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LUDUS-MANIA Sexventure Confession: TEASING And Sexual Harassment

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Confession: True Story, Taglish · Categories: First Time · Tags: , , ,
Date: August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)


(This is a re-edited and expanded PMed comment I wrote to a 1st Time Writer here which triggered a memory I have about a 'teasing incident' that happened to me which caused me shame and a big learning lesson on sexual harassment.)

Check this link for the 1st Time Writer's Confession Story @daunt.less:
https://www.filipinosexstories.com/confession/25668-kiss-my-neck

This happened sometime back in early 2014. I was working as a Supervisor for a small, specialty restaurant in one of the big cities in NCR. I was in my early 40s at that time and legally separated already.

There was this newly-hired girl employee in her early 20s. She was at that time a recent HRM grad and formerly one of our OJTs in the restaurant. I was assigned to train and to coach her on some of her duties in my area. She's a quiet, timid person at first so I trained her to confidently speak out more in a proper customer service interactions (CSIs). We get to have frequent coaching sessions for her to be acquainted with her job functions and to develop her confidence in CSIs. She's very receptive and eager to learn in our training & coaching sessions.

Then the teasing started.Not from me, but from her!She would occasionally pass behind my back and will often discreetly pinch or touch my buttcheeks. I didn't mind it at first but when she did it more than once or twice in a day, I countered by doing the same (yung nakatago kong kalokohan ay nagpatalo sa tukso!). I would discreetly touch her buttcheeks when I passed by her back, too. (My first mistake. I violated my own rule: "Never shit in your own backyard.")

Then one day, while I was eating my late lunch, she was making 'kulit' to me. Yung patweetums na pangungulit. She was on duty at that time so I reminded her to go back to her station. But she stubbornly remained and continually asked me senseless questions (papansin kumbaga), endlessly teasing me to the point that she even pinched my nipples so I would noticed her. I was now pissed! Sa inis koI grabbed her chin with my left hand, pulled it towards my face and gave her a quick smack on her lips (dinampi ko lang!)while my other hand pinched one of her nipple to shoo her away (para...

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RobinQT
August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)

Boss mas matindi kung sa school ka magwowork kung mahina ka kulong ka iyon lang bow. Pero nalagpasan ko yun lahat.

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Meron din akong sexperiences in a school environment wherein it's a No-No to have any intimate relationship or illicit affair with the students. Isa yan sa nakalista kong Sexcapades Confession dito at isang malaking learning lesson din sa buhay ko yung insidenteng yun. Nalagpasan ko din yun at nahinto na rin ako sa pakikipagrelasyon sa mga naging estudyante ko pa.

Maraming salamat sa unang pagkumento Brad. Keep safe always!

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August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)

grabe c girl ano. kala ko she likes you kaya pala ginawa nya yon para siraan ka. kaya mag ingat. tawag dun crab mentality, typical sa karamihan na mga pinoy na mga katrabaho, nanghahatak pababa. i know somebody with a similar story, ginamit ang gurl para siraan sya kahit walang nangyari. si gurl pa din pinaniwalaan. kaya ayon nawalan din aya work. me isang principle din na dapat i observe, friendship ends where duty begins. CAPTCHA:CONSUL

mind over matter

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RobinQT
August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)

Marami ganyan sa malalaking company politics para matangal mga nasataas

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

@RobinQT...actually, tama ka! Though hindi ko ito naconfirm kasi nga hindi nako pinabalik sa restaurant pero meron nagsabi sakin na kaclose ko dun na sinetup ako ng Asst.Manager at ginamit niya yung girl employee para makasohan ako. Kung totoo man yun eh meron pa rin naman balik sa kanila yung kanilang ginawa. Malicious intent has a way of coming back to its initiator. Para sakin eh both myself and the girl employee are victims in this unfortunate and avoidable incident.

Para sakin eh nabaon ko na yun at naihingi ko ng tawad. Pinatawad ko na rin ang sarile ko. Kaya doble ingat na rin ako sa ganyang teasing trap. Lesson learned nako.

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RobinQT
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Thats good sir dont keep hates inside your hearth move on magpatawad and move forward isipin na lang masarap mabuhay enjoy lang

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Namali ako ng pagbasa sa panunukso niya at nahulog nga ako sa bitag kung yun man ang kanyang balak sakin. Gustohin ko man cyang kausapin para magkalinawan kami o makapag.ayos man lang eh pinagbawalan nako ng HR namin noon. Ang ginawa ko na lang eh magtext kay girl employee at humingi ako ng pagkakataon na makausap siya. Hindi niya ako sinagot kaya ung last text message ko sa kanya eh paghingi ng kapatawaran sa kanya. Kung patawarin man niya ako eh nasa sa kanya na yun. Para sakin eh binigyan ko na ng closure yung incident namin at blinok ko na lahat ng contact info ko sa kanya at mga naging kasamahan ko sa restaurant. Natrigger lang yung memory na nakatago sa sistema ko nung mabasa ko yung teasing confession ni @daunt.less.

