Fubu Na Lang

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Date: August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)


I commend BigBadBoy for coming up with Kabit blog (link below) at gusto kong dugtungan ng mga bagay na dapat tandaan o ikilos ng mga lalake sa isyu na ganito, pambalanse na rin.

The 'extra marital affair' takes two to tango at mas mabigat ang responsibilidad ng mga guys. Gusto kong linawin na iba ang FUBU (fuck buddy) sa kalaguyo. Malaki ang kaibahan niyan pero sa KALAGUYO tayo magfocus para maikonek natin sa blog.

Mga 'tol, sa simula pa lang ay dapat alam mo ang kaya ng dibdib mo kung "kalaguyo" nga ba ang hanap mo at nababagay sayo o hindi. Kung hindi kaya ay huwag pasukin ito dahil hindi tama at nakakasira ng ulo.

Sa ibaba ay ilang dagdag na puntos na dapat tandaan kapag napasok sa ganitong sitwasyon.

1. Magkaroon ng bayag. Kung gagawin ito ay buo dapat ang loob mo. Isa pa, ikaw ang lalake kaya dapat na proteksyunan mo ang other woman at all cost. Shield her. Huwag yung mailusot lang ang sarili sa gusot ay hahayaan na ang kapartner na magdusa.

2. Huwag na huwag mong sasabihin na mas mahal mo ang other woman. Paasa yung style na yan at magbibigay ng ibang signal sa babae. Sarap nga naman sa pandinig eh lalo na kapag habang nilalabasan hahahaha. I suggest na sabihin na lang na "mahal kita", period (basta totoong nararamdaman). Huwag nang magkumpara.

3. As a gentleman ay huwag kang magkwento ng pangit against your wife na di mo naman magawang iwan in the first place. Huwag magtapang-tapangan sa maling lugar. Para na rin kase na sinasaktan mo ang mga anak mo kapag ganun dahil ina nila yan. Kung hindi mo kayang irespeto ang asawa mo ay iwan mo, otherwise, shut up and just have fun.

Ilayo mo ang pamilya mo sa kalokohan mo.

4. Intindihin at igalang ang needs ng other woman lalo na sa paminsan-minsan na lambing na hinahanap. Pakatandaan na hindi siya "fubu" lang. Ang fubu ay parang parausan sa isang derogative term with less responsibility.

Ang KALAGUYO ay pinagbubuhusan ng pansin, oras, respeto at pagmamahal. Sabi ko nga na kung hindi kaya ng dibdib mo yan ay huwag mong pasukin. Hanap ka na lang ng fubu mas okay pa.

5. Maging honest at huwag magsisinungaling. Hindi ka na nga tapat sa asawa ay ganun pa rin ba sa kalaguyo? Communicate with her in a sober and respectful manner at all times. Lahat naman ay pwedeng mapag-usapan kagaya ng pag-aadjust sa isa't isa base sa sitwasyon upang mas magkaunawaan lalo sa panahon na kailangan nang maghiwalay.

6. Kapag ang babae ay nagagalit, huwag salubungin. Kailangan lang na mailabas niya ang saloobin. Kasama sa pinasok natin yan mga 'tol. Pero kung darating sa wala na talaga kayong masasabi na maganda sa isa't isa, just CUT AND CUT CLEANLY.

Women are naturally more emotional than us kaya mas intindihin ang feelings nila. Mahalin at irespeto. Huwag lalabas sa bibig natin ang anumang salita na makaka-degrade sa kanya sa anumang pagkakataon, lalo na kapag hiwal...

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MidLifeCrisis
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Two months ago, eto din ang sinabi ko sa isa kong FB buddy. Kung sakali mang magiging bukas uli ang katawan ko sa isang lalake, I'd rather have a fubu nalang kesa ma-involved na naman ang puso ko. Masakit eh mahirap mag-move on kapag pati puso ang ginagamit ko. If I can help it, I'd limit myself up to my loins. Wag na syang umakyat pa sa heart. It's not really my forte but if others can do then why can't I?

