A Nurses' Note For The Guy I Hit Before

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Date: January 29, 2020 (29 days ago)


Hello Everyone..
NOD Yvonnie po uli
I have been very busy these past days. Night duty pa rin po aq. But Im sure tatapusin ko lahat ng confessions ko bago ako angkinin ni hubby.

Excerp po muna tayo. PAhinga.

I dont understand the way a guy thinks but I have learned and red about male psychology books before. Syempre hindi ako mind reader. Di ko pa rin makabisado ang takbo ng utak nila.
An expert neurologist compared the male brain and the female brain in terms of brain activities. The male brain function for relative specifications at nag rereact sila in their own understanding. It means specific silang mag isip. The neurologist explains this by citing a "specific box" sa bawat gawain at thinking strategy ng lalaki. For example: Kung sports ang pag uusapan, sa sports sila mag coconcentrate ng reactions.
Another example would be when i asked my husband to help clean around the house. Naglinis nga siya pero sa paligid lang ng bakuran namin.
(Nakakainis. I meant clean the whole house)

This is the big difference from the female brain. We tend to think in general than being specific. Kung a guys may "specific box" ang pag iisip, sa mga babae iisa lang ang lalagyan ng lahat. We can relate anything to everything. vice versa. Another add-on sa complexity ng babae kaya we need to double the understanding part. Girls need to be patient lalo na kung may nakalimutan ang guy o utos na hindi niya nagawa.
Next time i asked my husband another chore, nililista ko lahat at may kasama pang explanation at guidance ng kasambahay namin kung maaari. Im not claiming that guys are stupid. That is not my point. Girls, Mind you. Guys are equipped to be smarter in taking calculated risks.
Girls, Kung hihingi kau ng pabor lalo na from a guy, you should be the one to adjust sa level ng understanding niya. Respect lang. Hindi porke gentleman ang guy pagagalitan niyo na o sisigawan agad.
A relationship is all about establishing connections. Blackmails can burn bridges
and make complicated connections.

Furthermore, guys tend to take more risks than girls. In times of distress, Mas dominant ang fight option nila from the flight option sa brain activity.

Before i married my husband, He would usually do something irritating to me. Hindi ko pa siya sinasagot noon(kahit nakarami na kami ng bed scenes).
He would touch my hair. Meddle with the contents of my bag or even read private messages on my cellphone.OMG. Ang galing niyang manghula ng passwords ko.
Even worse. Since nurse ako at doctor siya, I am obliged to refer to him pag may admission under sa kanya. Madalas habang nag rerefer aq ng pasyente sa kanya he would make unnecessary noises which would eventually distract me. Nakakainis. Kinakausap ko ng maayos tapos he keeps on loudly tapping his pen, the tray o kahit anung bagay na mahahawakan niya. Nananadya ba?! Explain ko lang sana yung side ko. Hindi ko pa man din maintindihan sulat-kamay niya. Sulat doctor talaga magulo. Hindi tuloy aq maka concentrate sa mga charting ko. Para sana maka endorse at makauwi aq ng maaga.
He is not making my duty easy.
Whats up with that?! Andami ko pang pasyente. Andami ko pang gagawin.
I would eventually stop talking and look him in the eyes. "Makuha ka sa tingin" Sakaling makita kami ng mga kaduty namin, they would often laugh or tease us. "Get a room" daw.
He would then flash his smile. Sometimes I would punch him in his shoulder lightly. (Pero padaplis lang).

One night duty, habang gumagawa aq ng nurses' notes ko, a certain "Manang" approached our station. Nag iisa aq wala na sigurong mapagtanungan. "Mam, excuse me po. Saan po naka admit yung anak ko" I asked her kung anung pangalan ng pasyente. Her eyes then got angry and she started to yell at me. "YUNG ANAK KO. YUNG ANAK KO! KAYO ANG PUMATAY NG ANAK KO!!" I was shocked and afraid. Lumaki mga mata ko at napatayo ako sa kinauupuan ko. "Mother, relax po. anu po pangalan ng pasyente nio at ako na po ang maghahanap.." I have to escape this crazy woman infront of me (but to no avail). Hinarangan niya ang pinto ng station. "HINDI! IKAW NGA! IKAW NGA!!"
(Shit.asan na ba ang mga security guards)
Naglalaway pa. Bka bigla nlang akong kagatin ng matandang ito. Nag iskandalo pa. Nagsisitinginan na mga pasyente namin dito sa station.
Fortunately, dumating ang pinakaiinisan kong doctor(Si hubby). At kinausap ang matanda.
"O...lola. Kumusta na po kayo? Magpapacheck up ba uli kayo?....."
The manang suddenly calmed down and walked away.
Napag alaman kong psychotic na pasyente niya yung matanda.
Hayy, salamat. Buhay ako.
Nakahinga ako ng maluwag.(My hero..)
Kaming dalawa nlang ang natira sa station.
"Ok ka lang?Parang nakakita ka ng multo" he asked me flashing his smile. I answered him with a joke. Medyo...

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Mr.M
January 30, 2020 (29 days ago)

At yun ang nag pa simula nang kislap na pagmamahalan nila

Married yet related to many who try to

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Lenovo29
January 30, 2020 (29 days ago)

Wow kaw po ba yan nasa pic

Weeeee29

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Simen13
January 30, 2020 (29 days ago)

Awesome naalala ko tuloy x gf nasa saudi💦💦💦

Paboso

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volox000
January 31, 2020 (27 days ago)

Ganda naman ni ate

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Captainatom
February 4, 2020 (24 days ago)

I would like to have a one night with you... Well wishful thinking

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