman mo earliest kasi baka mamaya sya nanaman maging dahilan na baka babalik ka sa dati. And last maam na advise ko na din. Better sabihin mo lahat kasi makakagaan yan sayo, yung wala kang itatago. For my experience lang, may secrets, dark past, maling nagawa and kakaibang fetish. And i tell that to my partner. Although una talaga mashoshock but yun po feel ko nabunutan ako ng tinik kasi alam ko wala na akong tinatago.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you very much for the advice sir.

He already knows everything about me, even the darkest secrets. Etong part na lang talaga ang hindi ko pa nasasabi. And yes po it's a test for him na din kasi it will be the turning point of our "relationship", kasi I'm not looking for just a plain sex or fling lang. Gusto ko sana ng long term partner and siya na ang maging huli.

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jackstone
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

You are what you feel. You can be the sexiest woman in the world, but if you don’t feel confident about your body, you’ll still feel shitty. Case in point, Karen Carpenter. Not sure kung inabutan mo pa siya 🤔

You need to learn how to love yourself. It doesn’t matter what kind of flaws your body has. Wala namang perfect na tao. Mas marami pa ngang insecurities ang mga taong maganda ang hubog ng katawan. Hindi sila masaya hangga’t hindi nakaririnig ng papuri galing sa ibang tao.

Kung hindi matatanggap ng “boyfriend” mo ang mga “katangian” mo, ibig sabihin na napakababaw lamang ng pagtingin nya sa iyo. Na panglabas na anyo lamang ang basihan ng kanyang nararamdaman.

Wag ka din magmadali na magpakita ng iyong buong katawan. Hindi importante ang wangis ng katawan sa isang taong tunay na nagmamahal. At kung hindi kayo magkatuluyan, baka magamit lamang ang iyong larawan sa hindi kanais-nais na paraan. Gawin mo lamang sa panahon na kayo ay magkita ng personal, at kung talagang desidido ka.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Born in the 80's sir but I know her.

I don't have any plans to show him the covered parts of my body mas gusto ko po talaga na pag nag usap na kami ulit ng personal.

I want him to be the last one na sana, I'm not into fling or short term relationship. It depends on him po if we're gonna push through what we have right now or it'll be the end.

Thank you sir for the advice, really means a lot to me.

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j_nathan
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

First of all, i think you are already beautiful just the way you are in your own right. Flawed or not, who you are, where you are, and how you are is who, where, and how you are supposed to be at this point in your life. There is no “should be”, “must be”, or “can be”.

Second, i don’t think you should be pressured or even burdened by your perceived insecurities - although, i understand tha you may think that its just easy for me to say this easpecially for a guy who is from the outside looking in your situation. I honestly don’t think sex should be the basis of your relationship. That said, if your guy cannot accept you for who and what you are, i think that is a red flag. Baka in the end, iiwanan ka na naman niyan after he had his “fun” with you. But on the other hand, if you are treating the situation like a “fun experience (sexual encounter) lang, then why worry di ba? I-enjoy mo nlng yung moment while it lasts. Bottom line, this is still mind over matter. Ask yourself this: Ano ba talaga hanap mo? A life-long partner or a here and now partner who might leave you kas

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you for your kind words and the vote of confidence sir. I am deeply touched with what you said. Very much appreciated po and I'll gladly put it at heart.

I'm taking our situation seriously, like I said I am not the type of "having fun" lang. I want him to be "hopefully"  the last one.

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Mr.M
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

"Of what my flaws are that is where you fill in the gap in us" No person was ever born PERFECT.We all have deficiencies that's a FACT of LIFE.

Minsan na namatay pero muli nabuhay

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Noted sir. Thank you very much.

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beep108
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

don't show your private parts in front of camera
maraming na de deceive kaya maraming nagkakaroon ng SCANDAL
respect and love yourself, drop those insecurities,when LOVE strikes, NO WHY,NO WHAT,NO HOW but only because of LOVE

i never know i can write a story till my fingers moves as my brain nuts dictates

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir for the advice.
Aside from my face I don't plan to show him the covered parts of my body.