Mamaya ko na basahin ang buong blog, casanova :D Napacomment lang ako sa title itself. Ligo muna ako :))

And.I.Care.Not.

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Lo, hahaha, bwisit, hindi ako iyakin, alam mo yan. Just as you know who am I, what I am, what I do. And I hate it that this piece made me teary eyed when I started reading it, before I knew it, blurry na glasses ko, amft, naiyak na pala ko talaga hahaha.

Point #5 has hit me hard. Kasi that's my mantra. And I know you know why. No need to elaborate.

I was skeptical pano mo itatawid ang ganitong punto. Lalo from a personal standpoint, ironic it may seem, pero between the wife and the mistress, I would never ever throw my empathy to the other woman. Pero nakalimutan ko, IKAW YAN EH. And I never should have doubted how your mind works.

This post just made me realize I haven't changed my list of TOP FAVES WRITERS here. Bonus pa na kaibigan kita.

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

TOP FAVES ba o TOP FAVE?  Whatever,  with S or without S, yun na yun. Lol. Pardon my grammatical lapses na lang. Emo-emohan bigla ang lola mo eh hahaha

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Dapat yata idagdag ni BBB sa list niya ang bawal ang iyakin hahahaha

Good job!

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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BigBadBoy
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Pambihira paps bakit nung sinuslat ko yung topic comedy dating. Yung sayo ang bigat sa loob ko di ako naka ilag dun. Hahahaha! Sa sinulat ko pitik...  Yung sayo apir... Sa mukha... Gamit silya!  Mamya na ko magcomment ng galing sa puso. Magkaklase muna ako hahahaha

I don’t suffer from insanity. I enjoy every minute of it.

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bwahahaha, pag ganitong mga isyu, I love to see a very candid comment from a man. Tipong aminadong bato-bato sa langit, nung tumama, may bukol hahahaha.

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

I guess maraming guilty na lalake, kasama na ako, lalo na yung hindi pa sanay magdala ng ganyan or hindi alam ang gusto talaga.

Good job!

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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BigBadBoy
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Kanina ko pa iniisip ang sinulat ni pareng bebeko at narealize ko na "shet duguan ako...  Me tama ako ng mga sinabi nya." now based sa mga pointers nya i check myself and what happened before. ('twas a long time ago.)

#1 taena ang laki pala ng betlog ko...  Sinalo ko lahat ang sisi para maprotektahan si ateng para hindi sya masisi at hindi masira ang pamilya nya.
#2 tricky ang part na to lalo na kung ex mo (pers lab) ang naging kalaguyo,  nung una sabi ko walang pupuso,  pero mahirap sa sitwasyon ko
#3 baligtad ang nangyari sa akin sya nagkukwento ng mali at pangit sa asawa nyang pangit. Wala pa ko anak nun pero naisip ko na ang mga anak nya kaya sinalo ko lahat ng sisi at nung nagkabukuhan at nagkahulihan na... Salo ko ang mundo at masama loob sa akin ng lahat.
#4 eto ang expertise ko dahil sa taglay kong landi na minana ko sa tatay ko.
#5 ok sana ang paghihiwalay pero iba ang nangyari sa sitwsyon ko walang paalamanan na nangyari naputol na lang bigla ang lahat sa isang iglap.

I don’t suffer from insanity. I enjoy every minute of it.

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BigBadBoy
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

#6 kung walang masasabing maganda alis na lang wag ng sumabay sa galit at inis. Wala na ko maidadagdag pa rito.

Napakahirap pumasok sa isang patagong relasyon, like what i said i had my fair share of this exciting adventure. Kung tatanungin mo ko kung pinagsisihan ko sya...  Ang sagot oo at hindi, oo kasi marami akong nasaktan pati sarili ko, hindi kasi bago ko pinasok ang sitwasyon pinagisipan ko muna at naging reaponsable ako sa pwedeng kahinatnan ng relasyon. Kung tatanungin nyo ko kung uulit pa ako...  Maaari, depende sa sitwasyon depende sa pagkakataon.  Minsan kasi marupok ako... At me taglay na landi, sabi nga sa akin ng nanay ko noon. "kung naging babae ka malamang pokpok ka, manang mana ka sa tatay mong babaero."

