Sana Condom Ka Na Lang

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Date: November 27, 2016 (1 year ago)


TRUST.

When you wish brand na lang siya ng condom. Mabutas man, hindi naman bubutasin ang puso mo. Unless may mabuong baby at tumakbo yung daddy. Ibang usapan na yun.

Pero yung salitang trust, pag ibinigay mo, at naiwala sayo, pano mo ba bubuuin ulit ang relasyon na akala mo matibay ang pundasyon?

How can you start trusting that someone again?

Would you try? Or would you just walk away?

Would you accept his justifications even if you know doing so would be losing your self-respect?

How can a five-letter word be so important, that it could make or break a person's...

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jerikho
November 27, 2016 (1 year ago)

Yeah, so true...pareho sila ng kapalaran ni PROMISE they are always meant to be broken...

Retiradong Playboy...pwedeng TUMINGIN pero never ang TUMIKIM ;)

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somebodyuused2know
November 27, 2016 (1 year ago)

Aw. First time kong maging teary-eyed habang tunatawa dahil sa comment Sir Jerikho. Langyang mga words yan haha.

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Pob_Hwyl
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

With regards to promises:
Pinangakuan ka na,  kalabisan na kung tutuparin pa.

Promises are MEANT to be broken. May we all have a cheerful heart to accept that.  Wag na magtaka.

Pob hwyl i chi. Because you deserve nothing but the best.

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somebodyuused2know
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Right Sir Pob, hindi rin naman ako naniniwala na lahat ng promise tinutupad. Maraming magaling mangako. Magpaasa. Tapos wala lang pala para da kanila yung mga pangakong binitiwan. Kaya nga kung totoo din lang ang sumpa, dami na rin sigurong tinamaan ng kidlat. :-D

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KIDLAT.
November 27, 2016 (1 year ago)

👀Humuhugot ata si Sam :D ✌🏻️

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somebodyuused2know
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Slight lang Sir KIDLAT hehe.

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itsmeitsme
November 27, 2016 (1 year ago)

in the end, you have friends [real friends], whether you chose to trust him again or not, from your friends' perspective, the choice you made was right.

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somebodyuused2know
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Sir itsmeitsme, true that. :-) Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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Jeck-69
November 27, 2016 (1 year ago)

It takes time to regain trust lost or never. Once broken, check mo why it happened. It you can't take it, just go on with life because there is only one.

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somebodyuused2know
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Jeck-69, Sir, minsan kasi pag nasaktan na tayo kasabay ng pagkasira ng trust, we tend to lose focus, but you're right, losing trust shouldn't mean losing the will to keep going.  Thanks for dropping by.

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Jeck-69
November 30, 2016 (1 year ago)

I gave you the advice because of the experiences I have had in life. I am considered a senior now but still very active. We just have to learn and go on with better things. I hope you meet the right person and good luck to you and appreciate your reply so much. God bless.

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somebodyuused2know
November 30, 2016 (1 year ago)

If only for your comments in this post, I can say that the old adage applied to you perfectly; that with age comes wisdom.

And I appreciate your thoughts as much Sir. God speed too

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Pob_Hwyl
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Reading your blog makes me contemplate on some points:

Trust, pag ibinigay mo at naiwala sa'yo? Akala niyo ganun lang kadali yun? Sana nga condom na lang. Madali lang ibigay,  at madaling palitan.

  TRUST is the hardest thing to keep once received. True to this, the golden rule "Its better to give than to receive" comes in perfect play.  Deceptive per se, it's not an act of generosity but rather an imposition by which the receiver (trustee) is made obligatory where liberality and enjoyment of the thing given can never be attained. Technically, it's an act of selfishness on the giver (trustor) who usually  becomes the obligor (of a bond, a promise, or an expectation over something which is not even contingent.

How to move on? Simply by renewing your TRUST. Nobody's perfect. FORGIVE for a better.  Somebody you used to know may have changed for a better.  XD

Trust can STILL be restored and self-respect can always be regained, as long as there is LOVE. Love conquers ALL.

Pob hwyl i chi. Because you deserve nothing but the best.

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Pob_Hwyl
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

My comment is not addressed personally to the author, but to the readers in general. It is my desire by throwing my two cents, to shed light and create a balance on the already biased hindsight,  that in TRUST,  it is always the GIVER who's on the losing side. Harinawa!

Pob hwyl i chi. Because you deserve nothing but the best.

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somebodyuused2know
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Thanks for giving your take Sir Pob, appreciate it.

Yung totoo muntik na po ako ma-nosebleed hehe. But seriously, yung take away ko sa perception nio about giving and receiving trust is that it counts not to expect something in return once you give something. Kaya lang, in reality, its always easier said than done. Bihira na siguro ang martir na willing na magbigay na lang ng magbigay kahit wala namang napapala.

Personally din, I beg to differ that expecting someone you've trusted to keep that trust means being selfish on the giver's part while putting pressure on the receiver. Kasi po ang trust parang respect din, both are earned, not freely given.

Yung totoo, you sound so jaded. Im not sure po kung ako ba talaga ang humuhugot dito? Lol. Biro lang po.

