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Tama Na Nmn Asawa Ko! Sobrang Sakit Na! Part 4 (Confused)

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Date: July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)


hello po! andito nnmn ako ngdadrama, pagpasensyahan nyo na po ito na naging outlet ko sa mga nararanasan ko now sa buhay, at ka MR. SHADOWSENSOR1 ok lng po na tawagin nyo ako tanga sana lng po di magyari syo itong nagyayari sakin ngayun.

Well im really confused if i will move on with my life or gawin ko yun gginagawa ko now na mag hold on sa pagmamahal ko sa kanya, WHY? bcaus a turn of event just happened last night, my wife called my mother and she told her na kaya daw nya ginagawa ito para magsikap ako sa buhay? nagsisikap nmn ako sa buhay k,i have work pero maliit lng sweldo, im studying Housekeeping every saturday para magka NC2 at makaalis din ng bansa, and i take care of my 3 kids, and sakin lng lahat ng nalaman ko di ngaling sa kanya lahat nalaman ko ginagawa nya dali nadiskubre ko, so di ko alam iisipin, and after she said that she call last night sa line and she spoke to me siguro mga 3 sentencs lng, she said she put money to my account and told me to give the money to my mother, atfer that mga bata na kinausap nya.

I'm on the way on accepting that i already lost the battle but after she had said her reasons parang hirap n aako paniwalaan mga sinasabi nya, kc if totoo yun, she will stop all forms of communication with all her guy friends in app like Tango, Line, Wechat,VIber, pero tingin ko hindi pa din eh. Pano ko nmn nasabi well when ever she talks to my kids minsan nanonood ako sa kanila, and from time to time i always see her na pa secret na may kausap sa phone nya(kc yun gipad nya gamit nya pang tawag sa mga bata) always ganun. nasa abroad sya...

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Boy_Bastos12
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

...go, u have a chance to prove, find someone who can take care of your kids and mom, kesa naman sa nakstuck ka dyan and forever haunting by what is happening, set yourself free, and prove it...

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Bebeko
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

I'll give u a story.

When the son of king David of Israel got sick, he prayed, cried and fasted just to ask God to heal his young son. His generals and counsels begged him to stop doing that and be a king to all of them. He didn't listen. Instead, he dressed like a humble servant to gain favor in the eyes of his God and continue to fast and pray non-stop.

Then one day his son passed away. To the surprise of his counsels, generals and palace servants king David immediately got up, took a shower for the first time in a long time and put his official wardrobe. Finally, he attended to the needs of Israel and looked like a king again.

One of them asked him why coz they can't understand the wisdom from it. And he replied something like this, "What for? My son is dead already. I prayed hard but God still took Him. It's over so why should I fast, cry and continue to pray for healing? My son is gone and so be it."

Your wife is gone. Continue being a father and move on like King David.

"You learn nothing from life if you think you're right all the time." - Prof. Richard Feynman

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HONEY_7
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

Inspirational story from Bible. Nice comment Bebeko.

If you do not know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else.

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uwatami
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

sir Tayabas panalo ka pa rin .. andyan sayo mga bata ... sa kanila ka kumuha ng inspirasyun ...
masakit ang letting go .. pero kung kinakailangan para sa nakakarami ..it is worth it ... god bless sa  nyu .peace!

" We who dares to reach other peoples heart, are Intimate "

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Mr.M
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

What good is all of the wealth this world offers when a person loses the most important factor in living?A poor man is far more wealthier than of the most richest billionaire this world would ever see.Andiyan ang mga anak mo,sila ang kayamanan na hindi matutumbasan nang kahit anong halaga nang pera o karangyaan.Alam ko mahal mo pero nagbago na siya tulad nang panahon.Hindi kawalan sa pagkatao mo kung ipinagpalit ka niya sa isang tao na katulad niya.Mas bibilib pa ako pag ikaw e ligawan nang mga babae na ang hanap ay lalaki na tulad mo.Maniwala ka,mayroon diyan.May makikilala ka na na papalit sa dati mong asawa.Good luck Swinger Tayabas!

Minsan na namatay pero muli nabuhay

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cutemark
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

sana nakantot na ng ibang lalaki ang asawa mo.

SANA nga! para mag move on ka na at ang asawa mo.

there is nothing new in this world except technology.

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francisF
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

turn that negative situation ur in ryt now into a positive launcher mo... ilagay mo sa utak mo yan para mas lalo kang magsumikap PARA SA MGA ANAK MO... kung baga sa tropa ko, yung asawa mo, old model na.. palitan mo ng mas modelo.. di lang naman xa ang babae sa mundo.. although i know it wud take time.. pero isipin mo nalang mga ANAK MO pre..