Happy weekebd everyone! Wooot wooot!

I don’t suffer from insanity. I enjoy every minute of it.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Well said bbb. Reflection and self realization is what we all need para makaiwas sa paulit ulit na sakit ng ulo at para di na rin naman makasakit sa iba.

Good job!

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lara0123
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Hahaha. Ayos sa tips, idol.
At talagang may free seminar ka pa sa mga prospects mo.

Let's not complicate things.

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lara0123
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Hahaha. Naku sorry naman, yung comment ko taas naligaw lang nspasunod kay idol 3B.

Nice one, Sir Bebeko.

Let's not complicate things.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Thanks.

Good job!

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queenpokie
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

gusto ko yan bebeko! tama wag na sinisiraan pa si wife para lang sa pansariling kapakanan! silang dalawa nalang maglokohan wag na idamay ang asawang nananahimik na niloloko na sinisiraan pa.. kaloka!

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Love the handle talaga hehehe. Welcum to FSS pretty. :-D

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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queenpokie
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

thanks ate! :*

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

#whogoat for you queen!

Welcome sa fss.

Good job!

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rmpunkista
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

ang kabit bow...........

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antoinette
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Kung ako yong kalaguyo at sinabihan na wag mag ilusyon or wag magtext, etc. Sasabihin ko get lost and fu** yourself, you are wasting my time. Tama si Bebeko, mag fubu ka na lang at least di mo kailangan magpanggap ng  feelings or magfake ng orgasm. Pero better pa rin pag single ang ka fubu.

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Sige tonet ilabas mo nga hinaing moooo hahahahaha

Good job!

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antoinette
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Hahaha wala akong hinaing.  Hindi ako kabit, tukso lang ako.  May choice ka naman.  Why settle to be the other one when you can be the only one?

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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BigBadBoy
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

I agree na me choice ang isang tao. Pero me mga taong naging biktima ng 'eksaktong pagkakataon'  at nung mga oras na yun nadarang sila at pinagpalit ang lahat sa inaakala nilang pinaka masayang oras/relasyon sa buhay nila. Just my 2 cents. :)

I don’t suffer from insanity. I enjoy every minute of it.

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antoinette
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

I feel you. At least past na yon. Hope the experience made you a better and stronger person.  (wag sana better kabit, wehehe jowk lang)

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Tonet, sige maging tukso ka lang sa amin hahahaha

Good job!

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antoinette
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Hahaha cge ba. im a very positive at wala akong seneseryoso.

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Swak na swak Tonet! Hahaha

Good job!

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Maligalig... nagsasabong ang link ni bigbadboy at blog mo sir.

Paki-explain, Ano pala ang pagkakaiba or yung sinasabi mong malaking kaibahan ng fuck buddy (fubu) sa isang kabit (lover, mistress, paramour)?

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

To make it clearer. This blog is for guys wheras kay bbb naman is for ladies. Walang sabong dahil malinaw ang distinction kung binasa mo pareho.

Fubu ay isang sexual relationship.

Good job!

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Yung number 1 niya, iba sa number 4 mo? So, pwede mag assume ang isang kabit ng time, respeto at pagmamahal? Yung fubu, hindi, ganun ba sir?

Yung fubu, isang sexual relationship. Ang kalaguyo, ay hindi? Merong romance, merong love at baka meron pang friendship? Kumpletos recados? Ah, okey..ganun pala.

Salamat sa insight. Mabuhay ka sir!

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Matatanda, rather nasa hustong edad, na tayo kaya alam pinapasukang relasyon que kabit o fubu set up man yan. May kanyang kanyang dahilan kung bakit nabubuo ang extra marital "relationship". Anumang set up yan, panatilihin ang respeto at bukas na pag uusap. Eenjoy ang oras na magkasama at sulitin ang dapat sulitin dahil hindi alam kung ano ang pwedeng mangyari sa hinaharap.

