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Random Rants (Not Erotic Confession)

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Date: September 24, 2022 (2 months ago)


Hi. Just a few days old newbie here so bare with me. I just want to share my feelings here cause none of my friends and family knows this side of mine.

P.S. it's not an erotic confession. Haha.
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Isn't it so burdensome when most of the people around you knows what they want? Already achi...

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Vildur
September 24, 2022 (2 months ago)

I can sympathize, like people are doing what they want to but when it comes to yourself, you dont know what you want to. Its a really heavy feeling and dreadful too.
What we can only do is move forward, somehow someway, you might find something you want to do and eventually be able to move on from regrets.

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superfranky
September 24, 2022 (2 months ago)

Uggghhh, sapul. Minsan na nga lang mapunta dito sa confessions, tinamaan pa, hahaha.

sobrang relate, yung mga classmates mo dati, professionals na, nakakabili ng mga bagong gamit, nakaka travel, tapos ako, eto walang ganap sa buhay, puro " what if's ". May mga plano naman sa buhay, pero nahihirapan simulan... F*ck! ........ Nagdra-drama ng alas 3 ng umaga. Lol

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brock15
September 24, 2022 (2 months ago)

Ok lang maging failure wag ka lang magdagdag ng lahi

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Dutch0930
September 24, 2022 (2 months ago)

Same here.. same thoughts, pero kahit nkaka pang hina na yung mga dumadating na problima pinipilit ko pading laban. Yung pressure ng age mo, yung pressure na di ka nkaka bigay ng kahit konting financial support sa fam mo. Di mo mabibili ng kahit anu sarili mo. I feel weak sa ganung sitwasyon pero dapat maging strong yung mentality mo, yung mindset mo. At syempre yung fate mo skanya.☝️ I know makakaya mung lampasan yan ma'am. Keep the fate burning lng...💪🤗

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Mr.M
September 25, 2022 (2 months ago)

Been there and really was lost on what I wanted to do,to have,to be.Yet with PATIENCE the elements fell on where they should be.Slowly I GAINED what I wanted to be.I EARNED what I have.All I needed was to DO and the rest came with it.
Wag mo na antayin sabihin pa kung ano ang maitutulong o magagawa.Alam mo na kung ano ang dapat.

Minsan na namatay pero muli nabuhay

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cutemark
September 25, 2022 (2 months ago)

same here. same thoughts
male
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always single
cebu city

there is nothing new in this world except technology.

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kulazsoy
September 25, 2022 (2 months ago)

it's okay to feel lost. it's not burdensome when you seem like left behind by people around you. remember, we're different individuals. i think, in order for you to get out of that slump, you just have to stop comparing yourself with everybody else and do what the author, mark manson, said - stop giving a fuck; and just do what makes you happy

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olijames04
September 26, 2022 (2 months ago)

I can relate. Everyone can relate because at some point in our lives, we experienced this. We experienced witnessing our peers, loved ones, neighbors and colleagues going after their dreams and goals in life and being succesful in doing so, while you (or us) on the other hand don't even know what you want. You wake up everyday feeling lost and don't know how to move forward while the rest of the world continue to climb the ladder of success.

Frustrating, isn't it? Feeling mo napaka unfair ng life sa'yo.

It will pass. Just soak it in for now. No matter how frustrating it is. If kaya, find something to love sa mga bagay na ginagawa mo everyday. Think about your situation as a practice, a test you need to pass in order to prep yourself for bigger challenges in the future. Eventually you'll find what you want and when you do, take those baby steps. Don't rush it. Ika nga, lilipas din yan :)

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wattleferdz
September 26, 2022 (2 months ago)

Don't worry. All of us went through the same phase. Ganun naman kasi tlaga. Ang important thing is that you keep moving on. If you can find your passion, seek it.

It would also help if you stop comparing your direction with those people around you, or those that you know. They went through the same phases but were able to overcome din for sure. Remember na we're not racing against each other but against ourselves.

Moreover, do not dramatize your situation as it will only drag you further. Oftentimes, it's exhausting to keep on trying to succeed, pero the less drama you have, the lighter the burden feels. So keep on moving forward. Before you know it, malayo-layo na pala narating mo.

Futhermore, do not be burdened by expectations from other people. You will decide how you will end up, so you will decide your direction. I know it's difficult sometimes but nothing worth living is easy.

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ggmatrixx
September 26, 2022 (2 months ago)

Sus. Yaan mo sila. Parang stock market lang yan... bababa din yan. Hahhahahha..

Try mo mag invest bebe.. tingnan natin kung sino mas mayaman pag dating ng araw.. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Wag m na lang pansinin ang iba. Hindi ka nga nila pinapansin e. Haha.

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blairann08
October 6, 2022 (1 month ago)

we are all been there, tama sila wag kang magpakalugmok sa self pity or envy mga taong nakapaligid sayo. Isipin mo mga possible ways na umaangat ka, also believ in yourself na may kapasidad ka to grow and evolve sa buhay na to. if may pinagdadaanan ka daanan mo lang wag mo tambayan kasi mahirap if you keep thinking negative thoughts, always think of a bright side sa buhay dahil lahat naman tayo bibigyan ng chance na mamuhay ng naayon sa gusto natin tiwala and lakas ng loob ang puhunan natin. go lang ng go and push lang ng push!!!

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