The Gentleman And The Maniac..

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Date: January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)


Hello FSS-ers, just want to ask for your POV po.

I just dated a guy, sobrang gentleman niya, and I have to admit nkaka-turn on, sexually and even beyond that, for serious relationship probably. Intellectual and physically attractive ang kuya mo. Dinala niya 'ko sa bahay nila sa isang QC subdivision, pinakilala sa Mom niya and everyone in the family. Mayaman na family I should say, family of investors. The guy is only a year older than me. Hndi ko naman siya pinapansin sa opisina, kasi busy ako in "my own" warped world, pero etoh itong guy, started hitting on me, asked for dates and goes with me wherever I go or hangout. Invite niya sarili niya sa mga gimik ko.

Then dinala niya ako sa Korea, ung kalamigan na season, ha. So nagtabi kami sa bed ng 4 nights, pero BOOM! walang nangyari sa'men! As in wala! Men, attracted nga ako di'ba, so tnry ko abutin ung matigas niya nung nasa kama kami. Torridly kissed him, pumaibabaw ako and all, nagsuot ng kita kaluluwa, and even tried to un-button his pants. Pero grabe, wala talaga ako napala. Wala, NIL, Zero, Nada. So ang lola niyo ngaun, aun natigang sa Korea. Halos mag-init ang ulo ko hndi dahil walang sex, kundi "huh, ano mali?"

Ok, fine. After that, nanliit talaga ako sa sarili ko. Feeling ko bastusin babae ako nun. Ok lang, tanggap ko ang judgement na un. Ang hndi ko gets na napapatanong ako sa sarili ko:

a. Pagod siya at wala sa mood;
b. Ginagalang niya 'ko kasi gentlement siya, and "testing the waters" ika nga nila (Fine, alam ko naman na may mga gantoh ngaun);
c. Takot makabuntis;
d. Hndi naman niya 'ko talaga type. Gusto lang niya ng companion and siguro nakakaaliw lang talaga 'ko ksama.

Hindi ko tanggap ang all of the above na sagot. I know in my heart isa dito ang accurate. Pero ano un? bakit? May mali ba'ko? Pangit ba 'ko? Then WHHHHHYYY?

So etoh na nga, ayaw naman ako tantanan. Gusto pa rin nia kami lagi may regular time mag-date. So ano, date date? High-school tayo? Hndi ko alam kung ano ang trip ni kuya. Kung ayaw din naman ako galawin, hndi ko alam ang pakay niya saken. Kasi kung wala syang pakay, siguro isave nia nlng ang oras nia sa iba, and para ma-save n din ang oras ko para sa iba.

Ano po ba ang maga...

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skyblade009
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

maybe he's gay???

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memepepe
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

mukhang hndi naman po e. typical na guy naman pag nakausap.  Tsaka what's the point na hndi niya aminin e, maayos naman akong kaibigan sa knia. :(

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Allenpaul
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Hehehe hindi ka niya type, LALAKI ang type niya. Kung sa akin ka nakipagdate eh, waley ka pahinga

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mandara13
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

I think yung may reason bakit ayaw nya muna makipagsex
First. Medyo romantic syang lalake. Ganun din ginawa sakin ng gf ko nung una. Hindi ako nagpapahalik kasi di pa kami at gusto ko sya ligawan.hehe kaso bumigay ako.After three days nagsex na kami. Then saka ko na sya niligawan.

Second. Gay sya or bi.

Third. Hesitate sya dahil virgin pa sya.

Wag ka mag worry.
Tanungin mo sya kung nanliligaw ba sya.

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whoaster
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

kiss lng then sex after three days? grabe romantic mo nga hehe

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Mahalkita123z
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Respect Yun Lang tigin ko sa kanya or di pa naka move one :)

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memepepe
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Salamat po, sana ganun lang.  Medio na-offend din kasi ako ng konti.  Sana sinabihan na lang nia ako tantanan ko sha, o kaya nagbook sha ng separate room for us dun sa trip.

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whoaster
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

i dont think so, respect is ung ginagalang mo ung desisyon ng girl, si girl na nga nghuhubad sa guy e hindi pa ba consensual yun?

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zharene
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Lay down your cards. Sabihin mo kung ano gusto mo. Kung hindi nya maibigay, wag ka na makipagmabutihan sa kanya. It's just a waste of your precious time. It also deprives you to meet a man who can give what you need and what you want.