Bilang babae, masarap sa pakiramdam na pinapadama ang pagpapahalaga ng partner/fuckner sa oras na magkasama sila. Para hindi lumampas sa linya ng relasyong pinasok at maiwasan ang masaktan, REALITY CHECK from time to time.

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Awwwwwe! I miss your words of wisdom, FGM! But most especially, I missed you! Did you miss me? Hmmmmmwaaaaah!

shobe♥

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bunsoooooo imishuuuuuuuu too. Sorry busy ang lola lately kaya pasilip silip lang pag may time. Buti blackout ngayon kaya nakasawsaw sa comments. Pero mas masarap kung may nakasawsaw na etits sa masabaw na pekpek. Hahahaha...

Captcha: embryo... Huh? Sana baby boy na. Lol

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

HAHAHA OMG OMG!!! Before di ka nagsasalita ng ganyan when I'm around kasi Rated SPG! Now, it's so like, out in the open! Haha Love youuuuuuu FGMomma!

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bunso panahon na para maging open na sa ganyang bagay. Pag isipan mo na lang kung kelan mo ioopen mga hita para malasap ang ligaya. Lol

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Sige pag iisipan ko FGM! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

CAPTCHA: anopia

Hala, anopia, absence of sight! Sabagay di naman kelangan ng sense of sight para makapag isip kung ioopen na ang mga hita FGM diba? Hahaha :D

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Uyyy need ang sense of sight. Syempre titignan mo itsura kung kaya ng sikmura mong madilaan buong katawan ng taong yun. Titignan mo rin etits kung thumbelina or kasya sa femfem. Need din sense of sight ng partner mo at baka butas ng fwet ang pasukan not unless trip mo ng anal. Hahahahaha...

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

FGM naman eh! Hahaha granted na yun na yummy ang guy! HAHAHAHAHA

Pero kelangan pa pala talaga ng sense of sight para ishoot yung toot, FGM? O_o

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bunso kung ayaw gamitin ang sense of sight dahil gusto ay sense of touch, sigaw ka lang ng "wag dyan, ututan yan"! Ewwwwwwww

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Tangna hahaha, inannngggg anuba, windang na yang bunso mo sa mga pointers mo hahahaha.

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Oo nga, akala ko, now na may blessing na from FGM, bale dadahan dahanin nya yung lessons. Agad-agad pala, mej di ako nakaprepare hahahahaha

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

O di kaya, "Bo! Wag dyan! Ako pang sai dyan!"

HAHAHAHA! :D

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Ang gulooooooooooooo! I mean, not your blog, Tito BBK (it's awesome, btw) but the illicit relationships per se. Magulo, yet so many people are still enticed to be in such relationship. Hmmmmm..

shobe♥

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bunso sexciting kasi ang bawal. Sa babaeng ayaw ng clinging na lalaki, safe makipagrelasyon sa may asawa lalo na kung devoted sa pamilya dahil siguradong hindi makulit at demanding.

Kapag nagsesex, rapido ang peg ng lolo at super intense. Wag na wag lang syang mabilis labasan dahil sisipain ko sya ng bonggang bongga. Ihuhulog ko sya hagdan o kaya sa bintana kapag nilabasan sya na hindi pa ako sulit.

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Hehehe. Hihihihi. Hahahaha. Bwahahaha.

Wag si crush ko ha, wafu yun para sipain at ihulog mo lang sa kama!

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Sissy maparaan si crush mo. Kung hindi labasan sa itot dahil nilabasan agad, sisid marino gagawin non para tumirik mata ko. Ngudngod sa pekpek at ipit ng ga-troso kong mga hita mapapala nya. Lol

Captcha: refuel... Ayan kailangan nya. Bwahahaha

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Wahhhh hahaha, di ko kinaya!