----IKO---

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Fiction-Factory
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

"If things does'nt go right, go left"

To be honest, i'm a liar. ♥♞♬♂⚄☜†∇

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MAGNIFICO
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

Base sa mga sinabi mo malinaw na mi kalaguyo ang asawa mo. Naramdaman mo at nakikita mo ang mga obvious na panloloko sayo. Siya mismo sinasabi sayo ng tahasan na wala ng pagasa. Mi mga plano siya sa buhay pero di kayo kasama ng mga anak niyo.

Kaya lang niya binibigyan ng pera ang mother mo ay para maging mabango sa paningin ng magulang mo at bigyan ng pagtutuwid ang baluktot na katwiran na sinabi sa nanay mo. Normally pag mi ginagawang bawal ang isang tao itatago niya ito kasi gustong buo pa rin ang pamilya kahit papano.

Pero sa kaso ng asawa mo siya ang nagsasabi mismo at pinamumukha pa sayo. Gunggong lang yong maniniwala sa katwiran niya na kaya niya gingawa yon ay para magsumikap ka kuno. So kung ako sayo, ayusin mo sarili mo, intindihin mo mga anak mo at magpursige kang makahanap ng maayos na trabaho. Darating din ang tamang babae para sayo.

Sa bandang huli pag ikaw ay umasenso at siya ay nasalubong mo taas noo mong sagutin ang KUMUSTA greeting niya ng "WHO U?"

. . .sige ibuka mo . . .at didilaan ko.

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somebodyuused2know
July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

Familiar line, "who u?" Nice. :-D

"Go find someone else to feed your ego. I'm busy."

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pogingbagsik
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

Tayabas ganyan din ako dati sa ex gf ko . 5yrs kame at ako ang nakauna sa knya
kaya siguro gnun nlang ako kung makabantay.. Pero walang naidulot yun na maganda . dahil nasakal lang  sya sa relasyon nmin hanggang sa tuluyan na syang manlamig sken. At sobrang nasaktan ako sa ngyari . Biruin mo yung taong pinakamamahal mo at pinakaiingatan .. eh mawawala lang din ng dahil sayong sariling kagagawan ? Pero imbis na magpaka paranoid ako sa kaiisip kung anung dahilan or kung niloloko nya ako ay itinuon ko na lang ang isip ko sa pagbabago . Naging positibo ako sa pagiisip sa mga ganung bagay . Pinalaya ko sya at kumawala naman ako sa mundo ng puno ng hinala at takot na mawala sya skin . Syempre sa una mahirap pero habang lumilipas ang pabahon eh unti unti akong nakakalimot . Payo ko lang kung nararamdaman mong wala na syang nararamdaman para sayo eh palayain mo na. kung talagang mahal ka nya gagawa sya ng paraan para mabuong muli ang pamilya mo at babalikan ka nya hindi mo na kailangang pumunta pa sa abroad at iwan ang mga anak nyo .

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antoinette
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

Safe mode ka muna.  Try mo muna lumayo. no calls, no communications. Kung mahal ka pa nun, mararamdaman nya yong paglayo mo.  Then baka sya na mismo gagawa ng paraan magkaayos kayo. Pero ihanda mo na rin sarili mo na baka nag iba na sya talaga and you lost her for good.

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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MidLifeCrisis admin
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

Babae din ako at base sa mga naisulat mo napakatanga mo na kung ipagpipilitan mo pa ang sarili mo sa asawa mo.  Hindi ka na nya mahal, plain and simple.  Kasi kung mahal ng babae ang karelasyon nya, kahit sobrang busy ay hahanap ng time yan na makausap o matext ang lalaking mahal nya.  Hindi yong super habol ka naman kahit deadma ka na nya.  

Alam mo kung kapitbahay lang kita gusto na kitang batukan. Ibaling mo nga sa mga anak mo ang panahon mo.  Pilitin mo ang sarili mo, mga anak mo yon eh.  Higit sa lahat sila ang nangangailangan sa yo.

At hindi rin kita magets, sabi mo nag-aaral ka ng kung ano ano para makalabas ka ng bansa, yan na nga at may offer na may alibi ka na naman, ang nanay mo.  Ano ba kasi talaga ang gusto mo? Naiintndihan kita na ayaw mong umalis dahil gusto mong alagaan ang nanay mo, so bakit mo sinasabing gusto mong mag-abroad? Edi pagbutihin mo ang pagtatrabaho sa atin kung ayaw mong iwan ang nanay mo.  

Mas maaalagaan mo pa ang mga anak nyo kung anjan ka lang.

It’s okay if you don’t like me. I was not born to impress you.

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graccubus
July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

this is the ultimate shaker...

"Alam mo kung kapitbahay lang kita gusto na kitang batukan."

...that's the cue.  [mlc, u did it again!]

