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Nurses Notes: Love Biography

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Date: July 12, 2020 (2 months ago)


I always remind the following to my HIV patients during our counceling sessions.

"A positive laboratory test doesnt define who you are. Basehan lang iyon para malaman namin kung paano kayo bigyan ng lunas. Hindi ibig sabihin makasalanan ka. Hindi mo ginustong magkasakit. Hindi mo kontrolado ang lahat ng mga bagay na itinatapon sa iyo ng mundo. What you can control is how you would react to it? Gagawa ka ba ng solusyon o dagdag na problema?"

Bumagsak ka ba sa School o sa board exam? Na sa sayo kung mag aaral ka ng mabuti. It wont really matter kung ilang beses ka magtake ng board exam when you pass in the end.
Natanggal ka sa trabaho for any bullsh*t reason? ikaw bahala kung maghahanap ka uli to give your best shot saka magpapatuloy magsumikap o tatambay ka nalang at pagsisihin ang ibang tao habangbuhay.

Nag break kayo ng jowa mo? Desisyon mo kung mag move on ka.

Madaling sabihin pero mahirap talagang gawin. This is life.
Dont blame other people for your own misfortunes.
Your own life is based on the decisions that you make.

Either you learn to accept things as they are or have enough patience to build a better life of your own.

Laging nagsisimula yan sa acceptance for you to forgive yourself and move on.

Madalas talaga mga victims of love ang mga client ko sa mga follow up counselings. Hindi naman lahat sila puro HIV positive. Yung iba on-going treatment.

Ever wondered kung bakit nasasaktan lagi ang isang taong nagmamahal?
It is because loving persons just learn how to control their own doubts.
Matuto kang lokohin ang sarili mo.
Listening to your own demons will always be your downfall in life.
Trust a person in mind-set at taking risks. Oo. If you are confident enough at kabisado ng instinct mo, take a great leap of faith with that person at kung talagang mahal ka din niya, hindi niya sasayangin ang oras mo at sisirain ang tiwala mo sa kanya. Most of the time things dont go well lalo na sa mga mabilisang relationships kaya importante sa part ng babae ang oras.
Guys be patient with us girls kasi we tend to be more emotional than rational in taking precautions. We have our doubts kasi we want to know kung totoo o seryoso kayo when you ask us to enter into a relationship with you.
Mahirap din ang magdecide magsabi ng matamis na OO kung hindi namin makayanang tanggapin sa sarili namin pag alam namin na hindi namin kayang panindigan sa huli.
We need your time and patience to make ourselves believe na kayo na nga ang pinakahihintay naming prince charming.
Lahat naman ng babae nangangarap ng ganun.
Please do so by not being angry when we reject you. Natatakot lang kaming makasakit sa inyo pag papa asahin namin kayo ng sobra. We want to take you into our lives little by little. Hindi kailangang magmadali. Wag gayahin ang mga teleserye sa tv about relationships. Most of them are just full of crap. Building a trusting relationship takes a great amount of time.
Guys, We feel very uncomfortable pag minamadali nio kami. We girls know and feel when we are not ready to enter into a relationship. We need time to tell us.
Yes, time is the ultimate method to measure everything like relationships. When you can spend your time with us and hear us out, we feel na binibigyan nio kami ng halaga. Eventually we will fall in love with you when you allow us to fall for you without any unnecessary force.

Guys, please be more patient with our parents, brothers, sisters, family and friends. Madalas talaga overprotective mga magulang lalo na sa mga anak nilang babae. (Pinakabilin talaga sa amin na wag muna kaming mag-aasawa at tapusin muna ang pag-aaral. Boyfriends included) I still remember yung mga panahon nang nililigawan palang ako ng asawa ko and I introduced him to my family. My mom keeps on calling him unkind names. "Asan na yung boyfriend mong mukhang janitor.."
My dad did the worst things.
Even hurting his arm in a handshake once.
Hindi ko lang alam kung ano ang pinag-uusapan nila. Usapang lalaki daw pero I once overheard na pinagbantaan niya si hubby na ipapakulong kung may masamang mangyari sakin. (Wow. di ko alam kung proud daughter ako o mahihiya sa ginagawa nila) Ok naman yung mga kapatid ko kay hubby pero I later found out na kinakalkal din nila ang buhay ni hubby, every detail lalo na mga tsismis sa mga ex niya( Even my friends). Hindi ko na napigilan ang mga rumors nila.

(Not surprisingly because my family and friends had serious rundowns and bad experiences with my ex BFs)

Overprotective...

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Yvonniekimsori
July 12, 2020 (2 months ago)

Love is all about building bridges and establishing relationships otherwise its not love.
I am no marriage councilor pero
Ito madalas ang mga pinapayo nila sa aming mag-asawa even before we get married. My hubby has a lot of friends na marriage councilors

Experience is the greatest kamasutra teacher

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nher1989
July 12, 2020 (2 months ago)

Hi miss nurse! 😁

nher1989

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David0811
July 13, 2020 (2 months ago)

For me, love is not merely a feeling; its a commitment. It is not defined by emotion nearly as much as it is by devotion. But love is also giving someone the power to destroy you....but trusting them not to.

I rise where others fall. Whenever the world is turned against me, I survive in exchange for my humanity.

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Yvonniekimsori
July 13, 2020 (2 months ago)

Uo. Medyo alanganin when you show that person you trust your vulnerability. Pero you can only take that risk pag matagal na kayong magkakilala.

Experience is the greatest kamasutra teacher

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LeonAguila
July 13, 2020 (2 months ago)

Love is taking chances, if it goes with you, you live happily and if it didn't hmm.. well... then😁😁😁

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