Should i message her again or not?

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Date: November 30, 2013 (4 years ago)


Should i message her again or not?

Its been almost a month since i last messaged her. I stop sending messages to her becuase she told me so. I know i have done something wrong to her and i didnt mean it. We use to be a friend before that mistake. Its not only 1 mistake. Ive done 3 mistakes to her. And because of that our friendship suffers. To all the persons i confided my predicament there is only 1 common advice they gave me "Hayaan mo muna sya."

There are times i want to message her to say hello but im hesitant to do it. Several questions pops out in my mind . Would she reply to my messge or just ignored it? Yes sometimes she ignores me as if i didnt exist. Or she would reply me and told me again shes not ready to recieve messages from me? But what i fear most is that she told me not to message her and dont bother her anymore.

I envied my fellow chatters. Ive noticed that there are times she would notice me but most of the time im non-existent to her. All i wanted is to bring back our friendship we have. But if she doesnt regard me as her friend anymore. Well i have to respect her decision an...

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martini23
November 30, 2013 (4 years ago)

one is enough, two is too much :) just let her na lang muna, ang mga babae madali yang magforgive,pero depende yan sa gravity ng nagawa mong mistake sa kanya. maayos din yan yaan mo na muna sya;)

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unresponsive
December 1, 2013 (4 years ago)

If this is about friendship.. you should just message her for the last time..
if she does not message back then just let go.. 1 month is enough time to decide if you will be friends again or not..

I was born a god.. raised as a king.. i bow down to no one..

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NaugthybutNice
December 1, 2013 (4 years ago)

naduduwag ako sa kanya unres. sya pa lang ang babaeng nagpaduwag sakin sa ganitong sitwasyon.

isa pang kakulitan ni captcha "admits"

matagal ko ng inamin sa kanya ang pagkakamali ko. pero ang pagkaduwag ko hindi pa

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unresponsive
December 1, 2013 (4 years ago)

naduwag agad? hindi ba pwede nsabi mo na lahat at ayaw niyang tangapin?
you just have to let go if she does not fit in your life..
this is a site for fun and sexual release..

I was born a god.. raised as a king.. i bow down to no one..

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leeganda
December 1, 2013 (4 years ago)

TXT MO NA SYA..KSE KAMI MGA BABAE MINSAN KHIT SABIHIN NMIN N DNT TEXT ME NA,,PERO NAGHINTAY PA RIN KAMI NG TXT NUN.GO NA.

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NaugthybutNice
December 1, 2013 (4 years ago)

hindi ka naman galit nyan kabayang leeganda at puro all caps ang comment mo?

anng kulit ni captcha "resows" akin daw linangin :)

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pilyangpasaway
December 1, 2013 (4 years ago)

agree with ms martini.... 2 is two much, at tumatlo ka pa... oberrr na kuya, pero yaan mo na nga muna siya, at hayaan mo din na siya ang pumansin sayo.. well if you think you've already done your part, you've ask her forgiveness.. then i think better be civil na lang po kayo :)

You never know how Strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

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MidLifeCrisis
December 1, 2013 (4 years ago)

Better let her be, she will talk to you when and if she wants to... That's just my two cents...

Mahirap ksi mag comment coz I am not privy to the whole scenario but if she is ignoring you then ignore her too.  I dun think it matters that much, well at least not for me if it's all platonic. Unless you feel something deeper than just friendship then that's a different story. Masakit at nakakainggit nga so if I were you hit that ignore button in there and you won't feel that inggit feeling anymore.

That's what i do when i am pissed with someone.

And.I.Care.Not.

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NaugthybutNice
December 3, 2013 (4 years ago)

I would not ignore her just because she's ignoring me. If i ignore her it means she nothing to me. Once upon in my life she came into my life and bring colors. I will let this inggit feeling to myself.

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Bebeko
December 2, 2013 (4 years ago)

Even if you want to bring back the friendship but the other person doesn't,  then it's futile. Friendship doesn't work that way.

We all have regrets in life but we can't put all of our energy into it otherwise it will hold us back. Time heals all wounds. Don't force yourself to a person and I'm saying this in general, not just in your situation. Kapag ayaw na then NEXT!

Good job!

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NaugthybutNice
December 2, 2013 (4 years ago)

thanks for the advices guys...

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elleclemente13
December 2, 2013 (4 years ago)

in my opinion, kung tunay siang kaibgan, makikinig sia. Irelate k lng ung situation k. 6 mnths n kmi magkaibgan. He is my wonderwall. I mean, he was. Cgro pagkakamali k n rn n hnd nkng dn s cnbi niang platonic relationship lng kya niang ibgay. So i  begged fr his tym. Lgi siang nagaalok ng tlng pag nhhrapan n k pero nung tym na kailangan n kailangan k n sia, wla. That was d tym n inatake n k ng asthma k. Nagalit p siadhl hnd sia naninwala.ang maskit p dun tnwag nia p kng spoiled. He even left me wthout knwng d whole story.  haha

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NaugthybutNice
December 2, 2013 (4 years ago)

Thanks elleclemente13. Can you add me as your new friend?

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elleclemente13
December 3, 2013 (4 years ago)

Sure thing

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NaugthybutNice
December 3, 2013 (4 years ago)

join ka naman sa chatroom para makausap kita doon

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butch_lu
December 4, 2013 (4 years ago)

go with the flow lng guyss

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butch_lu
December 4, 2013 (4 years ago)

go with the flow guyss

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red...
December 7, 2013 (4 years ago)

hmmm...sana maging okay pa rin kayo naught...baka kasi sobrang na-hurt siya tapos kinain na ng pride, hindi ka na niya mabalikan...pero sana maging okay na ulet kayo :)

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NaugthybutNice
December 7, 2013 (4 years ago)

thanks red

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NaugthybutNice
December 8, 2013 (4 years ago)

i hope so red. i'll just wait and see na lang po.

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inang.grasya
December 8, 2013 (4 years ago)

depende sa sitwasyon nbn. kung friends kayo, darating din ang panahon na magkakabati kayo pero kung nag expect ka ng more than friendship, ibang usapan na yan. baka un ang naramdaman nya kaya ignore ka nya para di ka umasa na lalalim pa kesa friendship ang relasyon nyo. ramdam naman naming mga babae kung may mas malalim na pakay sa amin ang isang tao.

based on my experience, i have this one of my bff's for almost 15 years. we had a big fight early this year. dedma kami kahit magkita sa isang okasyon pagkatapos naming mag away ng bonggang bongga. umiiwas kami sa isat isa para di kami magtagpo at malagay sa alanganin. just last night, nagkabanggaan kami. no choice kundi magbatian dahil kilala kami ng mga nakapaligid sa amin na close friends kami for a long time. nagbati kami in an unexpected time. from this day on, time to rebuild our friendship. naging daan din siguro ang bday ko dahil kahit di pa kami magkabati last week, nagpadala ng gift sa staff nya kaya nagulat ako. just wait nbn.

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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