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Yorme7
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Dami na comment. Well, as per standard, sa mga fuck boy lang nag eexist un. If he really want you, he'll accept you even may marks ka ng CS or what ever. Di nman katawan mo ang habol nya (if gnun nga) 1st thing, alam nya nman un. If sabihin nya na tanggap nya lahat kung ano meron syo, well thats the good side.  Marami nang lalaki ngaun ang di tumitingin sa panlabas lang. Mas mahalaga na ngaun kung sino ka talaga at hinde kung ano hitsura mo.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir ,I appreciate it .
I'm hoping that we'll be together but if not maybe I'll just wait for the right one.
Nakapag hintay nga ako ng ilang taon eh.

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bad_daddy1
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

take it slow, its only been a few months since youve known him

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

I'm also considering that fact. Thank you sir.

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blackbadger12
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

sa mga matitinong lalaki what i mean ung mga hindi fuck boy hindi mahalaga yan. dont be little your self hindi naman mahalaga kung maitim utong mo or what eh.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you sir.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (25 days ago)

Thank you so much to everyone who took their time to read and comment. I truly appreciate it. And the flooded private messages I get is so overwhelming. I didn't expect this kind of response. It really bwarms my heart.

Again thank you all for the support and encouragement. I'm really glad that I followed my guts to post my dilemma here.

God bless you all and keep safe always.

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Nomie
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Hello,  

Nagsend ako sayo ng advice through you messages ehhehe

Don ka na lang po magreply ahh HAHHAHAHAHHAHAH

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

I replied to you already.
Thank you for that sir.

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bem0912
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

be confident lang saka kung labs na labs ka talaga nya malamang di nya na papansinin mga flaws mo

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Thank you sir.

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truebuddy
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

hi Miss Single,
why be insecure?. baka naman nasa isip mo lang na e rereject ka niya. Dont waste your time dwelling on negative thoughts. Just be confident being you wag mo na e entertain mga insecurities mo and go out.. enjoy life.. wag mo sayangin mga oras mo sa worries na di pa naman nangyayari.. good luck po Ms Single!.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Will do that sir. Thank you very much po.

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Dagatdagatan
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Kung d nyo po susubukan, d malalaman. Pero bigyan mo po ng lakas ng loob ang sarili nyo para sa ganyang pagkakataon, kasi hindi naman lahat ay bumabase sa physical appearance.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Tatandaan ko po yan.
Thank you sir.

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Mrkonica2013
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Kantot lang naman ang habol. Hindi na nya papansinin yun. Kung magaling ka naman sa kama e. Bakit ka namomroblema? Aanhin mo ung seksi, kung sa kama naman e nakabukaka lang at nakahiga. Dun pa rin ako sa performer. Kaya ate, kung performer ka, hindi mo dapat pinoproblema yan!

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Hindi lang naman po "sex" ang habol ni guy. Actually nirerespeto po niya ako. Nasa akin po ang problema insecure po kasi ako knowing that he had a lot of women / girls in the past.
I would say I can perform but not the kind of performer you have in mind.
Thank you po sa pag comment.

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DaddyDon0002
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Minsan talaga nakaka depress yung mga insecurities natin, lalo pa't minsan nahuhubog mga isip natin na ang maganda babae dapat makinis, mala gitara ang kurba nga katawan, malapad ang tiyan at mga kung ano ano pa.
Pero ang buhay na may asawa or partner ay dapat grounded. Dapat base eto sa realidad. Realidad na lahat tayo ay flawed, and kailangan natin ang malawak na pag-unawa sa isat isa at buong pusong pag tanggap kung ano man meron ang magiging better half natin.
"Quality matters most than quantity" 'ka nga. Kaya just be yourself lang, no pretensions if maganda ang intension niya he will see the jewel in you.
Pero if he is only into lust, then he will look something in you to satisfy his personal need.
Wish you wisdom and insight on this and sana makita mo ang isang mapagmahal na kalinga sa taong eto.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 7, 2020 (24 days ago)

Thank you sir for your words of wisdom and insights. Very much appreciated po ☺️

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Vince2105
October 6, 2020 (24 days ago)

Be who you are. Leave that insecurities of yours lalo at the first place di mo pa naman nagagawa yung request nya. And if that guy really feels that comfy word between the two of you. Malamang yung flaws na sinasabi mo e matatanggap nya. Good luck and Godbless

Ciaossu! Vince here. 😉

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 7, 2020 (24 days ago)

Thank you so much sir. God bless you too!

