Pinoy stereotypes and double standards

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Date: January 21, 2018 (8 months ago)


I'm sorry guys but I'm sure you also have a different list for us Pinays or ladies in general.

Disclaimer: If you think you are not part of what is being described here, please comment with caution lest you come in as being defensive. These are just my opinion based on the guys I know.

Here are a few of my own list of stereotypes and double standards:

1. Most Pinoys are mama's boys but half of these will deny that they are one. One very evident trait is being undecisive. They rely on their mothers or eventually their partners to take care of matters which they see as "petty". Then they get used to it that they rely on them in almost all matters needing their decision.

2. First feeling pogi move is saying or texting or sending a pm that only says "Hi!". Unless a.) its real time chatting, how would you expect a girl/lady/woman to respond to that kind of message?! b.) you know each other already and saying a simple hi is enough to get her attention c.) refer to #1 as being undecisive and rely on the lady to lead the conversation.

3. Says that us girls are very talkative and always into sharing gossips. But actually, guys are more into these and more detailed. Most likely, the information from their gossips are more reliable that what their female counterpart knows.

4. Boys don't cry because they are macho and strong. Yeah right! All the more you prove that you are #1. You are strong because you are used to having your mama fight your battles.

5. Speaking of battles but somewhat a contradiction to being macho and strong. Pinoys shy away from confrontation. They will hide as much as they can if they are guilty and know that thare is no chance of winning this battle.

6. Pinoys are torpe. Another link to #1. Because they are used to being pampered and getting what they want without lifting a finger, they don't even know what to do to win their beloved's attention and eventually their heart. They are afraid of rejection or failure in general. Also a link to #4.

7. Guys can have multiple partners, even have a child/children out of wedlock without much questions asked. In some cases even have children from different partners. Sometimes it is even considered a trait as being "magaling", "lahing habulin" etc. Even in this age, women with a child out of...

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mjjhay
January 21, 2018 (8 months ago)

Hindi naman ako mama's boy pero bakit torpe ako? feeling pogi rin ako charot ahahaha

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SeniorCitizen50
January 21, 2018 (8 months ago)

Guilty sa no.7 of the rest unapplicable

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PrincessMaldita
January 22, 2018 (8 months ago)

Hahaha
If you say so sir.

I don't regret loving you. I still do but not as intense as before.

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starst1949
January 21, 2018 (8 months ago)

"You are strong because you are used to having your mama fight your battles."  This very wrong.
Mamas boys are WEAK..and do not how to handle even small problems, precisely because  of their overprotective  mothers  who have sheltered them ...fight their battle since birth...the reason why they are incapable of making important decision.

I agree that men are more chismoso..but I believe that women are  more  inclines to bastos when talking or joking about sexual matters.  They are also more open about   personal sexual problems  than men.  
  
No 7.   This is not confine only to Filipino males.  The double standard is universal.  Like it or not..its still a man's world.    True, changes are coming but surely it will take time before women achieve  the equality they truly deserve.
lastly, the title should be MALE Stereotypes ...not only Pinoy  because your issue is not limited to pinoy males.

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PrincessMaldita
January 22, 2018 (8 months ago)

Thank you.

Noted on the comments but I would like to keep it that way though. To use pinoys referring to males filipinos and not the general use. All the rest, grateful for your insights sir.

I don't regret loving you. I still do but not as intense as before.

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Okazaki
January 21, 2018 (8 months ago)

well said ma'am. i would have to agree on some, but will not on the other. let me explain a bit, its true at most men are mama's boys, its true, but that doesnt follow that they let the girls decide because they are mama's boys. men will kill me if they know me for telling you this, but it is a given rule, that a man cannot get married unless he's willing to say yes everytime.  yes its correct that boys dont cry, but real men do.  boys have gossips too, interestingly enough you are right, its more detailed and accurate than most women. but real men have intellectual conversations. and boys really like multiple sex partners, and DOMs like to have children all around coz its like a fashion statement. but real men are happy men with their wives.

on that note, please remember that for behind every man's success is a loving woman who supports them and behind every great man's down fall is a woman who is laughing.