Pero yes, as long as there is love, Id like to believe that it can cover a multitude of sins. And flaws. Easier said than done, in reality, specially if the betrayed person is still hurting, but its not impossible.

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Pob_Hwyl
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Ako yung naguluhan bigla. Akala ko, yung trust, binigay mo. Now, sabi mo naman, parang respect, it is earned and not freely given?  Alin ba talaga,  earned or given?

Seriously, my take is this: Yung TRUST kasi,  ang sarap lang pakinggan. Kusang loob (daw) na ibinibigay.  But in reality,  it is self-serving.  When you said to someone : I have TRUST in you, you don't really mean "Do what you please", but rather you're indirectly saying "Don't fail my expectations".

Paano pag di na-meet yung expectations?

I wonder the way you gamble your self-respect thru placing trust on other people. Is that how big your respect for him is? Never let others take your self-respect.  It's their loss, not yours if they broke their promises.

It's safe to say, perhaps" You have my approval, you have liberty but you have to consider my take, in everything you do. The liberty I gave you is coupled with an obligation."

Kumplikado talaga. Sana nga,  CONDOM na lang ang TRUST na yan!

Pob hwyl i chi. Because you deserve nothing but the best.

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somebodyuused2know
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Sensha na Sir Pob, siguro nga magulo ang sinabi ko but again, thanks for taking the time to drop by.

Isa lang nga siguro ang importante, yung kahit nasira ang tiwala mo sa isang tao, yung kaya mo pa ring magtiwala sa iba.

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starst1949
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Hay SAM mahirap taalaga magtiwala pag nasira ang TRUST,   hindi ka nakakasiguro kung mabuuo  ang baby o hindi  ......kaya ako `THRUST na lang ng THRUST  hanggang mabutas si TRUST.

LOL...labo yata ng sagot ko, napalakas ang okra water  therapy ko.   hehehehe

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somebodyuused2know
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Ahahaha, hanep sa thrust lo ah, I wonder ilang "trust" kaya nabutas mo lol.

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BellaVictoria
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Hugot much.

Kaya naman next time, sa halip na TRUST ang gamitin Trojan na lang. Mas sure kang mapapagkatiwaan kesa naman sa TRUST na sa salita lang napapatunayan pero hindi sa gawa.

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starst1949
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Mas ok yata sa akin ang wag na lang magtiwala sa TRUST o  TROJAN

Itong si manoy ko ay WALANG    pinagkakatiwalaan kaya gusto nito MAGISA na lamang. LOL   walang pang masisira kung hindi ang kinabukasan   hahahahaha     bad ako no.

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somebodyuused2know
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Lo yung totoo, halata naman talaga sa itsura mo nung kabataan mo bad boy dating mo. Dami mo sigurong iniwang luhaan nung kapanahunan mo Buti na lang nakilala kita sa panahong hindi na uso ang forever...or else, forever akong luhaan, chos! :-))

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somebodyuused2know
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Pretty, ayoko itanong bakit mas reliable ang Trojan para sayo kesa Trust, baka isumpa mo ako hahaha.

Hugot na naman. Kasi ang iba ang hilig bumaon.  Tapos di kayang panindigan. Ayan tuloy:-D

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BellaVictoria
November 28, 2016 (1 year ago)

Actually ha, that's just me being adik. But sa totoong buhay kagaya ni lolo Starst ayoko ng may trust or trojan. Thrust na nga lang daw sabi nga ng famous lolo ng FSS. Hahaha

Nabubuhay na naman katawang tao ko kaka comment. Makabalik na nga ulit sa hibernation😛

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somebodyuused2know
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Pretty salamat sa paglabas sa bat cave para magbigay ng opinyon, muahs!

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arkie
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Sana talaga condom na lang kasi masira man my posibility na di makabuo at pwede tuloy tuloy. pag yung tiwala kasi walang na talaga posibility na mabalik sa dati.Never expect na kung anu kayo noon bago masira si trust eh ganun parin kayo ngaun

naki chismis lang ako Ms. Sam :)

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somebodyuused2know
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Arkie true, maibalik man, may lamat na. Salamat sa pakiki chismis hahaha.

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candace
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Magpalit ka na lang ng brand, Mommy. Marami atang choices sa 7/11. Haha.

Kidding aside, at one point naman talaga ay madi-disappoint ka sa mga taong malapit sayo for so many reasons and one of them is maiwala/ masira ang trust. Nature na ata ng tao yun, one way or another ay nabe-break ang trust na naibigay satin or sa kanila. Minsan aware, minsan hindi.

Nood ka na lang ng How to Get Away With Murder and see how trust is being broken over and over again pero nabu-build up pa rin for some reason. Cheers! :)

Whatever you do, choose life. (Urbandub)

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somebodyuused2know
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Candy, oo nga, palitan ko na si koyah, er yung brand pala hahahaha.

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BellaVictoria
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Lol kasi naman. Indespensable ba si koyah like condom. Kada isang gamit, need itapon.

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somebodyuused2know
November 29, 2016 (1 year ago)

Ayoko humugot kaya hindi ko sasagutin yang tanong mo pretty little sis hehehe.

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