Daan nga ako sa opisina nun, papakilala ako, tanungin ko kung di naman niya kinailangan ng oxygen after the bout. Lol!

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Gora sissy. Tutal malapit lang sya sa workplace mo at naoturo ko na sayo office nya. Go go go. :D

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

OMG who is this "crush"? I'm so left out?! Or is it really intended that I'd be left out? Hahaha :))

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bunso its soooo complicated. Lol

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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somebodyuused2know
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Yangnu, yes, kahit may blessing na ng FGM mo ang ganitong mga topics, grounded ka pa rin sa akin hahaha. Biruan lang namin ni inang yan, may nanliligaw kasi sa kanya na super crush ko, as in guwapo, and you know when I said guwapo, guwapo talaga. Kaso madamot yang lola mo, ayaw ipakilala sa akin, baka daw reypin ko lol.

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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inang.grasya
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bunso pag nagkita na tayo, isisiwalat ko kung sino yun at ikaw ang bahalang mag judge kung talagang wafu yun. Mga lola na kami. Baka sadyang madilim na mga mata namin. Bwahahaha

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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shobe.sheen
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Ah, kaya pala according to FGM it's soooo complicated. Haha FGM, sharing is loving! :D

Haha behave pa rin pala dapat ako kasi strict ang moms ko. Hihi :))

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Behave ba? Wag masyado coz u might miss a lot sige ka hahahaha

Good job!

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Shobe, pagpasensyahan mo na ang mga matatandang yan at masyadong maiinit. Pero tignan mo naman at sagot ka ng sagot hahahahaha

Good job!

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BellaVictoria
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

As usual nasa labas ako. Bawal magreact masyado. Babalikan ko mamaya ito para sa comments ko. :D

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BellaVictoria
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

In general, wala namang mahirap basta i-manage lang ang expectations sa umpisa pa lang. Sa umpisa, hindi midway ng "relasyon". Clear cut dapat and agreeable on both parties. Parang coffee or chupa lang yan. Coffee lang kung coffee, chupa lang kung chupa -- or both.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Chupa gusto ko hahaha. Thanks sa insight BV.

Good job!

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BellaVictoria
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

I think most of the guys would take the chupa lang.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bella, chupa pala ang MAS gusto ko hahahaha

Good job!

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BellaVictoria
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

So meaning BOTH pero MAS gusto ang chupa? Hahaha wtf.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Bwahahaha bakit kailangan pang idiin yunnnn bwahahahaha. Sige magkape tayo soon!

Good job!

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anino
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Naks! Masasabing me naging ka fubu narin ako well ex ko naging ganun kami after three years of dating then our relationship went down the drain nung.... Anyway, me naging ka relasyon siya na nasa pinas who later became her husband while they are on that bf/gf phase lumalabas din kami.

I could say na mas naging clear sa aming dalawa ang pagiging ganun ang relasyon namin I mean not a "real" relationship more of like relation lang. Things made sense when we are fucking without having to think of where to go for a date tomorrow or magplano ng future sa relationship namin. I guess in the end instead of us kissing and saying "I love yous" we are more happy to say "next sunday" to each other. Hehehehe

The Wanderer!

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Anino, that's the main point. Nadale mo. Easier and thrilling. Fubu is better kapag ganyan and at least alam ng lalake/babae ang gusto at pinasok na 'relasyon'.

Good job!

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BigBadBoy
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Ang saya sana kung lahat ng babae ganyan. Based on my experience, kahit iset ang expectations and magbifay ng ground rules pag tumatagal yung mga babae pumupuso pa rin. And minsan ako mismo natatangay (marupok talaga ko eh) ang ending nagkakaroon ng masakit na hiwalayan pa rin. Ahihihi.

I don’t suffer from insanity. I enjoy every minute of it.

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Bebeko
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

BBB dapat kumpunihin mo yung marupok na bahagi ng puso lalo pa kung madalas mangyari. Sa huli kase ay tayo rin ang talo diyan kaya dapat mas maingat na sa mga susunod pa and to follow your personal rules religiously.

