No-label-relationship
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Confession: True Story, Tagalog · Categories: Reluctance, Romance · Tags: kinilig pero di inibig
Date: September 10, 2023 (21 days ago)
Hello FSS! I hope everyone is having and enjoying their weekend. Just a disclaimer, this is a non-erotic piece but more of generating opinions hopefully from those who have been into a NO-LABEL-RELATIONSHIP or currently having this set-up.
Shout out to Ms. TAKENG for your vivid insight about this. Your opinion alone is more than enough to ponder but as you agreed as well that it might be good to have this on the confession board so here it is. I really appreciate and thank you po for "whispering" your time and effort last night!
Again, Hello everyone!
Single Yen here, an AB Grad and a public servant, 27. Mahilig mag analisa, mag overthink, suplada na mataray pa – feisty – sabi nila. That's because they do not know how vulnerable and deeply affectionate I am (tanong nyo pa sa EX ko na gago este gwapo, juts nga lang…charootJ)! Although matagal na akong curious sa NLR di ako nangahas magtanong about it, nang dahil kay EX at sa someone din kung bakit sumasagi sa isipan ko yan lately kaya naglakas loob ako magtanong about this last night sa chatroom.
Dahil sa nature ng work ko that requires travel, kahit pa nakakamiss magmahal ulit, I don't have the luxury of time to be in a committed relationship coz probably kahit walang trauma sa naging hiwalayan, mauulit na naman yong sa amin ni ex that ended because sa kawalan na oras at communication, and of course recurring ulit yong magkikipag debate ka sa isipan mo na kahit pa naman may long distance set-up na yong relasyon nyo, pupuwede pa naman mapanatili through communication basta di mo lang nafi-feel na may iba na siya kaya di nakakatawag o...
Shout out to Ms. TAKENG for your vivid insight about this. Your opinion alone is more than enough to ponder but as you agreed as well that it might be good to have this on the confession board so here it is. I really appreciate and thank you po for "whispering" your time and effort last night!
Again, Hello everyone!
Single Yen here, an AB Grad and a public servant, 27. Mahilig mag analisa, mag overthink, suplada na mataray pa – feisty – sabi nila. That's because they do not know how vulnerable and deeply affectionate I am (tanong nyo pa sa EX ko na gago este gwapo, juts nga lang…charootJ)! Although matagal na akong curious sa NLR di ako nangahas magtanong about it, nang dahil kay EX at sa someone din kung bakit sumasagi sa isipan ko yan lately kaya naglakas loob ako magtanong about this last night sa chatroom.
Dahil sa nature ng work ko that requires travel, kahit pa nakakamiss magmahal ulit, I don't have the luxury of time to be in a committed relationship coz probably kahit walang trauma sa naging hiwalayan, mauulit na naman yong sa amin ni ex that ended because sa kawalan na oras at communication, and of course recurring ulit yong magkikipag debate ka sa isipan mo na kahit pa naman may long distance set-up na yong relasyon nyo, pupuwede pa naman mapanatili through communication basta di mo lang nafi-feel na may iba na siya kaya di nakakatawag o...
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September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
For me NLR para Lang Lang Yan sa mga bato Ang puso, yes maraming advantage and disavantage yan. Para Lang kasi kayo nyan nag best friend pero next level Lang sya Kasi may involve na sex. However kapag nainlove ka Naman tapos friends Lang pala talaga Turing sayo is aray ka na Lang, Wala ka karapatan magalit Kasi from the word NLR.
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Point taken. Taken you. Plus 10 ka sa akin. Bilhan kita Fish Protein. haahaha
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
dont engage girl, its not healthy, u wil end up investing emtion in the long run..and longing for a label
try only once
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Appreciate it. Thanks.
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
100 out of 99 relationship, hindi nagiging successful sa LDR., for me, NLR is same ng FUBU, pinasosyal lang.,kasi iyutan lang din naman ang habol nyo sa isa't-isa eh., there is no such thing as No Label Relationship. Lahat ng relasyon natin sa mga tao sa paligid natin, emotional, sexual or platonic man, may label pa din yun.,ikaw na lang ang makakapag sabi ng preference mo na will babagay sa lifestyle na meron ka ngayon. But i think your strong woman.,so just be Single and Ready To Mingle type muna ikaw (for now). Good luck
"Eh sa Wala NGa Akong No Choice"
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Your comment is on point. I was about to ask the difference between NLR and FUBU! I was told to ponder a lot, and to lay the terms and conditions should I accept the proposal. At sumagi sa isip maging condition ko kaya ang no-sex contact, would that even be possible (especially na ex ko sya). But thank you for shedding light between NLR and FUBU. To be honest, FUBU is not my cup of tea...tingin ko kasi PARAUSAN (pardon for my word) lang.
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Try mo mag set Ng rules regarding dun sa no sex contact, tingnan mo if ano magiging reaction nya if e entertain kapa ba nya and dun naman sa fubu yes parausan lang talaga Kaya dapat same kayo nag be benefit jn.
