When does it end?

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Date: January 31, 2015 (3 years ago)


Lately there has been a number of situations or hints that a relationship has come to its end.I for 1 have been into 1 very long and a number of short ones too.Now,don't prejudge me yet because i'll admit i'm by nature is flirty in manner.A lot of times its of curiosity as to of what tickles the other party of why its me who gets into it and then secretly we meet and something happens or not happens.
A lot of times when i'm into the chat page of the site I can't help it but flirting with others is a norm already for me.Thus,it creates the impression that i'm "slick" in getting into the lives of these women.
I never intended but somehow it comes to there.
Today I spent it with 1 of the women here.We both settled our issues and decided its best to let it just go as it want it to be.
"What am I to you?"
"You are my LOVER,I am your LOVER."
No more no less and nothing else.Its not easy to have it existing because the possibility of being exposed is always there as a threat.Not only for me but also for the other person.Yet like a persistent itch somewhere in your body you know your going to keep on scratching it till it satisfies that "itch" in you.
Is it "fair" you wish it were always for both of you,yet 1 has to suffer and the other 1 does'nt.

"Alam mo kahit anong laki at sama nang nagawa mo,sa aking buhay.Makausap at madinig ko ang boses mo sa kabila nang telepono,nawawala ang hapdi sa pananakit mo sa aking puso."
"Pag kasama na kita,dama ko ang pagmamahal mo sa akin."

Words spoken by a woman inlove with a man...

I am no saint.Let not my senior demeanor blind you that I am like that always.Giving that reason "I'm just human" is quiet abused already for me in saying when asked.
You can't help it that somewhere out there there will be another person who can relate to you,who might just be willing to share with you those times when your down and up.You communicate so much of yourselves that feelings now become existent.You try to distance yourself yet the more you avoid the stronger that longing grows that you want to be with that person always.
There will be clashes just like any normal relationship,but with others it's like juggling gre...

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quiescent_phantom1982
January 31, 2015 (3 years ago)

Depende na rin po talaga sa inyo yan sir.. But I admire you for having the courage to end all your affairs with your other women.. Masakit po ba? Hell yes! Masakit talaga lalo na pag talagang napamahal na yung iba sa inyo.. Pero mas masakit yan pag nalaman ng family nyo lalo na yung mga anak nyo..

Asi es la vida...

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Mr.M
January 31, 2015 (3 years ago)

Phantom its best that way than to further the pain and deepen the wound of all parties involved,yet i'd still like to retain a friendship as a relationship with 1 I know so well already.

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quiescent_phantom1982
January 31, 2015 (3 years ago)

Tama sir. Wala naman sigurong masama dyan basta talagang desidido na kau sa decision nyo po na talagang tuldukan na yung relationship nyo and just remain friends with each other na lang po.. Kahit pano I also admire yung "friend" nyo kase at least di naman sya nagbalak na gumawa ng eskandalo or even threaten you na magsusumbong sa wife nyo..

Asi es la vida...

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emilia_jane
January 31, 2015 (3 years ago)

It doesn't end, you just have the courage and the strength to admit the things you did.

It is also good to maintain the friendship because that's how the relationship started, shared interests, laughter, trust, companionship...hindi naman tama na ma set aside ang mga ito just because a relationship has ended.

People come into your life with a reason, in a season or for a lifetime. They come to comfort, to love, to be a friend or a lover to you. In the end, they will leave but you will have the best memories to remember and cherish...

Seduce my mind and you can have my body...find my soul and I am yours forever...

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Mr.M
January 31, 2015 (3 years ago)

Kaya itong si Emila....masarap din isama sa "friend" list ko dito eh.Thank you Jane!

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Bebeko
January 31, 2015 (3 years ago)

When "will" it end? Ikaw lang ang makakasagot, Mr. M.

When "does" it end? Ang tanong mo para sa kalalakihan.

Men are bitches in general. (Rebut it later.) A boy growing up na kapag nakakita ng cleavage o binti ay tinitigasan na. Sex agad ang nasa isip. Becoming a man is more difficult. Historically, ang lalake tuhog lang ng tuhog because there were no laws. Kahit relative ay pwedeng asawahin at anakan. Kings and royal princes normally have tens or hundreds of wives & children even up to now.

But laws of God intervened. Tumingin ka lang sa isang babae ng may pagnanasa ay isa ng pangangalunya at yan ay nasa Bibliya. Then laws of men. Sa atin ay isa lang ang pwedeng maging asawa.

Ang sagot sa tanong para sa married men, sa single at sa mga nanggagahasa ng babae sa isip.., Does it end really? Maybe no.

Sa hypocrites, ikaw ba'y tapat na kahit sa isip ay hindi nagkakasala sa asawa? Oo daw.

Meron bang lalaki na di makikipagflirt sa buong married life nila? Hmmmnn.

Good job!

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Bebeko
January 31, 2015 (3 years ago)

(continuation)

Sa mga idealist men naman. Hintayin nyo lang at darating yang challenge na yan. Kapag kasalukuyan kang dumadaan at nahihirapan then get out.

Sa mga moralistang lalake, fu** you. Baka mga batang lalake ang binababoy nyo.

Good job!

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Mr.M
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Senyur...senyur,yung gamot mo inumin mo at umaalsa nanaman ang dugo mo ah?!Kaya nga in a general note not for any gender.

