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Date: September 4, 2022 (19 days ago)


Iba talaga kung single. Madaming options and you have no limitations - that is, you must also consider not to hurt others emotionally, though.

Dyan papasok ang conversation nyo ng kapartner mo from here in FSS, where you both stand.

Mas complicated para sa akin na married.

Here is the deal: I have always been upfront about my status para I don't become deceptive. I will let the one I interact with from here to know the truth para if it gets sexual virtually, then expectations are set.

Now, it is inevitable that liking someone here in FSS can happen if you allow it to happen.

If one of you, in that situation, is married and the other one isn't, yet you both went on with it, one has to treat that relationship/arrangement with care since it will be unfair to the one who has invested heavily in it if there is one who don't see things in the same level or intensity.

Granted, there is a thin line that married folks here in FSS do walk on. True, I find it fun here, the anonymity the site provides adds to the excitement.

The ballgame changes if the interaction is brought to the next level and you do meet up for real, then real world consequences will...

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Duponggg
September 4, 2022 (19 days ago)

aysekondemosyon

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Mindgasm
September 4, 2022 (19 days ago)

di ba? yung saktuhan lang, brader.

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iloveboner
September 5, 2022 (19 days ago)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts ur highness! Hope everyone can also read this. I totally agree that we have to be responsible in any way possible. Let's not xomplicate things. Sakit lng ng ulo un. Let's all have fun. Cheers!

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Mindgasm
September 5, 2022 (19 days ago)

You're welcome! Agree ako sa iyo. FSS is a safe space (dapat). Mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

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iloveboner
September 8, 2022 (16 days ago)

Hahaha. We're all adults here, depende na sayo kung gustuhin mo syang maging unsafe right?

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Mindgasm
September 11, 2022 (13 days ago)

Hahaha. Mas mabuti nang safe. Di ba mas magtatagal ang kasiyahan kung ganun? 🔥

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jokerxky
September 5, 2022 (19 days ago)

You nailed it brader. Well said and I can't find a word to disagree.

Jack of all trade, Master of NONE

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Mindgasm
September 5, 2022 (19 days ago)

Salamat. Mukhang we are in a similar boat. Let's be kind and respectful of our FSS friends and community.

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jackstone
September 5, 2022 (19 days ago)

“Throw caution into the wind and keep it going ……”

FSS, and other sites offer a certain degree of anonymity to users - users, both literally and figuratively.

Doesn’t matter what the “civil status” is. Anonymity. And lying usually go together.

Is there a sense of responsibility in anonymity - and lying - as it applies here?

What we all need to keep reminding ourselves is that whatever we do here, whatever kind of “relationship” we feel like going into, we are doing so with open eyes. That betrayal, or a sense of betrayal when it comes to feelings is just around the corner, looming, waiting to strike.

Nagsisimula sa kalibugan. Maaaring matapos sa kalibugan.

This is not to say that there won’t be a happy ending 😎 to some couples who’ve met here. Hopefully there’s a “happy ever after” story here.

As far as being responsible, the only way this may be true is being responsible to our own selves. And karma is real.

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Mindgasm
September 5, 2022 (19 days ago)

What goes around, comes around, indeed. Law of reciprocity. Maybe, may balik din ang lahat. I just hope the Universe will be forgiving.

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September 5, 2022 (19 days ago)

Tama. Dapat isipin pa rin yung partner.

Actually it happened to me as well. Yung parnga nafa-fall ka na sa nakilala mo dito. Yung pag nag uusap kayo, parang nadedevelop na kayo.

But since this is for friendship only, di ka dapat magkamali. Kaya nag se-set-up kagad ako ng limitations.

Remember your partner.

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Mindgasm
September 5, 2022 (19 days ago)

Lam mo, honestly, this is a good reminder and validation. Salamat!

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QSLeigh
September 6, 2022 (18 days ago)

Know the limitations while having fun. Mahirap pero dapat ;)

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Mindgasm
September 9, 2022 (15 days ago)

Thanks, Leigh. Learned this the hard way. Mahirap pero dapat. There are memory-emotion triggers but I snap out of it quick and remind of what I have outside of FSS.

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Jen_love
September 7, 2022 (16 days ago)

Being here in FSS is like a way of venting your inner thoughts that probably no one in real friends will understand. First and foremost when I get to interact with people here ,I would always tell my real status in life. And I would always remind myself not to expect too much from someone nor let someone expect so much from me. And to avoid getting emotional attachment , I'd never talk to a single person only. You have to give chances to others too. I enjoyed this site as well yet I always set limits not just with myself but with those people I interacted with. Though I have some guys I wanna meet in real life but that's still floating in the air. I'm still gonna think about it a hundred times. If it's only for sex, is it worth it specially on my part. I have a family to think about, a name to take care with. It's ok to share something here but always keep something for yourself. Always keep something that will make them crave for you more too. Hahaha the last line is a joke actually.

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blairann08
September 8, 2022 (16 days ago)

well, nakakarelate ako sa sinabi mo, no one can understand you naexperience ko yan sa live in partner ko when he found out na nandito ako sa site na to, parang may mali sa akin parang di bagay sa katayuan ko which is masakit so I just have to lie to him na diniactivate ko to. Fss somehow helps me kapag nalulungkot ako sa life or problem sa buhay, this is my outlet. Truth din na mahirap mafall or maging attach sa iisang tao dito, its a risk you have to take pag ginagawa mo yun and make sure na alam mo ang consequence kapag ginawa mo.

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Mindgasm
September 9, 2022 (15 days ago)

I agree with you. Masaya dito sa FSS. Isa ito sa mga ways natin to seek solace in the world. Lahat tayo dito can be as open and honest to each other and there is no judgement.

This can be a piece of you that you can hold sacred. Something that no one else needs to know unless you let them in.

We are here. We are waiting. - Optimus Prime

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Mindgasm
September 9, 2022 (15 days ago)

This is it. No one in my circle (that I know of, who knows?) know that I am in FSS.

Yes, I got in too deep with one but I guess the way I also interact with people in FSS is also a way to diffuse the intensity of emotions / feelings.

I guess it helped that we only allowed about 55.5% of emotional investment while it lasted.

I am just sorry that I couldn't give more. Had my status been different the story will have also probably been better than now.

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Jen_love
September 9, 2022 (14 days ago)

And that's just a smart thing to do , controlling emotions. You can be into a person but you just cannot give your all. And it would be better if at the beginning everything is all clear.

CrazyMilf

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Mindgasm
September 11, 2022 (13 days ago)

I guess, what was seemingly unfortunate has been the best thing to have happened after all then. Thank you, Jen_love.

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