Who’s Counting?

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Date: February 3, 2018 (8 months ago)


Gents and ladies, I have a few questions I'm hoping you could help me with:

1. For the men, does it bother you if your woman has had quite a few sexual partners? Say more than 5. Or is this not an issue at all?

2. Ladies, do you tell your men honestly how many guys you've already slept with?

3. Do you think we owe it to our partners to tell them the truth or is that something we should keep to ourselves?...

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greengazer
February 3, 2018 (8 months ago)

I think this varies from person to person. Some might be able to accept the fact that their partners have had quiet a few sexual partners before them, while some might not be able to accept that at all. IMO, it's better not to bring the subject up. After all, it was all in the past. If you really are accepting of your partner, it would not matter what had happened.

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Borealis
February 3, 2018 (8 months ago)

But if it were brought up...? Would you tell the truth?

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greengazer
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

Yeah, I'd probably tell her the truth. But that's because I'm a guy who have had just a couple of sex partners before my current partner. If I was a guy who liked to sleep around before, I would not tell my partner the truth. This probably works both ways.

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Anakinaligaya
February 3, 2018 (8 months ago)

Not issue at all, as long one at a time ka lang. Kahit you have few sex partner ka. Past is past. Masama pinagsasabay mo ang mga lalaki

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Borealis
February 3, 2018 (8 months ago)

Thanks!

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kwentohan
February 4, 2018 (8 months ago)

Mahirap sabihin. Siguro it does not matter. Pero kung meron kang nalaman after na ipinagkailang wala. Mahirap sabihin kung anong magiging reaksyon ko.

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Sebastian13
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

Masakit tol hahaha nangyari sakin to, pero yun kung mahal mo talaga matatanggap at matatanggap mo kahit ano pa past nya pero ang mali lang nya nilhim pa nya di pa mismo nanggaling sakanya ikaw pa ang nakaalam yun lang ang masakit. Parang wala na yung tiwala parang may gap na ganon.

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cunTrina01
February 4, 2018 (8 months ago)

Only if it's being asked. I provide the right count :)

Smile :)

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Borealis
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

And are you comfortable in letting him know?

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cunTrina01
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

Yes. And It was never an issue. :)

Smile :)

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wicked
February 4, 2018 (8 months ago)

if asked.. Yes. It shouldn't be an issue anyway kung tapos naman na

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Akela143
February 4, 2018 (8 months ago)

Me even if asked or not..I'm an open book..that's when I'd know if the next one is for real..

No inhibition. Less depression.

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Sebastian13
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

Nasa gantong situation ako ngayon, may girlfriend ako sya yung first ko at ako naman yung pang 6th boyfriend nya. Madami syang experience but tanggap ko lahat. Pero mapapaisip at mapapaisip kapa din parang natatapakan yung ego mo.  But yun mahal ko sya tanggap ko past nya pero mahirap ding hindi magisip na parang unfair.

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starst1949
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

Are you a virgin before you met her.  Wala ka ring ibang GFs. Ang importante ay ikaw ang last.

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kimmykim
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

just tell the truth. having multiple sex partners in the past will not lessen you as a person but being dishonest and cheat is more of a big deal. Tapos kung marami ng nakasex yung partner mo ano naman ngayon? edi galingan mo para sa lahat ng nakasex niya ikaw ang pinakamasarap hahaha. love does not end when someone had sex in the past. accept it do not be a jealous pussy ganon lang ☺

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Borealis
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

No, it’s just that it makes me feel cheap when i let them know of the real count, which isn’t even a lot! Hello, less than 5. Haha. But i guess growing up around nuns can have a lasting effect on certain life perspectives :p

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starst1949
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

My take here  Borealis is that You need not tell him of your past. HE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT  as you have nothing to do with his past. !  Wala pa kayo sa buhay ng isat-isa nuon.!  You are not obliged to divulge your personal past.  
Now if you knew that being a virgin is a big deal to him. Just say that you are not anymore.  period.
A decent and very secured guy wont pursue the issue anymore, if he really loves you.

whats the point of telling him?  is it sin that you fell in love and trusted others before him. Telling him  may do MORE HARM THAN GOOD.   DONT feel guilty about it. Just love him well.

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Borealis
February 7, 2018 (8 months ago)

True. Thanks for this!

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P-mac
February 5, 2018 (8 months ago)

For me once na na naging kme nung girl...ndi na issue ung past nya mhalaga lang ung loyalty at pagmamahal na ipinapakita nya skin sa present.once i assure na loyal talaga sya sakin...wala n kaming dapat na balikan pa sa nakaraan lalo na at ndi nmn mganda ending.

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Whinterwolf
February 8, 2018 (8 months ago)

Will depend on the person. If he asks then be honest. If he does not accept it then it's his problem. It was part of the past and it shouldnt affect how you treat each other now.

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redangel17
February 13, 2018 (8 months ago)

The mere fact you accepted by the guy it doesnt matter what happened in the past. Assuming someday that will gonna be issue in the relation gag* sya bakit ka tinanggap....

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