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Date: June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)


I feel lonely. My wife and I talked about her elicit relationship. We cried inside our car and forgive her because she was weak to temptations. I prayed a lot every night to remove my burden in my heart. But in the back of my mind, how could I trust her again? I dont want a broken family. Ano nalang ang kalalakhan ng mga anak ko. I could not open up to my friends because they look at us as a stable and model family. Masisira ang businesses namin, lalo sa kanya.

I want to talk to my General friend and have this man killed. But my wife confesses that th...

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brugzkie
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Gandang gabi sa sir ang dito lang kami para sayu hoping na maayos mo ang family mo soon..alam ko madami din dito na nakadanas ng nararamdaman mo ngayon malay mo sir my mg bigay ng advice mo galing dito makakatulong sa pag ayos ng family mo..be strong lang sir hangat my buhay my pag.asa keep safe sir..more confess to come

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desig
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Salamat. Dito talaga ako kumukuha ng lakas ng loob ngayon.

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thegreatemperor
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

A friendly advice sayo bro, let them be, hindi mo sya deserve, expected mo, sayo mapupunta ang custody ng mga anak mo kasi proven na nag adultery ang wife mo. Nasa iyo ang huling halakhak. 👊🏻😁

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brugzkie
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Sir di sagot ang hiwalayan kawawa mga anak mo isipin mo sa mga dating confess mo..ikaw ang unang ng loko diba pero asan ang misis mo andyan pa din sir tinanggap ka ng buo..pag usapan nyo sir..wala nman problema na di nalulutas kung di maguusap eh..kapit lang sir..my pag asa pa talaga maging okay ang lahat..

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utoi20
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Sabi ng tatay tuloy tuloy lng dw wag dw aq titigil kase dw malayo pa tatahakin q....ano kaya Yun...

Enjoy fucking my hot wife

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ramza34
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Mahirap kalagayan mo sir pray lang. Kung ako sir hiwalayan mo. Hirap ng ganyan pipilitin mo magsama kayo pero hirap ka naman at sabi mo inlove sya sa lalake? Dapat nga yan sir idemanda mo eh.
Oo madali lang mag advise kasi hindi nangyari samin. Pero pagganyan let her go na. Naggawa k na nya pagtaksilan eh. Hirap ibalik ng basag na plato.
Pero nasa sayo pa rin yan sir ang pasya.

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desig
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

I dont want to be heard as martyr, but I want to save our relationship. Matatanda na kami, kung tutuusin. Reading books about this na and its more on libido na. Yun din ang ramdam ko sa sinabi ng asawa ko. She is very sorry and I felt it was sincere. But she told me not to confront yun lalaki nya. Masisira daw ang family namin at reputations namin. I have evidences naman at pinakita ko na sa kanya. Dinelete naman nya pero di nya alam may back-up. Although videos are not admissible as evidence (puchang batas yan). I dont want the bruhaha of court battles. Children are the most to suffer in this. I have seen it. So I am not taking that course

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thegreatemperor
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

As long as proven na nag adultery ang wife mo plus yang mga videos na hawak mo, pwede yang maging evidences

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surako
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

It's your property so it's okay. Like cctv, that's admissible.  You don't need to ask for permission if it's your property

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Mechanicalx
June 17, 2022 (12 days ago)

Pre mahirap mag-usap kapag kayo dalawa. I'm sure mauuwi lang yan sa sisihan at yun mga pagkakamali nyo sa nakaraan. Habang nauusap kayo kung papaano aayusin may point na bigla kayo mag-aaway ulit. Halos walang nagiging maganda development sa usapan nyo. Baka mauwi lang kayo sa annulment.

To save your relationship dapat meron mediator. I tried before ayusin mag-isa kaya lang walang improvement after several months. Kaya kami nag CEFAM Marriage counseling before ni Misis dahil hindi ko kaya at hindi namin kaya ayusin dalawa yun problema.

Alam ko malaki maitulong ng CEFAM sa inyo. Kung wala pa reply sa Inquiry mo puntahan mo na lang sa loob ng Ateneo. Mag inquire ka directly regarding marriage counseling. Then paschedule na kayo.