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
and iba din beh....salamat, Atty. pa draft ng contract....hhahaha
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Parausan lang talaga yang Fubu Fubu na yan and sadly,99% of the time, talo ang babae,its either accidentally na mabuntis dahil sa kagaguhan ng partner, or mainlababo dahil sa sweetness. Kahit saan mo tingnan, talo ang babae sa Fubu-Fubu na yan.,pero meron pa din namang 1% na mapapalad at magagaling magdala na mga lahi ni Eba. Regarding naman jan sa Ex mo, libreng kantot lang habol nyan sayo. Nung kayo nga, hindi ka na nya maasikaso ng maayos kahit may libreng eut na sya.,ngayon pa na ang proposal nya eh eeut lang sya ng libre, na walang kahit anong kakaharapin na consequence at responsibilidad dahil nga "wala naman kayong label"? Abay pagka swerte naman ng mokong na yan.,Buti sana eh kung kasing gwapo namin ni Juswa Garcia yang Ex mong walang betlog hahaha. Pag nagkausap kayo ulet, sabihin mo.,ipabate na lang nya sa nanay nya ung ratbu nya pra maalwan sya ng libog at baka sakaling matauhan
"Eh sa Wala NGa Akong No Choice"
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Hmmm. Nice topic. If mahal mo pa si ex talaga, NO. If habol mo lang din naman eh sex, YES. However, in the end, either both of you or ikaw ang magsa-suffer.
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Definitely hindi na mahal. And also, NO talaga magiging sagot ko sa kanay. Bakit nya pa gusto makipagbalikan kung ganonlang din set-up. lol
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Song request, Let me be the one by Jaime Bondoc. Thanks..
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Havent been in NLR, but my point of view lugi mga babae. Women in general are easily get attached to opposite gender when that person is caring, sweet or malambing. In my personal opinion, dont go in a relationship (bf/gf) if youre not ready to get married. Having a bf/gf should not be the end goal but marriage.
September 11, 2023 (20 days ago)
Point taken sir. Thank you.
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Hmmm hindi ako familiar sa NLR, pero I agree sa isang comment na halos similar ito sa FUBU, siguro nga binago lang ang terminology. I think, if FUBU is not your cup of tea, then NLR is not for you also. The way I see NLR is bf/gf pero walang commitment. Gagawin nyo mga typical or usual activities ng mag bf/gf pero iyong relationship nyo walang commitment. Unless siguro nga mag agree kayo sa set of rules. Sa tingin ko base sa mga replies mo hindi para sa iyo ang NLR hahahaha. Maybe you can try why not, baka may madiscover kang kakaiba sa ganitong set up hahahaha.
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
Pahabol...weird lang gusto ng ex mong makipagbalikan pero NLR ang set up. Hindi yata pakikipagbalikan yun. Kung makikipagbalikan dapat bf/gf ang status hehehehe. So I think sa proposal na NLR, ang inisip nya lang dito is ang kanyang sariling opinion at damdamin.
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
libreng kantot lang pakay nun pre.,wala ng iba, Or magrecord ng video nila ni author habang nagkakantutan para may pang blackmail sya incase na kailangan nya ng pera
"Eh sa Wala NGa Akong No Choice"
September 10, 2023 (20 days ago)
For me, hndi naman lahat ng LDR hndi nagiging maganda it all depends sa communication and how u stayed committed sa partner mo. Sample na lng yung last relationship ko. LDR kami pero sya ang napang-asawa ko we had 2 kids and almost 15 years kaming happily married. Kung kelan nga umuwi ng Pinas and ngkasama tsaka ngkaproblema hehehe anyway, to cut the story short hndi naman lahat ng LDR hndi nagiging successful nasa 2 tao yan na nasa relationship. Regarding sa NLR ako kasi personal opinion hndi ako agree dun mahirap yung walang label walang rights di mo alam ano pwede sa hndi pwede pero sa NLR mas kawawa palagi yung girl. Anyway, pag-isipan mo mabuti marami pa dyn na ready makipag commit darating din yung para sayo. Wish you all the happiness you deserve. Hndi ako nagcocomment dito pero napacomment ako hahaha :)
winglessangel
September 11, 2023 (20 days ago)
Agreed po. Kahit nasa malapit kung bibigyan ka ng rason para magdoubt at mag-overthink, masisira at masisira ang relasyon.
September 12, 2023 (18 days ago)
napaka ganda naman ng payo mo madam.,ganyan ba talaga?pag maganda ka, maganda din mga advice?
Ayiiieeeee :)
"Eh sa Wala NGa Akong No Choice"
September 22, 2023 (8 days ago)
NLR, NSA & FWB magkaka.mag-anak sila. Mag cocomment sana ako ng positive na payo kaso mukang negative ndn dahil meron ng breakup sa recent confe mo.. Usually those things that can make you happy can also hurt you, but atleast naging happy ka^^.
Naked Mind, Open Wide
September 23, 2023 (8 days ago)
what's NSA and FWB po?
Monday, 25 September 2023 (6 days ago)
Ang term ng "ex" ko niyan is NON-COMMITTAL Relationship. I was on this kind of relationship for a very long time, mga 7 years. Hahaha. Mahirap at sobrang sakit and confusing ng set up na yan.
Saturday, 30 September 2023, 10:05 AM (23 hours ago)
applause for the courage, 7 years is sobrang tagal na suffering, can't imagine the trauma (if any) .... mababliw siguro ako nyan