Good job!

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BigBadBoy
August 28, 2015 (3 years ago)

Ok na sya ngayon, pinalagyan ko na ng bagong brace at pinaoverhaul ko na rin kya matibay na. Hahahaha

I don’t suffer from insanity. I enjoy every minute of it.

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Bebeko
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Minsan nagigiba ang brace nyan kaya kalsuhan mo hahaha. Hirap maperfect talaga pero ang mahalaga ay natututo tayo.

Good job!

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CarmiV
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Tama ka Sir BebeKo, napaka- importante ng respeto at honesty sa kahit na anung uri ng relasyon.

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Bebeko
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

True Carmi. Kapag nawala ang respect ay ihinto na agad kahit inlab na inlab ka pa sa isang tao. Mas mahalaga ang self respect, isang bagay na dapat intact sa isang tao.

Good job!

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CarmiV
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

There are men who don't know how to handle "illicit relationships".
Some don't even know the difference between FUBU and Kalaguyo and when drama arises there would be an exchange of hurtful words to the extent that someone becomes disrespectful to his/her partner.

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Bebeko
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Ms. Carmi hayaan mo kapag natapat ka sa tanders ay tyak na mamahalin at irerespeto ka hahahahaha

Good job!

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BigBadBoy
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Apir! Hahahaha

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CarmiV
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Sir BebeKo, what range po ba ng tanders? May iba kasi na ang diskarte ay parang teenager :))

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BigBadBoy
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Permission to butt in, i think the range here is not the numbers, i think its more of the maturity and experience, if i may say. Sayo na nga nanggaling me diskarteng pang teenager which works for some, pero yung diskarteng nahutok ng panahon, yun yung nagbibigay ng palum-palong respeto at pagmamahal. Just my two cents.

I don’t suffer from insanity. I enjoy every minute of it.

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Bebeko
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Carmi, sa FSS we have an unwritten range here as part of our long tradition. We put it around 36 years of age pataas at tinatawag ng tanders or SC (Senior Citizen ). Certified na masarap maglambing at magmahal hahahaha

Good job!

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MidLifeCrisis
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Actually it's 35 and up ;)

18-21 PBB Teens and in between the PBB Teens and the Tanderz are the Yuppies :)

:D

And.I.Care.Not.

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Bebeko
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Yunnnnn.., mabuhay ang tanderssss

Good job!

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BigBadBoy
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Potah konting tambling na lang kasama na ko sa senior citizen na to ah. Hahahaha

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Ms. CarmiV. Anu para sau ang malaking kaibahan ng kalaguyo sa fubu? Sir bebeko has already answered it, pero mas maganda yata manggaling sa point of view ng isang girl ang sagot, para naman mas may feelings at mas malinaw. Pwede paki-elaborate ng mabuti?

Kasi, parehas lang illicit relationship di b? Parehas immoral. So ano pagkakaiba ng dalawa?

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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CarmiV
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

My answer would be just the same like what the author implied. Clear and simple naman ang explanation.

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Ah ok. Clear and simple pala eh. Madami lang talaga ngayon di alam kung ano ang fubu at ano ang kalaguyo. Kung magsalita, parang alam nila talaga. Pag tinanong, wala naman maibigay, nagkakasya sa kung ano ang sinasabi ng iba. Ok sana kung tama, eh mali din naman di ba?

Easy talk than done, yun yata yun! Thanks for the reply CarmiV.

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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somebodyuused2know
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

If I may throw in my two cents, Sir GH, may I ask if you've read this blog? How hard is it to comprehend Sir? Taglish naman siya. Anong lenggwahe po kaya  dapat gamitin ng otor for you be enlightened about the differences of being a fubu as against being a mistress? Nagtatanong din lang po kasi baka makatulong sa inyo kung itatranslate ni otor sa ibang language or dialect ang kaibahan ng fubu sa kabit hehehe.