Mahirap gumising sa umaga na meron bigat na nararamdaman. Good luck . Kaya mo yan.

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desig
June 19, 2022 (10 days ago)

I'll do this sir.

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skyph33
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Bro. kaya mo yan. wag kang susuko. always remember your kids. also, use this platform to release some of those stress. you can rant here or say whatever you wanna say. We will not judge you. We, your readers and supporters, will give the support that you need the best way that we can.

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Abet02
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Be strong sir
Para sa anak
Kung kaya pa maibalik ibalik
Trust na po kasi ang nawala
Yan ang parang baso/salamin
Na pag nabasag dina kayang ibalik
Sana maging matatag po kayo sir
Gabayan kayo ng poong maykapal

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ggmatrixx
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Sir,.. maaayos din po iyan... tiwala lang...pakatatag ka po

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h0rny-FC_mATuR3_0
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Our prayers are with you

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LudusMania143
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Mas maige na meron kang makausap ng harapan maliban sa nakakapagkwento ka rito, Brod.

Kung nasa NCR ka eh PM ka lang at usap tayo..o magkwento ka lang at makikinig lang ako.

Kapit lang sa Kanya at lagi mong isipin na pwede pang maayos ang lahat alang.alang sa mga anak mo.

sex is ludus. lust is mania!

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yametee007
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Kapit lang bro, maayos at maayos din yan gusot sa family mo. Suyuin mo bro, i think na mas mahal ka nmn ni wifey mo kesa kay chef. Maayos din yan

Silent reader hereeee

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victoro
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

kahit na may pagkukulang ka sa asawa mo di pa din nya pwedeng gawing rason yun para magtaksil sya, mali pa din yun, at kahit na nagawa mo man yun sa nakaraan ay sinikap mo naman magbago at buuin muli ang pamilya nyo, at kung maayos man kayo di na siguro mawawala ang pagdududa mo sakanya kaya mas masasaktan ka lang lalo pag ganun, siguro mas mabuting tanggapin mo na sir na wala na talaga, or hayaan mo na muna sila siguro baka kasi akala nila na love yung libog na nararamdaman nila sa isat isa kasi nga matagal sila nagkalayo at matinding pagkasabik ang nararamdaman nila, baka pag nagtagal at naumay sila sa sex ay baka dun maisip nila na di pala love at sex lang ang nararamdaman nila, mas mabuti siguro na libangin mo sarili mo para kahit papano makalimot ka, try mo din i focus sarili mo sa mga anak mo para mapalapit kapa lalo sa kanila.

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jackstone
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Yung sa mga previous confessions mo lumalabas na mas malaki ang pagkakasala mo sa asawa at pamilya mo. Di nga ba iniwan mo pa sila pero tinanggap kang balik.

Kung nagawa kang patawarin ng asawa mo at mabalik ang pagtitiwala sa yo, magagawa mo din kung nanaisin mo. Hindi solusyon ang ipaligpit mo ang kanyang naging kalaguyo, mahal man nya o hindi. Malamang mas lalo ka lang kamumuhian ng iyong asawa at ang iyong inaasam-asam na pagsasamang walang-hanggan ay hindi na matatamo o makakamtan.

Kung talagang mahal mo ang asawa mo, hindi lamang ego mo, tama lamang na ipagpatuloy ninyo ang counseling sa CEFAM.

Nawa’y maayos ninyo ang gusot na inyong pinagdadaanan.

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skylinegt
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

whatever the outcome is..ikaw ang talo..you go on seperate ways talo ka.pahihirapan ka ng nawala mong love..if you keep the relationship.talo ka pa rin kasi at the back of your mind you dont deserve her and things she did to you..hanapin mo sir yun future na gusto mo..mahirap i know pero i cant even imagine being in your shoes..hope you overcome all your troubles

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LeonAguila
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

i feel you bro! pakatatag ka lang

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antoinette
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Sa tingin ko mahal ka ng misis mo at mahal nya rin ang pamilya nyo.  Hindi nya yon madaling basta iwanan na lang.  Sana patawarin mo pa rin sya.  