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memepepe
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Un na nga kasi magulo, sis e.  I'm a believer of you have only one life, live it to the fullest, wag sayangin. ;)

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rednaxel947
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

May nais syang mapatunayan sa kanyang pamilya,kaya iniharap ka nya agad sa parents nya.kung ano man yun ay di ko alam. Baka may inheritants na bibigay sa kanya na dapat eh magasawa na sya.vanidoso sya baka gay at no balls.wag ka kasi mangarap agad. D ka nya nais gamitin sa bed.maybe cabinet wife ka lang.

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memepepe
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Very  poignant analysis, sir. Mahilig po ba kayo manood ng telenovela? :p

No, hndi po sya vain, and typical alpha male po.  Ano po ung pangarap na sinasabi niyo na pangarap-- a) ung ma-experience ko sha that night, or b) ung mapangasawa sya?  Hndi lahat ng babae po, pangarap ang maging 'wife' sila, so much as maging "cabinet" wife.  The term. Lol.

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whoaster
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

please use cabinet in a sentence...maybe cabinet wife ka lang,gumulong ako e hahahaha!

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whoaster
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

cguro hindi pa cia ready makipgsex sayo sa level nyo, i mean wala tlga ako maisip na dahilan kung bakit ka nya tatangihan

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whoaster
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

how old are you na ba author? kung pwde lng malaman

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keps2lips
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

bading yan or d tinitigasan

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ngipert
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

cguro nabasa nya mga confession mo dito.. hahaha. joke lang.

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memepepe
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Feeling ko hndi.  Kasi pag nagbabasa ka ng FSS, baka marami na rin "na-explore" un e. lol

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boy123
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

That man there, love is for keeps. He is not gay or what but he respects you more than enough that he doesn't want to have sex with you. He's like that love. He doesn;t just like you, he is In Love with you. For a man like him kasi, if he really loves someone he tends to postpone sexual intercourse until marriage bc he want to spend quality time with and not base your relationship only in sex. trust him. don't give into your horniness. wait for him to initiate.

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memepepe
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Wow, sana nga tama ka dito sa point n ito, sir.  Ang haba ng hair ko, and must be too good to be true.  Salamat po. :)

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surako
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Me.  I can't get my junior up until I'm emotionally involved.  Even if the girl is ultra sexy.  Actually, it's a turn off for me if a girl tries to seduce me.

For me, intellect and respect is sexy.  The more I respect the girl, the greater I am aroused.

I maybe a rare commodity though

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baldymannn2k17
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

ang natagpuan mo na lalaki ay one in a million hehe..kasi sa iba gentleman pero may kasabihan na pag palay na lumalapit ay medyo mahirap makakita ng hindi tutuka...yun nga na hindi pa nag dadamoves babae na ganyan tapos may kahit konting hint lalake eh raratsada na kaagad lalake yun pa kayang ganyan...

snoop dogg

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memepepe
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

well said po, salamat. :)  sana nga po all goes well.

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camposgwapo123
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Mahal ka tlaga nun at ayaw nya lang na isipin mong sex ang habol nya sya. Un lang un. Tunay na lalaki yan. May paninindigan. Pakasalan mo na. 😉

life is too short, use it wisely

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fuubuu
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

In much more observations about what i read in yout story...

He's totally BI.. why??
Walang lalakeng tatangi pag pinatu gan ka na ng babae... Get my point??

So sabi mo hindi sya gay?? Reason for being with you is..
1. He just wanted you as her front GIRL... Or
2. He just wanted you as her bestfriend

What more? Kahit gano ka pa karespeto sa babae.. pag babae na gumawa ng move... Matic na yun... Kase ndi nya ba naisip na mabastos ka nya in a way na ikaw na nga un gumawa ng moveat tinggihan nya?? Sympre ma offend ang babaeng gnawan nya ng gnun..

So its clear for me.. para sakin ha ..

Hes not straight ...

Anyway i like your moves author..
Bihira sa babae ang gumagawa na first move..

;)

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fbally
January 8, 2019 (15 days ago)

Talagang sex lang ang habol sa kanya...hahaha

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wanderboy76
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

Wala sya sa mood

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dahdimuhko63
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

Hindi sya para syo kasi pareho kyo ng hinahanap. I dont think n may straight n guy n hinsi bibigay hinalikan mo n ng torrid hinawakan mo n ang kanya nkaibabaw k pa. Nakaka.offend nga yun in your part. Bonding time kayo sa gym tapos watch what he does and where he's looking malalamanmo ang totoo. Goodluck!!!

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surako
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Happened to me.  I really like the girl. One night I fetched her from a gimmick.  She was drinking.  She wanted me to fuck her hard and even took off her clothes in the car.