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Bebeko
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Di ko kayang makuha ang POINT OF VIEW ng babae. Ikaw ano sagot mo? When will it end?

Good job!

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Mr.M
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Its a work in progress

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Bebeko
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

M, yan ang tamang sagot if a person wants it to end. Nasa proseso ka na pala. If you couple it with actions like less chat, no flirting and spend more time sa needs and wants ng asawa ay mas mainam.

Ako siguro ang sagot ko sa "When will it end?" ay "I don't know" dahil di ako makapangako. I'm not a saint either but I'm not the type of person who will enter into an intimate relationship. Sex maybe...just being honest.

Good job!

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Mr.M
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Safe answer huh?

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Bebeko
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Yes, safe but honest answer.

Good job!

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User Not Found
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

It ends when one stops fooling around, acting like a jerk.

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User Not Found
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Now

The BITCH is back into the business. BWAHAHAHHHAHAHA

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antoinette
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

It ends when i say it ends. I dont know may hinahanap akong tao eh... hehehe feeling ko kasi pag di ko nakita yon walang sense yong buhay ko. Then kung nahanap ko na maski hindi naging kami masaya na ako. Kaya lang mahirap hanapin if you dont involve yourself fully.  Then you let yourself open up, trust, and love even if it means crossing the line of what is right. You know it is time to let go when you realize the relationship is just sitting on air and you couldnt find a strong foundation or purpose for it.

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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User Not Found
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

The BITCH is back into the business. BWAHAHAHHHAHAHA

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User Not Found
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

I'm sorry for your loss sexydiane27. If a guy has no balls he'll just dump us. Worst, parang may ketong pa ang treatment kapag ayaw na. It's also better to expose that guy sa circle mo para makapag-ingat ang iba na mabibiktima.

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User Not Found
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Its okay. Uhm... btw hindi ko pinalaglag ang bata okay? Ung iba dyan ayoko nang pumatol kase lalo silang sasaya. ;) basta ako okay lang at kilala ko na kung sino-sino ang mga aso ;) pag nawala ako dito it means guilty sila. Kaya ingat2 po ;)

The BITCH is back into the business. BWAHAHAHHHAHAHA

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User Not Found
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

*Rejected

The BITCH is back into the business. BWAHAHAHHHAHAHA

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blue_Lame
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

The answer is in yours, when to stop or why you keep on holding on.  Why stay if you no longer happy instead and the worst is this caused you so much pain.

There is always tomorrow and let them left behind and learned but never look back on it cause this will bring back the pain then and then.

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inang.grasya
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Pag pumasok ka sa isang "relasyon", alam mo na ang benefits and risks. Ang kailangan lang, malinaw kung ano at hanggang saan ang limitasyon.

Kung may asawa ang partner, mas malaking risks lalo kung lalaki ang may asawa at dalaga ang nakikipagrelasyon. Normal sa isang babae ang madaling mainlab lalo kung babaeng babae ang pagtrato sa kanya.

Sa ganitong sitwasyon, ibayong pag iingat ang dapat gawin bukod na posibleng eskandalo kung mabuking ni misis at guluhin ang dalaga. Sobrang pag iingat na makabuo ng isang batang magiging biktima kung iiwas na sa responsibilidad ang amang may sariling pamilya. In the end, babae ang papasan ng responsibilidad. Kung nagdesisyon syang huwag ituloy ang pagbubuntis, sya pa rin ang magdadala nong consequences base sa kanyang prinsipyo at paniniwala.

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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MidLifeCrisis
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Yannnn! Purong tagalog at mas naiintidihan ng madlang FSS :D

Galingggg, sisg.... Kapag mga ganitong sitwasyon maasahan ka talaga sa mga salitang tumatagos hanggang bone marrow :)

And.I.Care.Not.

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somebodyuused2know
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Husay mo inang. Mahalin ang wikang sarili. Pati sarili.

At ikaw lola midz kung trip nila mag-english pero sumasakit bangs mo, inom ka na lang ng gamot. Lols.

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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MidLifeCrisis
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Hahahaaha ang sarap magbasa ng comments lalo na kung me sense naman. Kaya lang sumasakit dibdib ko kapag nagsisipaan na ang grammar eh... Buti ng tagalugin nalang kapag medyo alanganin :)) oh well, walang basagin ng trip ika nga... Kapag tinopak din ako makapag-German na nga din ... At least yon may rason na sasakit ang ilong mo sistah :D

And.I.Care.Not.

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Mr.M
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Kahit naman hindi Dalaga,bumibigay din.By the way its about ending a relationship not of our national language.Ang layo na nang comments ata?

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MidLifeCrisis
February 1, 2015 (3 years ago)

Oh it's not the first time na lumalayo ang comments sa blog. At wag kang mag-alaa po eto po ang last na comment ko sa blog mo, Mr.M ;)

And.I.Care.Not.

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kayecee
February 2, 2015 (3 years ago)

For me,when will it end?it wont unless you both agreed to get out from that affair.for one you both entered it,you both enjoyed it.i myself can never say i am out if its just my decision.aside from that or should i say if there are things that we can't stop then before you both gets deeper set ur rules and make sure that you both agreed to it and you should comply to it.easier said than done yeah but we all are given the intelligence to decipher what do we think is wrong or what do others think is wrong. Hi sir M. :)

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