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Date: May 24, 2022 (1 month ago)

Hi billy here! So I've been with my partner for almost 3 years now. We started as a young couple hungry for achievements like at the age of this and that we're gonna have our own business have a comfortable life but as we go through life, reality sets in that those things will not be built in just a few years maybe some can do that but for us we have to solidify our foundations in order for us to achieve those things.

I, on my end try to focus on building my foundation, learning things that would greatly help in how we envision our future. Somehow I rhythm my pace on a not slow but normal pace in which I can center myself in how I can use the time (I'm in my early twentys btw) to grow. For me time is the key in achieving our goals. We need to bide our time.

On the other hand my gf wants to gain achievements, want to pursue more things and for me that is great as she is a career driven woman and I am happy to support her growth but rushing will not help us, we've been there and it ended up with us struggling financially. Most of the time she...

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May 24, 2022 (1 month ago)

Sir, i think you better think twice na. I personally dont have any experience in mrriage but 1 thing im very sure. Once you get married theres no return or exchange.

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May 24, 2022 (1 month ago)

May kakilala din akong ganyan, ayun nung nakakita ng mas successful na guy, nagpatira yung girl haha

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May 25, 2022 (1 month ago)

never kang sasaya sa buhay mo kung lagi mong ikukumpara ang sarili mo sa iba. di maganda pag ganyan ang partner mo kasi baka lagi ka nya sumbatan pag na frustrate sya sa sitwasyon nyo at maisipan na namang mag compare ng buhay nyo sa ibang successful na couple. mabuting at nagda dalawang isip kana ngayon kasi mahirap na desisyon yan. goodluck sayo.

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May 25, 2022 (1 month ago)

Hello sir, There might be factors why she keeps on comparing things about you, and other couples but before proposing po. You can talk to her about it, you can just be honest with her that you think it might be a red flag sa relationship. Now, if a good talk won't do. I'll leave that up to you. Social media is all about comparing, bragging, and sharing. So, ikaw na bahala nyan sir.,

I'm a big girl, I can handle myself But if I get lonely, I'ma need your help :)

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May 25, 2022 (1 month ago)

Your gf has what we call impostor syndrome. She needs enlightenment. Knock her senses with words but do it genuinely. She needs to know the setback of what she's doing.

I rise where others fall. Whenever the world is turned against me, I survive in exchange for my humanity.

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