Restoration of Faith in "Loyal/Nice guys"

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Date: March 22, 2018 (6 months ago)




He is a responsible boyfriend and a husband material. He doesn't have dating apps on his phone because he doesn't want to be 'tempted'. His gf knows his password in fb and phone because he knows he doesn't have anything to hide. He is one of the guys that you look up to because of their loyalty and commitment to their other half.

What will be your reaction if one day, this friend of yours admitted that he thinks he loves you more than a friend?

I was so shookt when this happened to me. One year of friendship, we never had a thing. We never flirted with each other. We drink together with friends but we never say good mornings and good nights or other sweet bullshits. We are just friends. Yes, we had lots of drinking sessions but we are always with other friends too!

The only thing that I remember that could trigger his confession was the night when one of our co-workers actively flirted with me the whole evening while we were all 'celebrating' their postponed ball game. He was beside me the whole evening and kept telling the other players that I am his sister. It was normal because we joke about it all the time.

Just like the old times, when I had a drink or two, I always text the people I was with that I got home safely so they would not worry about me.

He replied to me, "Mahal na yata kita kapatid. Love you."

I was shookt. It was so out of his character so I ignored it.

The next day, neither of us mentioned it at work but when I got home, he asked me what did he text me the night before. He sent me at least three messages about that which was also so not him. I didn't tell him because I thought it was his gf texting. I thought it was a "trap". The next day (again haha), during our fieldwork, he asked me wth did he txt me so I jokingly told him that he admitted he is gay. We laughed it off. When I got home, I read his messages

"kung anuman ang nasabi ko, sorry pero at least nasabi ang nararamdaman,"

"wag mo na lang pansinin"

i said okay.

then last night, we had the same conversation again but this time in person.

"Ano nga kasi yung tinext ko noon?"
"Sabi mo bakla ka."
"Wag ako haha"
"Ikaw nagtext tapos hindi mo alam?"
"Alam kong may tinext ako pero binura ko kaagad"

Made me think if he has always been like this, deleting stuff so his gf won't see. But I didn't see that coming. I look up to him so much that it didn't cross my mind he'll confess to other girl/s. He is one of the untouchable dudes. Like, he's so loyal, no one dares to flirt with him haha. Plus I am not the 'takaw tingin' kind of girl. Hindi ako pansinin.

But maybe he's still the per...

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somebodyuused2know
March 22, 2018 (6 months ago)

Hindi ko alam kung nagsi-share ka lang about it, or you wouldn't mind getting an unsolicited advise. But if you wouldn't mind me throwing my two cents, if I were you siguro kung type ko si guy, hindi ko man ipu-push na magkaroon kami ng relasyon, dahil nga taken na siya, siguro I'll ask him kung kaya ba niya ang risks in case mutual ang feelings. Kung sasabihin niyang oo, then, I would ask myself kung kaya ko ba naman ang risks hehehe. Labo no, kasi committed na siya at bilang babae, ayaw din nating makasakit ng kabaro natin.

But dont take it against him naman kung naging honest lang siya. Somehow mararamdaman mo naman kung gusto lang niya ng "side dish" o nagpakatotoo lang siya sa nararamdaman niya without any intention of taking it to another level.

Bottomline is: mahaba ang hair mo. :-D

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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Reawaken
March 22, 2018 (6 months ago)

Honestly, I don't know why I posted this. Maybe, I was just confused and shookt.

1. About the feelings being mutual - Tinanggal ko na agad sa isip ko to. He is likable tbh. He is an ideal mate. But I prevent myself from thinking that we can be together regardless of our feelings towards each other. He has a girlfriend period. Hahaha. If the person is taken, then that's it. If pursued, like you said, it going to have a lot of risks and pain and heartache. I learned this the hard way. I had been a 3rd party and I had been cheated on. Ang relasyon talaga dapat pang dalawang tao lang haha.

2.Β Β About him just being honest - wow, thank you for this. You're right. This kind of gave me a peace of mind. Maybe he just wants to let it out but doesn't have any plan on cheating. True, naramdaman ko naman na hindi ako 'side dish' haha. Unlike the other co-worker who tried to flirt with me. Unang banat pa lang, alam na. πŸ˜‚

3. Haba ng hair - hahahaha. Made me laugh sis!

Thank you sa two cents!❀

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User Not Found
March 22, 2018 (6 months ago)

bilang babae ?

wag mo na gamitin yun. never you.

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Reawaken
March 22, 2018 (6 months ago)

Gamitin ang alin po sir?

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User Not Found
March 23, 2018 (6 months ago)

Sir ? Mam .

"Virtual is like everything else. Assume nothing. Only then can you truly see what you're dealing with." - Quellcrist Falconer , Altered Carbon

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Fiction-Factory
March 23, 2018 (6 months ago)

Nice piece. Nice words. Ganda.
Hindi siya loyal, kundi caring. Yes, caring siya. Hindi rin talaga maganda kapag sobrang puti ng lalaki. Kaya huwag maghangad ng basta maginoo lang, dapat talaga medyo bastos din. Pitiful gf. -___-

To be honest, i'm a liar. β™₯β™žβ™¬β™‚βš„β˜œβ€ βˆ‡

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Reawaken
March 23, 2018 (6 months ago)

:(

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Lhabfloat
March 23, 2018 (6 months ago)

Sabi ko beautiful gf. Hahaha pano ba i-off ang word suggestions? Hehe (_")v

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Fiction-Factory
March 23, 2018 (6 months ago)

Hala bakit ganto admin??

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Istupher
March 25, 2018 (6 months ago)

There are guys like that... Developing feelings without them realizing it... Lalo na to a close friend, they won't realize na gusto ka nila unless may trigger, madalas selos. Minsan nga lang nawawala din... Mukha namang wala kang balak icater yung feelings ni guy, so just leave it be... He knows his boundaries (hope so)... Wag na wag mo lang siyang itease, mabilis bibigay yan that's for sure...

I myself have this, developed some feelings towards a close friend of mine, single naman kami pareho, but I am not telling her... Masaya na ako sa current setup... I'll just take care of her as usual... Anyway, agree ako, haba nga ng hair mo girl... :)

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Saudade
March 26, 2018 (6 months ago)

Sometimes kasi may mgavfeelings din kami mgavguy na tinatago and we keep it and control it as much as posible lalu na kung yung babae na yun is importante sa amin. darating din talaga sa time na aamin kami but that doesnt mean we want something in return. Need lang din ilabas para mabawas yun and to have a peace of mind kahit papaano.

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User Not Found
March 26, 2018 (6 months ago)

I disagree. sa una pa lang alam mo na meron na.

"Virtual is like everything else. Assume nothing. Only then can you truly see what you're dealing with." - Quellcrist Falconer , Altered Carbon

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