"Her mind is an incredible mix of emotion and power. Even if I could grasp it, I couldn't hold it for long."

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Okazaki
January 21, 2018 (8 months ago)

and remember behind every woman who is angry and frustrated is man who have absolutely no idea where the fuck they messed up

"Her mind is an incredible mix of emotion and power. Even if I could grasp it, I couldn't hold it for long."

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cunTrina01
January 22, 2018 (8 months ago)

Can't help smiling while reading this. Good read :)

Smile :)

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Fiction-Factory
January 22, 2018 (8 months ago)

Sabi ng misis ko mamas boy ako, sabi naman ng mama ko under de saya daw ako. Saan naman kaya kami lulugar? Hehehe one of these days magiging mother ka rin sa son mo, siguro duon marerealized mo na na wala naman talagang mamas boy at under de saya. Tawag talaga sa kanila, "immature." Gulo talaga mag-isip ng mga babae. Haha

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SeniorCitizen50
January 22, 2018 (8 months ago)

Mama's Boy ha?E mas malala yung Papa's Little Girl....Mag bbf tapos pag ipinagpalit yun tumatakbong umiiyak kasi bakit sa iba na?Worst of it to be "Generalize".Truth be said....We don't want to yet when its a fate in life; what can you do but play it out and hope you did alright?

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Fiction-Factory
January 23, 2018 (8 months ago)

At eto pang isa Sir M. Pag mama ko nag-suggest, andaming argues, pero pag mama niya, aba ayos lang? Nasan naman ang hustisya? Hehehe at eto pa mas malala, parang may nakwento lang ako sa mama ko, chismoso na daw ako, samantalang yung mama niya, alam ang buong talambuhay namin! Ang unfair, diba? Haha

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Okazaki
January 22, 2018 (8 months ago)

Well said ficfac... its been a while man change handle lang hahha.

"Her mind is an incredible mix of emotion and power. Even if I could grasp it, I couldn't hold it for long."

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Fiction-Factory
January 23, 2018 (8 months ago)

Haha panu kita makikilala nyan bro?

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unholysaint
January 26, 2018 (8 months ago)

Is that list still applicable to this date? I mean, we are on the modern era now lol. The very least accurate sa list is the number 7. Pero, mga conservative nalang naman ang may double standard thinking pagdating sa mga babae.

When you have an accurate and detailed set of information, do you still considered it as gossip? Im just clarifying this one, "..guys are more into these and more detailed. Most likely, the information from their gossips are more reliable". If it is reliable and detailed, then its no longer a gossip. A gossip is synonymous to myth.

Impies Santo

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January 28, 2018 (8 months ago)

Nice list there. Noted. Will reply when I'm sober.

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hardware21
February 2, 2018 (8 months ago)

medyo agree ako dun sa 3 pero as you said it mas reliable ang information naming mga kasi we based it mostly on facts while females just based it on purely hearsays and gossips ha ha ha... so hindi masyadong gossip yung sa amin... minsan exaggerated or nilalagyan ng flavorings etc. pero based pa rin sa basic facts.... ha ha ha so mas tsimosa pa rin ang mga babae he he he...

very hard.... be ware

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Guest0
May 27, 2018 (4 months ago)

may comment ako dito kaso late na.. hehehe... bukas nalang...

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davidx
September 17, 2018 (1 month ago)

The SALT here is real. You're right to call these stereotypes because they are completely divorced from reality and only gives is your judgement of an entire gender.

First, most pinoys are mama's boys? Exactly how many Filipinos have you met? Are we to judge half the Philippine population because of the poor choices you've made with the men in your life?

Second, "Hi!" is how we on Planet Earth greet each other. How do you do it in your planet? Do you give your age/sex/location and a brief history of your family tree? Enlighten us, please.

Third, boys don't cry because we are LOGICAL about our problems instead of emotional. That's why you see us inventing computers and airplanes instead of asking our gal pals for moral support.

Lastly, that bit about single fathers? All you need to do as a single mom is put on makeup and go on a diet so you can date again. WE have to be paid well, have a sense of humor, and a nice car to be taken seriously.

Don't cross us boys. We invented debate.

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