Sa kaso ng sexual harassment eh wala pa akong nababalitaan na ang lalake ang nananalo. Wala din naman akong balak ipaglaban pa yung ikinaso sakin dahil na rin sa kapakanan ni girl employee.

Maraming salamat sa pagbabasa, Ma'm. Keep safe always!

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evergreen1234
August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)

i feel so sorry for you 😒
ikaw po ang victim pero if the cctv captured that wala kang laban and i thought she liked you too 😒

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Thank you, Ma'm, for your comment.

Ok naman nako. Nakamove.on na rin sa tagal ng panahon. Time heals. Though it took awhile din dahil nakaka.down din isipin kapag naalala ko noon. But again, I still have no one to blame except myself pa rin. Ako yung lalaki at ako rin ang nasa position para sabihan siya na meron mali sa ginagawa niya. Ang tukso ay hindi dapat tapatan ng isang tukso din. Kung papatulan ko naman talaga ung panunukso niya eh sa labas na ng trabaho ko dapat ginawa yun. Nagpadala lang ako talaga sa sitwasyon. Unfortunately, wala pang nakakabit na CCTV sa restaurant namin noon kaya walang pang.counter evidence laban sa unang panunukso niya.

Keep safe always, Ma'm!

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gotham04
August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)

Takteng babae yan nasan na yan? Hayop yang malandi na yan sya itong nauna makipag pokpokan eh tapos sya itong nag sumbong at pa victim ang peg ampepe.

Old Man / Hot Wife πŸ’¦πŸ’¦πŸ’¦

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Puso mo, Brad!

Ok nako. Tapos na yun. Nangyari na. Kaya dapat mag-ingat na lang sa susunod para iwas gulo at kahihiyan din. Hindi lahat ng panunukso eh nagbubunga ng maganda sa bandang huli. Kung meron man tayo nababasa dito nun eh pwedeng pantasya lang o sadyang swerte na naging maganda ang kinalabasan ng panunukso. Isinulat ko lang ito para na rin maialis na sa sistema ko yung kahihiyan na naging dulot ng insidente ng teasing turned into sexual harassment charges.

Maraming salamat sa pagbabasa at pagkumento, Brad. Stay safe always!

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Shylockness
August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)

Observation lang. Mas maigi siguro, Tagalugin mo na lang kaya mg stories mo. Pranka lang ako pero you seem to use inappropriate words for a specific context that cause a lag to read your narrative continuously. Kasi sa mga nakakaintindi ng English grammar, mapapaisip ka talaga kung yun ba ang phrase na dapat gamitin? Wala naman phrase na |"never shitting" ah?

Yung english mo, parang english ng 50 year-old boomer na ang paraan ng pag i english ay tina translate ang Tagalog directly sa english. Mali mali din ang apostrophe, lalo na sa pag gamit ng 's .
Tsaka ano to? Ludus ? Tapos sexventure? hehe.

Maybe you get an editor. Tsaka stories dito ay usually nasa rang ng millenials, kaya medyo may mga sobrang boomer ng style ng mga kwento mo. Parang mga late 80's or early 90's and tema. hehe

Peace.

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Peace be with you, too, Sir!

"5. Write to express and impress yourself, not to impress others." (FSS Admin Article on Basic Writing and Blogging, November 25, 2014)

Need I say more?

Except to thank you for reading and commenting on my confession story, Sir!

Keep safe always!

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anino
August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)

You mean "Don't shit where you eat"?

That is how you phrase it.

The Wanderer!

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Korek ka diyan, Sir Author!

Urban Dictionary states: "Don't shit where you eat." mean...
"Do not cause trouble in a place where you must be on a regular basis. Often used with workplace romances but can also apply to relationships with students at your school or starting shit in general."

Who will stop me then in rephrasing it to "Never shit (or shitting) in your own backyard."? Will it make me foolish and grammatically incorrect for doing so? Meron bang pa-contest ang FSS para sa pagandahan ng confession/true/fiction stories na pinopost dito?

Mas OK bang isulat ko na lang sa Tagalog yung Personal Rule ko na "Huwag Kang Tatae Sa Sarile Mong Bakuran"?...ang sagwa 'di ba?...hahaha

Anyway, maraming salamat sa pagbasa at pagkumento, Sir Author! Coming from you is already a great honor for me. Keep safe always, Sir!

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kuatog
August 10, 2021 (1 month ago)

kailangan p talagang pansinin pag english 🀭..ikaw ata ung girl e 🧐🧐

a man with a plan βš™οΈ

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Ok lang yun, Brad.

No harm done naman. To each his own kumbaga. We are all entitled to our own opinions and comments here in our FSS community.

Bottomline eh binasa nila ung aking sinulat at nagkumento pa. Malaking pasasalamat ko na yun sa araw na ito!

At malaking pasasalamat din sayo, Brad!