But I told her she's drunk and I want to do it when she is sober.  I even told her I'll fetch her tomorrow if she really wanted to have sex.

Unfortunately though, she felt insulted, not attractive or fat.  She is sexy but I just don't want to take advantage for a one night stand when I'm aiming for every waking morning to be with her

Most girls nowadays though wants sex, expects sex and loves having sex.

I'm the kind of kind who loves respect and emotional connection more than physical sex

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memepepe
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

wooooooooooowww.. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 ikaw na po!

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rednaxel947
January 11, 2019 (12 days ago)

Aray tinamaan ka doon sa comment ni surako.take for granted ang hotness mo. Usap kau same workplace naman kau

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anino
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

You are thinking way too much about this. He is not gay nor he is BI as some would claim. So the guy doesn't want to sleep with you mag assume kana agad na bading siya.

You see, there are still guys out there who gives out respect and boundaries. And to be honest, him not taking your advances means ayaw ka niya is actually wrong. Humalik siya, right? Ibinalik niya ang ginagawa mo, right? Hindi nga lang sa puntong all the way na gusto mo.

Slow down dude, you don't need to fuck agad, ibahin mo siya sa mga lalaking nakilala mo. The guy is not gay, all right. He is what you called "boyfriend-material". Relax and don't bang your over thinking things, enjoy it.

For me, you found your Unicorn.

The Wanderer!

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nher1989
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

tama si idol anino hehehe

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memepepe
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Nakahanap nga po ako sigura talga ng bihira.  tama ka po, unicorn. 🦄

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rednaxel947
January 11, 2019 (12 days ago)

Anino is right...

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NOKIA
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)


Straight Talk. PERHAPS he didn't like the way u smell or kiss that time. BAKA u only had a quick shower,  or u forgot to use  mouthwash or sobrang wet kisser ka kaya u turned him off.  Kung kayong mga girls nga, kahit cguro anong gwapo o macho ng guy pero may amoy na hindi nyo gusto o maTake cgurado mawawalan din kyo ng gana. PERHAPS mataas ang expectations nya syo kaya at the back of his mind disappointed sya but still, he remained civil & a gentleman.

Its like when u ordered something online na sa pic it looks sobrang ganda or yummy or ok but pag personal na nakita, nahawakan or naamoy or natikman mo na then dun na papasok yung unshakeable feeling of disappointment, w the thought na, "hm CGURO  pwde na ding pag-tyagaan, or itatabi nlng muna PERHAPS for future use", & u wont even bother na isoli since it ok lng & mura lng nman kaya hayaan nlng.

Dont waste ur time. Dami dyan PERHAPS w less expectations & w lower standards. Yung tipong fuck lng kung fuck, go lng kung go. Hindi lng babae ang pwede or or can afford to be choosy. Like u girls,  we als

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NOKIA
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

Like u girls,  we also have the option & rights to chose whats best for us that will make us happy & feeling satisfied too . Learn & move on. Good luck & Peace!

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memepepe
January 10, 2019 (14 days ago)

Napaamoy tuloy ako sa kilikili ko... hahahaha. Ok po.  Noted.

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ObiWan
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

Bading Yan. Front ka Lang Kaya ka dine-date.
Kung may respeto said iyo Ang lalake, Hindi ka binigo Nyan nung ikaw na nagsimula ng encounter nung nasa Korea kayo. Nirespeto at sinunod nya dapat Ang gusto mong mangyari.

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Saudade
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

sabihin mo sa kanya whats on your mind para sa kanya mo mismo malaman yung sagot, wala po dito yung sagot nasa kanya

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memepepe
January 10, 2019 (14 days ago)

opo. sorry na, galit ka ba? 😆

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Saudade
January 11, 2019 (13 days ago)

Hindi naman, pero minsan mag sabi din kasi dapat ng problema yung babae.

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wattleferdz
January 9, 2019 (14 days ago)

Klaruhin mo na ‘te baka pinufront ka lang nya. Baka umasa ka sa wala. Ang lalaki, kahit santo, pag nandyan na ang opportunity kumantot, kakantot yan, lalo na babae na ang nag-initiate.

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Johnerick13
January 10, 2019 (14 days ago)

On my opinion bading yan..

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bulolski
January 10, 2019 (14 days ago)

hindi tuli.

