Before the year ended, may mga nag DM pala sa'kin na ngayon ko lang rin nabasa kasi hindi naman talaga ako nagbabasa sa inbox. Ngayon na lang ulit since wala din naman na akong naisusulat lately.

So there's one DM that caught my attention. There was a purple who sent me a DM asking for an advice. Let's just call her Vina. According to her she's in her ealry 20s. She's been here sa site for less than a year.

So her DM goes this way.

Nabasa niya raw kasi yung mga naisulat ko tungkol sa ka regular SOP/SOC ko. Although hindi naman na talaga namin nagagawa ng ganoon kadalas the past few months, honeslty. So, she thinks na I'm the right person to ask for an advice.

She said meron rin raw kasi siyang mga naka SOC at SOP. Mga nakilala niya rin daw dito. But then there's one blue who she really liked even the very first time they talked. Tulad raw nung mga dati, it all started with a whis. Na naging PR, hanggang sa naging SOC at SOP na. Hanggang sa lumabas ng lobby at after a few months, nagkaaminan ng feelings.

Now, her 'problem' is that, after 3 months of doing SOC/SOP, she feels like nagbago na raw si guy bigla. Hindi na raw ganoon kadalas mag text, chat, and call. Hindi na rin daw ganoon kadalas magyaya sa kanya tulad nung dati. Paano raw ba namin nagawa ni Conrad na tumagal ng isang taon na magka SOC/SOP kung sila eh 3 months palang parang lumalabo na agad. Kung kelan pa naman daw sila nagka-aminan ng feelings, dun pa nagbago si guy.

So, here's a thing, Vina. First off, hindi ko alam kung ako ba talaga dapat ang hiningan mo ng advice haha Kasi nga, una ko rin naman yan sa mga ganitong bagay si Conrad. But if there's one thing I'm sure about is that, even sa online world/online flirting, lahat nagbabago. You can't expect for things between you and your ka-fling online to stay the way they are from the beginning. As fucked up as it sounds but, ganoon talaga eh.

Paano kami tumagal ni Conrad ng isang taon sa ganitong bagay? Let's just say mahaba ang pasensya niya at ako naman, magaling magkimkim. We had our own fair share of fights, misunderstandings, doubts. Sisihan. Inis. Selos. I even say bad words to him pag galit na talaga ako at ubos na nag pasensya ko. We didn't stay the same either. Our relationship changed over the course of time. So you see, it's not always rainbows and butterflies kahit sa online world. But a big factor, I must say, is that we remained friends kahit pa may feelings nang involved between us that's why we still choose to deal wi...