Nawa'y meron napulotan na aral ang ating mambabasa sa confession story ko at maging maingat sa TEASING TRAP. Nakakababa din ng morale at self-worth na makasohan ng sexual harassment. Kaya doble ingat lang at pag-isipan mabuti kung papatulan ba o iiwasan na lang?

Keep safe always, Brad!

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daunt.less
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

So proud you have the courage to write it down. Hopefully mapagaan nito ang bigat matagal mo ng pinapasan. Thank you also sa pagmention sakin. 😘😘😘

See, halos lahat sila did understand your situation. Just keep moving forward.

eeeeyyy!

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

I Thank You, Ms.Newbie Writer, !

Your confession story somehow triggered that shameful memory which I thought I have forgotten already. Yun pala eh nakabaon pa rin. It flashed before my eyes like a movie which prompted me to write about it and confess. I never have really told it to anyone. My side of the story.

Sabi ko nga eh para akong nawalan ng tinik sa lalamunan. Nakagaan ng pakiramdam. It's all now in the past and lessons learned. Kaya doble ingat na rin sa mga nakabasa na ng confession story ko.

Perhaps those in a similar situation or incident like mine can benefit from reading my confession. Only those who have been wounded can understand and heal others who have the same wounds.

Maraming salamat ulit, Ms.Daunt.Less! Stay safe always!

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DadsGirl2003
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

How are you holding up? Hoping things get better, especially, it can be a track record for you when reaching for another work.

And it's true that never give in to any of that too good to be true things. Just be very careful next time, coz in the Sexual misconduct arena, women has the high ground.

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

It's all in the past naman na. I have moved on from it. Though it took awhile before I applied for work again. The restaurant's main office didn't pursue the sexual harassment complaint since I agreed to be terminated without severance benefits except my month's pay.

I distanced or disassociated myself from my co-workers by blocking most of them in my SocMed accounts. To avoid being verbally harassed by those who doesn't know the two (2) sides of the story. Buti na lang at wala pang Tulfo in Action noon kundi eh baka idrama pa ako sa TV o YT..hahaha

Yes, it was hard lesson learned for me. Wala akong makausap tungkol dun. I just kept it inside. Forgive myself for doing it. Kept my distance from a teasing trap.

Women by nature are a tease when they unleashed it. Men are predators by nature & will grab an opportunity when they see it coming from women. Only self-control can stop them from falling into a teasing trap.

Thank you for reading & commenting, Ma'm! Keep safe always!

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baldymannn2k17
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

hmm very timely pagkakabasa ko nito kasi may bago na chic na hot sa company at medyo clingy kaya lang mahirap na baka mamaya mali ang basa pero talagang nakakaakit sya at nang aakit talaga

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Sayo lang ba cya clingy o sa karamihan sa office niyo? Flirty o naughty ba yung pagiging clingy niya? Nakakaakit lang ba cya sayo o inaakit ka na niya? Ano ba ang civil status mo, Brad?

Kung Single Unattached ka eh klarohin mo kay new chick kung sadya bang maclingy cya o meron cyang feeling sayo? Kung meron kang GF o asawa eh sabihin mo sa kanya ung status mo para klaro sa kanya. Kung accepted sa kanya ang status mo at maclingy pa rin sa kanya eh mag.isip-isip ka ng maraming beses kung worth it bang ipursue yung pagiging clingy at isakripisyo mo ung trabaho mo at karelasyon mo sa kanya. Mahirap maFatal Attraction.

Laroin mo sa isip yung What If situations para makapag.desisyon ka ng tama. Minsan yayain mo cya magsnack sa labas ng office ninyo at usap kayo ng inyong intensyon sa isa't isa. Mas mabuti ng malinaw kesa manghula. At baka nga mamali ng basa ng situation.

Maraming salamat sa pagbabasa at kumento, Brad. Keep safe always!

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chinito.kinse
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Mga thirst traps. Kaya ingat na ingat ako. Baka mabaligtad.

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LudusMania143
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

Tama ka, Brad. Mas maige ngang mag-ingat at baka mapahamak ka pa. Teasing is a fun and thrill game kung ang resulta ay maganda. Disaster kapag namali ng basa.

Maraming salamat sa pagbabasa at sa kumento, Brad. Stay safe always!

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cutemark
August 11, 2021 (1 month ago)

nangyari na sa akin ito dati pero pangit kasi yung babaeng yun kaya wala talaga hahahahaha kahit maghubad pa siya pangit pa rin siya. sana yung anak ng boss ko na lang dati muntik na yun pero that was 20 years ago.

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LudusMania143
August 12, 2021 (1 month ago)

So yung girl ang nang.tease o nang.harass sayo? Anong nangyari? o ikaw yung inireport niya na tinitease mo cya at hinaharass? Paanong muntik na sa anak ng boss mo? Na-curious tuloy ako...hahahah

Thank you sa pagbabasa at pagkumento, Brad! Keep safe always!

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