Natukso lang sya at sino bang hindi kung ganun ka gwapo at kagaling magpaligaya noong isa.  Tapos sinasabihan pa sya na mahal sya.  

Alam ko ma overcome mo ito kasi nasa site ka naman.

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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jamag
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Tatagaan mo lng loob mo bro.always pray...isipin mo n lng mga kids mo...

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yulica
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

hindi solusyon ang gumawa ng kasalanan para sa isang kasalanan. ang kasamaan ay labanan ng kabutihan. tough times never last, only tough people do. i believe love conquers all, and time will heal all wounds. it's not too late to try again. to make new beginnings for your relationshp. sabi mo engineer ka and magaling sa problem solving. kaya mo yan. hope for the best. Prayers works wonders. tuloy mo lang gumawa ng kabutihan. ligawan mo si wifey ulit let her feel gaano mo sya kamahal. pag kunin mo ang taong natutunan nyang mahalin, mawawala ang tiwala nya sa yo baka masira pa kayo ng tuluyan pag malaman  nya.kasi may karma yan. mag tiwala ka sa Taas na syang makakatulong sa yo, sa lahat ng oras d ka nya pababayaan. in the right time He will put everything in place. have patience, faith and most of all don't stop loving.keep hoping and praying na there will be rainbow after the rain.

no strings attached

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dencio2011
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

Hi,
I came from a broken family, the most painfull part of being a family is that everything i grow up with is a lie.. if your wife fell out of love for you, my advice is
1. Have a meeting with the whole family are tell them the that you and her will have separate lives but will continously be supportive, respectfull of the family, and will face the challenges as you grow with the separation. ( truth is the foundation).
2. Live together, lie to your children until they caught you both in scandalous situation, continously hurt both emotionally, never outgrow the pain for your children, enjoy now and pay later pain your kids. ( i tell you this hypocrisy is a long time torture)

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helium1820
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

bos magpakatatag

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justlong6
June 16, 2022 (13 days ago)

"they are both in love.." may pinili na ang asawa mo siya pero ayaw makipaghiwalay sa iyo? Kasuhan mo ipakulong mo sila!! Wag kang martir, bawat araw na nasa loob ng pamamahay mo ang babae na iyan, iniinsulto ka at ng kabit niya! Tinatawanan ka! Ayaw masira ang pamilya-- may kabit ang asawa mo! Hindi biro yan. Tama na yung napapanood na mga lalaking umiiyak sa Tulfo..Kasuhan mo pareho at maisasalba mo ang mga natira sa iyo..  Cefam, sure! Gagastos ka na rin lang, kasuhan mo na! Eskandalo na kung eskandalo! Hindi naman ikaw
ang pasimuno.

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Dogenz
June 16, 2022 (12 days ago)

sir try niyo kaya mag confess sa harap ng anak niyo and ask for forgiveness, kayo dalawa ng misis mo..mahirap pro in the end mas magaan sa pakiramdam kasi anak nyob naman ang bunga ng pagmamahan ninyo dalawa..surrender your ego, trust issue, pagdududa and let your child decide ano outcome ng relasyon nyo bilang pamilya..ang anak nyo ang hahatol sa mga mali na gawa nyo sa isat isa..

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dencio2011
June 16, 2022 (12 days ago)

As a fellow engr, wag kang mag self destruct.. there is always a rational ways to address the situation if not logical. Ung separation is already part of the equation the moment ng umpisa ung adventure mo sa babae. Sa healing nmn ng separation, u can tell ur frnds about it but never go to detail for respect of the family. Tell them that both of you still has respect for each other ( never say bad words against her kc marami k rng kasalanan) and working for the future of your children.. live a life and let her live as well, that way ur kids will see both  of you happy and home become free of sadness. At the moment me zero trust issue kayo both and trust takes time to build up.. so don’t force your righteousness sa asawa mo. Move on, love yourself, your children and respect the mother of your children as human.