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Maximummy
October 7, 2020 (24 days ago)

If mahal ka... Mahal ka talaga... No but's... No if's... Para naman hindi ka ma insecure... Huwag kang mag set din ng expectations... Kung feel mo at gusto mo talagang may mangyari between sa inyo... Then, GO! Huwag ka munang mag-isip nf mga what if... What if na yan... Enjoy the moment... Pag mag click, ehhh di may kasunod pa... Hindi one time lang... Plain and simple... Just cross the bridge first... Usually, fuckboy at immatures lang anf nagsi-set ng standards... And i totally agree with you... Nasa performance yan... Anong silbi nf pinkish2 na yan kung di naman marunong or tamad trumabaho? Base on experience ko yan... Nakakatamad o nakakawalang gana din misan... Pero mahal ko ehhh kaya in and out pa din kahit puro ako...

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 7, 2020 (24 days ago)

Got that sir, loud and clear.
Thank you po!

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kilaw
October 7, 2020 (24 days ago)

wag ka maging paranoid author.. sabi mo nga you two clicked.. so yun na yun.. im sure tanggap nyo isa't isa.. be confident at saka aanhin ang kaseksihan at pinkish na nipples at pussy if you dont know what to do in bed.. ang mahalaga kaya mo syang ma satisfy sa bed.. ika nga performance matters.. be yourself and bring your man to 7th heaven hehehe

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 7, 2020 (24 days ago)

That "bring your man to 7th heaven" made me laughed sir. Thank you so much!

I'll try my very best to bring him there 😆

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kilaw
October 7, 2020 (24 days ago)

yan2x.. thats the spirit.. naughty spirit hehehe

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 7, 2020 (24 days ago)

Hahaha!
Thank you again sir☺️

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Guest0
October 7, 2020 (23 days ago)

all i can say is just be yourself. nag "click" naman kau even though di pa nya nakikita katawan mo diba.. so parang bonus nalang yun kung ipapakita mo sa kanya.. or much better na wag ka mag send nun.. sa personal nalang kamo... mas okay pa din na emotional ang attachment nyo kesa physical mas malalim kumbaga... it's just my opinion... Goodluck sa lablayp..

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 10, 2020 (20 days ago)

Thank you so much sir.

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lxscoronel
October 7, 2020 (23 days ago)

we should consider ourself as merchandise when it planning to go to relatioship show what can you offer and advantge among same goods. do you know most of the player they are good salesman... coz thats their field selling its easy for them to sell their showcase as for regular person like us its just take it or leave it or the other way if braek it you buy it...now its up to you how would you present yourself to your prospect ... the other thing wala din b sya flaws para mag worry ka ng sobra he is not the only candidAte just alwYs bare in mind its hes loss

soloista

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 10, 2020 (20 days ago)

I'll keep that in mind. Thank you very much sir.

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malescort4hire
October 10, 2020 (21 days ago)

I make money out of sex services, i even fucked a granny and it was cool... you have nothing to worried about

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 10, 2020 (20 days ago)

Thank you sir.

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Taga.masid
October 11, 2020 (19 days ago)

Ako hindi kelangan pinkish ng nipples or ng pussy.. alam ko ibig sabihin mo na hindi pantay ang kulay.. siguro nasa lalaki talaga yun.. i had an experience sa chubby girl, sa single mom na may tahi.. it did not bother me.. maging confident ka lang.. wag mo masyado isipin tingin sau ng ibang tao..

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 11, 2020 (19 days ago)

Thank you sir. It really means a lot.

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malandi.
October 13, 2020 (18 days ago)

If u tell him now, surely the level of intimacy will go down the drain. Not because ur not hot, but because ur insecure. It’s akward. Accept it and move on. The next guy you go with, una pa lang sabihin mo na kasi na di ka maganda. Simple.

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SingleButMyHeartIsTaken
October 14, 2020 (16 days ago)

Wow! The word "pangit" is kinda harsh Miss. For me there's no pangit because "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder".

Yes I'm insecured but I didn't say that I'm pangit because I'm not.

Kung maganda ka ,eh di ikaw na! Ang swerte mo! Ikaw na perfect! BUT that doesn't give you any right to insult others specially if you haven't seen me.

Still thank you for taking time to read and comment.

God bless you and keep safe!

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