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Sure, just throw in, bùtt in, add in, or do whatever you please. Di naman akin yung blog. Ang alam ko, sinabi ni sir bebeko na fubu is an illicit relationship daw. Yung mistress, illicit din di ba? So what makes the difference po ba? Baka sinasabi niya is "no strings attached, walang commitment?"

Pero obviously, kahit ganun, wala pa din pinagkaiba di b? Kahit naman fuck buddy or friends with benefits, meron pa ring respeto tulad din ng kalaguyo. Ang point ko lang, it will mislead the readers na kapag fubu lang, free ka gawin as in parausan lang. That is an obvious euphemism kasi. Kawawa naman yung mga tao who's into fubu.
Kalaguyo or fubu, or anu pa man yan, they all need to be treated fairly naman yata. Walang discretion.  The more pa nga yata tayo maging considerate sa fubu, kasi they are agreeing to be fuck partner, without demanding so much. Pero, nasa lalaki na yung pagdadala.

Taglish naman ang ang lenggo, naiintindihan naman ma'm. Ewan sa iba.

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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somebodyuused2know
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Ayun naman pala Sir, may opinyon ka naman pala about it, why didn't you just share it instead of throwing a question which somehow ended up sarcastically?

Welcome to FSS Sir. Kahit matagal na rin naman pala kayo member. And thanks for sharing your opinion.

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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antoinette
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Halos walang relationship ang FUBU.  May konting romance pero kapag tag init lang or on the day itself. There is no obligation to text, send message, or even say words of love kasi magiging misleading sa partner.  So feelings, if there is any, you just keep to yourself.  The excitement here is the guessing game kung may feelings at wala. The other excitement is the preparation and creativity to make each event something to look forward to.  But the arrangement is clear.  Status is 'were friends' pero not that close because you keep each others lives as private as possible.

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Very good, ms. Antoinette. A very commendable comment. However there are some things needs to be smoothen up.

It's not true that there is no real relationship in fubu. There is, kaya nga lang in a very liberal way. No strings attached is the best descriptive word. Pero I don't agree na yung romance, eh good for one day lang. Hangga't ok sila, pwede, for a season, or over a period of time..kaya nga fuck buddy, it's not just a one night stand.

Yung text and other obligatory stuff you mentioned, they are all discretionary. Pwede mo sabihin, pwede mo gawin at your pleasure. Pero, siyempre meron ka pa din responsibility and you're not totally exempted na tulad ng tumira ka ng bayaran.

Maganda ang sagot, ms. Antoinette. A very satisfying one.

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Kayo ma'm,  baka meron kayo ibang interpretation sa fubu? Or baka parausan lang din interpretation niyo? Tulad ba ng mga nasa tabi-tabi, on call lang kapag kinakati ng libog? Baka naman bayaran 'yun?

Mahirap kasi yung mag assume tayo sa isang bagay na alam natin, yun naman pala ay hindi. Not unless, we are really into that situation.

Fubu, friends with benefits, mistress, paramour - they all categorized as one. illicit relationship. Bakit, pag nahuli ka ba ng asawa mo na nakapatong sa fubu, sasabihin mo fubu ko lang yun, so no need to worry? Di mo siya poprotektahan kasi fubu siya at di kalaguyo? Ganun ba yun? WLa siya angal kung babuyin mo ng husto dahil parausan lang siya at di kalaguyo?  Ganun ba yun, ma'm?

Kaya ask ko si CarmiV, to share her personal point of view bilang babae as fubu. Kasi, it is clearly a misconception at degrading sa part nila.

Yun lang po.

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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antoinette
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Sorry nakikisagot ako.  Di naman sya degrading talaga.  Syempre when that time comes protect mo pa rin kasi for others the act is the same.  Hindi bayaran, talagang mutual consent lang.

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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Bebeko
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Thanks Tonet, lab kita talaga kapag dating sa ganito. Sana basahin mabuti ang blog dahil some of it ay nandun na and self explanatory naman. I like your reply din sa itaas, beautiful!!!