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cjeromet
June 17, 2022 (12 days ago)

iwan mo na , nagmamahalan na pala si misis mo at chef...
di mo na mapagkakatiwalaan yan
at kahit ikaw ang naunang nanloko, hindi pala tunay kang pinatawad dahil isinumbat sa iyo...
susunod dyan magkakasakitan na kayo at saka balak kapang perahan bosing...
itumba na yan o kaya sabihan mo yung asawa ng lalake ni misis mo...

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kabayan
June 17, 2022 (12 days ago)

I hope you can bring back the way your marriage before but with clean heart. You are the one should be the to blame you created your wife like that. Just hope for the best good luck 🤞

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bad_daddy1
June 17, 2022 (12 days ago)

di maitatama ng mali ang isang pagkakamali, nagusap kayo bago ka umalis, sabi nya walang relasyon, sabihin mo nang natukso lng, pero bakit nun nagusap uli kayo sabi nya mahal na nya, oo nauna kang gumawa ng kalokohan pero di un dahilan, ano yan gantihan? kasuhan mo at ilayo mga anak mo, para ma weigh nya kng sapat ba un libog nya against sa family nyo, time will eventually heal, pray lng

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PTmaharot
June 17, 2022 (12 days ago)

di mo nmn kailangan patayin ung guy..
all u need to do is takutin or i presure
kuya gagtaasan lang nya misis mo...
he knows na may pera kayo and alam nya na baliw na baliw misis mo sa kanya..

di naman sasama ung misis mo sa kanya dhil may asaaa din un

or kausapin mo misis nung chef

PTmaharot

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bossj
June 17, 2022 (12 days ago)

What I can say is, iba ang pagmamahal sa pag pili mo sa kanya araw araw.
You are caught siguro dun sa picture na she is having sex with someone else and parang naiputan ka.
If you have that man killed, mahirap yung konsenya which I think nilalabanan mo because you are a good man, just basing it on the context.
Maybe you two need to get some fresh air and a fresh start. Know where you have messed up or what she think is wrong. Tignan mo rin yung scenario na kaya mo pa ba siyang piliin araw araw.
If you need someone to share and talk to my friend, message ka lang.

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Mechanicalx
June 17, 2022 (12 days ago)

At some point meron tayo pagkakapareho sa buhay natin. Pareho tayo field of business at pareho din tayo nagkami sa buhay natin. Nahuli din kse ako ni Misis and I admit it.

Mahirap din yun pinagdaan namin mag-asawa lalo na sa emotional stress. Halos araw -araw din kami nag-aaway. Nagsasama lang kami just for the sake of the kids.

Until one time naisipan namin magpacounseling sa CEFAM sa Ateneo. Dapat pareho nyo gusto magcounseling. Hindi pwede ikaw o siya lang. Madami ako/kami natutunan yun mga pagkukulang namin sa isat-isa.

And it takes years bago mag heal yun sakit niyan.

Yun relationship nyo  pwede pa yan mabuo pero meron lamat o basag na.  Hindi na maaalis yun pagdududa sa isat-isa.

3 years had past magkasama pa rin kami Misis hanggang ngayon. Thanks to CEFAM.

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desig
June 19, 2022 (10 days ago)

Salamat Bro.

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Mr.M
June 17, 2022 (12 days ago)

Be HONEST with what is in your HEART and let your MIND be clear in its THOUGHTS of what to do is RIGHT

Minsan na namatay pero muli nabuhay

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desig
June 19, 2022 (10 days ago)

Salamat sa lahat ng messages at comments nyo. I'm making some progress pero wala pang reply si Cefam. Baka puntahan ko na one of these days. Kinausap ko narin misis ko ng masinsinan. I also talked to my lawyer friend and divulged all. Para kung may mangyari sa akin (dahil din sa stress), meron akong napaghingahan at outside witness ba. He would not divulge it naman sabi nya, and I trust him. I would write after some developments. But your words of assurance and positivity uplifts me. Salamat din sa mga prayers.

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