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When will I begin with my sexventures or sexcapades confessions?

I have been longing to confess these sexperiences since I got legally separated and perhaps can be free from its flirty and lustful hold in me. And, hopefully, some readers will be able to learn from it and perhaps avoid any mistakes in their sexual relationships.


Firstly, let me tell you about ME in a gist.

I am 50ish in age now. Separated in 1995. Has four (4) kids, young adults now living separate lives & families of their own. I am a college undergrad in a well-known university in Manila. I have worked here & there. Been to places here locally (may nunal ako sa talampakan kaya natural na gala) & worked in the Middle East for a dozen of years. I lived or stayed here & there in Metro Manila & CaLaBaRZon areas. I like a sense of adventure & controllable risk-taking. I am a Nomad. I live where my heart is, wherever it will lead me to.

I have my normal share of ups and downs in life and love. Always standing up when broken and broke (though there were times na sumusuko na rin ako but in the end tatayo pa to move on with life). I live simply. Not wanting much materially. I am not that ambitious but I am a dreamer still. I find contentment with what I have though I also wish sometimes for a bit more but never has it become an obsession.

Secondly, what is Ludus & Mania? Why do I identify myself with these terms?

Ludus and Mania are two (2) of the seven (7) categories of LOVE according to the Greek philosophers. (Though I read a blog here which says there are eight (8) categories but I will stick with what I know and familiar with. Since these seven are also included in that blog.)

The SEVEN (7) love categories that I know of are STORGE, PHILIA, LUDUS, EROS, MANIA, PRAGMA, and AGAPE (building up or maturing in that order).

1. STORGE is Familial Love. The love between family members. Parents-Children, Between Siblings. Grandparents-Grandchildren. Uncles/Aunts-Nephews/Nieces. Cousins. This is love in its purest. Love that begins at home. A healthy and peaceful home is a good place to nurture love. No lust involved. When lust (Ludus & Mania) is allowed to seep in, then it becomes taboo, incest, molestation, sexploitation, and forbidden love. (Meron akong kwento tungkol dito mamaya at sa susunod na kabanata nitong confessions ko.)

2. PHILIA (or FILIA) is Fraternal or Communal Love. The love existing among friends, brotherhood/fraternity, sisterhood/sorority, workmates, and neighborhood or community. This is the level where the next kind of love blooms which can now lead to physical & sexual intimacy. This love is the foundation of a strong love affair (relationship) or marriage.

3. LUDUS is Playful or Flirty Love. The developmental stage of physical intimacy & awareness of sexuality. The kilig factor. Sometimes associated with puppy love & crushes. That kilite or tingling sensation you feel when parts of your fingers, hands, arms, elbows, knees, thighs or feet touches another body. Yung feeling na nakukuryente ka especially if it's your crush or 'love' interest. Those who are in this kind of love engages in and addicted to phonesex, textsex, chatsex, or videosex of non-committed lovers. A No-Label kind of love. Second only to MANIA in terms of lustfulness.

Dito ko nasimulan iexploit at maranasan ang sensuality or sexuality of the girls I encountered in my sexventures. Throughout these sexperiences I learned more of mine as well. More on this as I tell you my confessions about these sexperiences.

4. EROS is Sensual or Passionate Love. The love between BF/GF, married couples, live-in partners. In this stage, both have decided to be exclusive to one another. Sharing their life to fulfill a dream of having a family. Having children. This love can bloom into PRAGMA or doomed by LUDUS or MANIA. (Since I am legally separated, I would like to keep my former married life private & protect the identity of my ex-wife or ex-livein partner, and will not be sharing the sexperiences I have in this stage.)

5. MANIA is Lustful or Obsessive Love. The type of love that is selfish and possessive. A kind of love that is self-pleasuring and overcontrolling. The self-worth of an individual can be measured on how one masters this type of love. Those who dwell on sex fantasies and fetishes have a strong inclination to this kind of maniacal love.

Eto na siguro ung madedefine ko na maiintindihan ng lahat. Purong Libog lang ang uri na pagmamahal ito. Dito na papasok ung mayroong FuBu, Secret Lover, Cheating Spouse, Friends with Benefits, at kung ano-ano pang ipapangalan o 'label' sa ganitong uri...

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Joined: June 14, 2020 (19 days old)
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i am ludus. flirty & playful.
i am mania. obsessive & lustful.
i am here for fun, enjoyment & pleasure.

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peejaytetz9693
June 16, 2020 (16 days ago)

Sundan agad po otor🤘

peejaytetz9693

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LudusMania143
June 17, 2020 (16 days ago)

Thank you for reading, Brad! The next one will be a short sexperience confession only. Storge-Ludus. 1st Draft pa lang yung naumpisahan ko.

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sex is ludus. lust is mania!

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MidLifeCrisis
June 17, 2020 (16 days ago)

Next pleaseeee...

And welcum to the site :)

And.I.Care.Not.

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LudusMania143
June 17, 2020 (16 days ago)

Oh, thank you for the welcome & for reading my 1st confession, Ma'm! Very much appreciated. Next Storge-Ludus experience is cumming soon na po. In the making na.

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sex is ludus. lust is mania!

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DadiNoli
June 17, 2020 (16 days ago)

Good confession! Welcome to the site, too! Ang galing ng pagkakarelate mo sa Love Categories of the Greeks! Meron akong naisulat na blog about 8 types of Love rin dito. Yun ba ang nabanggit mo na nabasa dito?

Keep on writing, Ludus! Looking forward to the next chapter of your Confession Series.

Congrats on your 1st writing here!

carpe diem! make that moment count!

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LudusMania143
June 17, 2020 (16 days ago)

Yes, Sir! I believe it was your blog I read here a few weeks back when I was browsing through sites on the Greeks' Love Categories. It got me into thinking of writing my Confession Series based on it.

Thank you for reading and commenting on my 1st writing journey here. I do appreciate it very much! Hoping you will stay tuned for more of my confessions here. A pleasant day to you, Sir!

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sex is ludus. lust is mania!

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archerqueen95
June 17, 2020 (16 days ago)

Ang ganda nakaka excite

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LudusMania143
June 17, 2020 (16 days ago)

Oh, thank you for reading and commenting, Ma'm! I hope the my next confession will sexcite you more. Though it's a bit milder sexperiences I have with my two (2) first cousins. It may still spark a tingling sensation in you! Cumming Soon!

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sex is ludus. lust is mania!

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Yvonniekimsori
June 18, 2020 (15 days ago)

Wow. Thank you. Very juicy info :)

Experience is the greatest kamasutra teacher

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LudusMania143
June 18, 2020 (15 days ago)

Double Wow! Coming from an author like you is an honor, Ma'm! I love your KamaSutra stories & true stories, too! Such a sexcitement to read, Ma'm!

Thank you for reading and commenting, Ms.Sexcitement!

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sex is ludus. lust is mania!

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itchypussy143
June 18, 2020 (14 days ago)

This is great and very informative story! Yoi have more experience than I expected haha 😊

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LudusMania143
June 18, 2020 (14 days ago)

Thank you for reading and commenting, Ms.Newbie Author! Expect the unexpected in my next chapters of Sexventures Confessions. Perhaps you may be able to relate in any of them. Looking forward to reading more of your confessions, too!

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sex is ludus. lust is mania!

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itchypussy143
June 19, 2020 (14 days ago)

Thank you po! Relate much cousin to cousin huh?

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LudusMania143
June 19, 2020 (14 days ago)

Yes, cousin to cousin. Though much younger ka than I am.

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