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kweryow
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Wag mo pansinin pag selosin mo hanggang sa mag confess  na sya sayo ng feelings nya

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memepepe
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

👊🏼

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dylenpogi5
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Siguro ayaw nya ng commitment... takot

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CJKamandag
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Tingin ko mahal ka nya. Una kasi pinakilala ka nya sa family nya, kung may balak syang lokohin ka or talagang wala lang, trip ka lang nya idate, hindi ka nya ihaharap sa family nya. Kasi kung ako hindi ko ihaharap sa family ko ung girl na hindi ako siguradong gusto ko o mapapahiya ako sa family ko sa gagawin kong kalokohan sa kanya. pangalawa kasi despite na mayaman sya, she chose to date you, she could have dated someone more business inclined kung talagang he is dating only for a show, matalino sya sabi mo nga if I were him, magdedate ako ng makakatulong sa pagpapalago ng family wealth ko. Hindi ko sinasabing hindi nya ginamit ung talino nya nung piliin ka nya, pero ang pinupunto ko, he chose you by heart. pangatlo it doesnt mean na hindi ka nya gusto nung hindi ka nya galawin, that trip might be his test para mas makilala ka nya. Sa ginawa mo base sa pagkakadescribe mo sa kanya, isang malaking turn off un, ay wala tong girl na to, and yet he still pursued you, he loves you.

You miss 100% of the chances the you dont take, grab it while you still can

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CJKamandag
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Tanggap ka nya ate girl. ang hirap magpigil ng libog kung ako un patungan mo ako, enticing ung suot mo tapos halikan mo ako torridly, kantot barurot ka sakin. He did something na hindi pa nagawa sayo ng ibang lalaki, tingin ko sya lang nakaresist sayo. May paninindigan yang lalaking yan, maybe virgin pa yan. Naniniwala cguro syang marriage before sex. He just want to have a quality time with you, wag ka magmadali darating din ung time na di na makakaresist sayo yan lalo pa pag lagi ka nyang kasama. Hindi rin makakapagpigil yan hindi dahil sa libog kundi dahil sa feelings nya para sayo. Pero wala dito ang sagot sa tanong mo ate girl, walang kwenta lahat ng comments at effort naming magtype dahil ang tunay na reason nasa kanya mismo. Just asking him straight, tell him how you feel, tell him what you want, ask him what he feels, ask him what he wants. tapos ang problema mo. 😊

You miss 100% of the chances the you dont take, grab it while you still can

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memepepe
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

❤❤❤✔

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PANCREAS7777
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

ISIPIN MO NA LANG SI EDWARD CULLEN.. FICTIONAL CHARACTER NA NAGKATAWANG TAO.. BAKA SYA YUN..

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memepepe
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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walmart
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Naging ganyan din ako nung super-duper-madly-crazy inlove ako sa isang girl. Di maka isip ng kababuyan or kawalanghyaan sa girl kahit may motibo na. So, don’t be surprised..nag eexist pa ang mga mamal na ganyan. lol

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memepepe
January 10, 2019 (13 days ago)

Oo nga po.  ang galling nga e.  I'm totally convinced now that guys like you truly and exist.

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xxmakubex
January 11, 2019 (12 days ago)

Its too early to judge. Much better to open it up with him. Pero basi sa sinabi mo baka pareho kayo ng pagtingin. What I mean is, "Intellectual and Physically attractive" din ang tingin nya sayo.. but much more on intellectual side. I find you humorous so parang mas turn on pa sya sa side na yun sayo. I dont think that's a bad news though. Since willing naman sya to go deeper into your world, so take it as a challenge na makilala ka nya ng mabuti. Let him know the other side of you. Kung gaano sya na mangha sa humor mo, introduce and show him that there's more about you specially sa kama. Lahat naman napag uusapan. Di porket di sya ganun ka advance sa kama or hindi sya manyak ay bading or hindi kana sexy sa paningin nya. Haba na ng sinabi ko. But I know you get my point. Hahahaha!

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memepepe
January 12, 2019 (11 days ago)

gets na gets po kita, sir. 🤗 thank you po that you seem to be objective with the situation.

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Jd6027
January 12, 2019 (11 days ago)

Hindi yun bading.
Accept the fact na meron talagang lalakeng di marupok, hindi ko sinasabing ako to hah pero ganun na nga 🤣
Anyways, obserbahan mo sya at tanungin...
Kung yung personality nya eh yung tipong inuuna yung iba bago sya, chances are natatakot syang ma disappoint ka sa magiging performance nya...
Baka virgin at ayaw umamin?
Again, obserbahan mo at sana mag open up si Ateng...I mean Koyang 😁

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