Captcha: POSING

Hahahaha

Good job!

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somebodyuused2know
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Point well taken Sir. Yun nga po ang tanong ko sa inyo, I don't get it why instead of just sharing your take about the issue, idinaan pa ninyo sa tanong na ang ending is questioning the writer's own pov.

You seem to be  a smart guy, just a piece of unsolicited advise here, try sharing your thoughts Sir in a less condescending manner. You'll see, it'll be more fun. :-)

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

No, condescending is not my game. I was just waiting for a rightful answer from a girl's POV. I never acted like that in sir bebeko, knowing he has a good point of view as a man. It is totally different if it comes from the aggrieved party, which is in this case,  obviously the woman.
I even commend the blogger, di ba? Nakulangan lang ako siguro sa sagot niya. And upon a good research on topic, medyo naliwanagan ako. Thanks to google.

Siyempre, iba pa rin yung galing talaga yung komento sa totoong miyembro.

Thanks for the advise, ms. Di naman tayo smart guy, nagdudunung-dunungan lang dahil ke mr. Google. Salamat poe sa advise.

Gamsahamnida.

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Clap, clap, clap Sir BBK.

Kakatuwa palitan ng comments. Very informative. Dami kong natutunan. Pwede kong iaplay in real life. Hihihihi

Sa lahat ng comments, si Mr. Greyhoundz mukhang may pinaghuhugutan. May pinagdadaanan po ba kayo? Hihihihi. May kasounds-like kang member dito kung magcomment. Pati sa haba ng comments, ganon din. Wish ko kasing haba rin sana ng ano yun. Sarapppp. Hindi kaya ikaw rin yun at nagtatago sa ibang username? Tanong lang po. Hihihihi

Gawa ka kaya ng sarili mong blog na pwedeng kapulutan ng aral tutal Mr Perfect ang gusto mong iproject. Hihihihi. Kakastress ka. Napakanega mo parecoy. Nagmumukha ka tuloy insecure kay Sir BBK. Hihihihihi. Peace

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Mr.Greyhoundz
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Sino po kayo ms?
Di po tayo close. Wala akong pakialam sa ibang miyembro kung mahaba or maiksi ang kung ano gusto mo sa kanila. Spare me, salamas!

If you want me to engage in you, do it in a very logical manner. Wala po ako time sa ganyang walang kuwentang usapan, ms. Don't be offended ha, pero I won't buy your time. Sa isang knowledgeable conversation, pwede ako.

Gansahamnida na din sau, ms.

ATHAZAGORAPHOBIA --The fear of forgetting you.

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Bebeko
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

Salamat sa lahat ng comments. A little level up ng convos and I'm sure engaging ang kalalabasan. Hindi lang maialis talaga ang kakulangan sa pang-unawa minsan sa pagbabasa kahit tagalog.

Ang blog ay isang karugtong ng isa pang blog na MALINAW na nasasaad (with link). Malinaw rin na nakasaad na ito'y HINDI TAMA but it is beyond the issue. Wala tayo dito para magpreach kung ano ang tama o mali (common sense lang sana). Kaya lamang sa naunang blog ay puro mga do's and dont's for women and this one was for men.

I advise everyone to read before engaging at huwag dumidiretso agad sa comment section without absobing the posts first. If gustong igiit ang saloobin ay mainam po na gumawa rin ng isang blog like what I did at puntohan ang sariling pananaw.

But nevertheless, still a lively discussion. Iwasan na lang sana ang pagkukunwari dahil sabi ko nga ITO'Y KATUWAAN LAMANG AT WAG SESERYOSOHIN.

Good job!

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Bebeko
August 29, 2015 (3 years ago)

RESPETO ang pairalin sa anumang talakayan. Iba iba karanasan, iba ibang pananaw. It's always good to sharpen our minds as long as you wont insist or shove your opinion to someone's throat.

Good job sa mga commenters. Kahit dito ay we require civility and objectivity. Thanks again.

Good job!

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