@ tayabas-swinger, listen to: snap out of it by arctic monkeys

if you frequent fss...you have less time for sex...unless, you're in it now...

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MidLifeCrisis admin
July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

:D graccubus, matagal kong pinag-isipan kung magcocomment ba ako knowing ano ang gusto kong i-type.  Baka ako ang batukan ni ts.  Pero naisip ko since gusto nyang hingin ang opinion natin edi gi-no ko na kung anong nasa isip ko...

It’s okay if you don’t like me. I was not born to impress you.

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graccubus
July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

for me, that's the most powerful words...

you will hit him not to hurt him...

but only to wake him up...

if you frequent fss...you have less time for sex...unless, you're in it now...

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shadowcensor1
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

langhiya ka talaga brad la ako ma say Sayo ang tali talino mo eh...

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HONEY_7
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

If your wife has a reason bakit nya ginagawa yun, you had a reason too why you need to move on. Hindi lang dapat ang asawa mo ang iniintindi mo, nag asawa ka para may makakatulong ka sa buhay pero kung ganyan lang din na pati ikaw at mga anak mo ay apektado na, hayaan mo na. Mahirap magsalita kasi asawa mo yan, its ur decision parin.

If you do not know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else.

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escalona
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

Sir tayabas_swinger........just continue your journey.....my story is just similar to you......i have  childhood sweetheart from elem. To high school.....ngkahiwalay sila nung ngcollege na kmi...ng aral sa isang exclusive school sa maynila....ako sa bayan lang kumuha ng (Bsed)teacher pero dahil mahirap lang kami di ko natapos ang 2nd sem sa pangalan taon ko sa pag aaral...lumuwas ako para makipag sapalaran sa maynila at dito ko naranasan pagkakaiba ng may pinag aralan at sa wala...nung magtapos xa at maipasa ang board exam nya bilang nurse ay nag abroad xa at nawalan na kami ng communication...samantalang ngpatuloy ako sa pag aaral sa maynila...security guard sa gabi at studyante sa umaga....aksidente kasing nakapasa ako sa entrance exam sa pup manila sa kursong civil engr..one time nakita ko nanay nya pag uwi ko ng probinxa namin at nakibalita ako sa knya...nalaman kong ng asawa na pala ng katrabaho nya abroad....nuon pa man ayaw na kasi sa akin ng mga magulang nya at wala daw xang ma

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escalona
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

Ituloy ko po hirap kc magtype cp lang gamit ko....wala daw xa mapapala sakin....that time iwas 3rd year college na nun at laking pasalamat ko kasi nacarry mga minors ko nung bsed pa ako...ngayun isa na po akong civil engineer........at kahit papano unti unti ng umaangat  ang kabuhayan.....nagsilbing inspirasyon ko ung minaliit nila ako....at nabalitaan ko rin sa kanya na nagsisisi xa fren na kc kani sa fb at ninong sa isang anak nila....sobra daw ugali ng asawa nya patago kung makapagbigay xa sa mga magulang nya....sakin din kc nagsasabi ng problema kung minsan...........kaya advice ko sir....ipagpatuloy mu lang yan...sa umpisa lang masakit pero maglalaho din yan sakit na yan.....ika nga ng kasabihan eh " a man cannot be polish without problems.......

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lorkanechizen
July 14, 2014 (8 years ago)

brad pakawalan mo na  nasa iyo mga anak sila na lang ang pagtuonan mo ng atensyon..un ang mas mahalaga..yaman na walang katumbas ang mga anak mo brod

must go on brod...live your live to to the fullest wag mong hayaan ma stuck ka cause it suck

god bless make the the choice brod..

in everything that we do in life we should always be responsible enough of our action that we do

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rcc0921
July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

Sir tayabas_swinger, I speak from experience when I say, women who dump you and leave you for another are women who never deserved your love in the first place. I can see from what you've written in the past that your love for her was selfless and true, even to the point of letting her leave the country to work. What she is doing to you, and to your family, is cruel and inexcusable. I am one with the majority who say, let her go. You have your kids; that should be enough. Be a good father to them, and show them that having you is enough, even without their mother. You will find another, one who truly is worthy of your love and affection, who will accept you for who you are. In the meantime, let your heart heal, move on and continue living. It won't do you any good to keep on brooding and remaining hurt.

I wish you good luck in all your endeavours.

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July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

Your wife is not worthy for your love. Ang dapat sayo ay mabagok ng sobrang lakas para ma-realize mo na ang tanga tanga mo. You're lucky because your kids are with you. Growing up from a broken family, nakita ko kung pano nagsikap ang mommy ko para itaguyod kami ng kapatid ko on her own. Walang masama sa pagiging single parent. Pabigat lang ang paghahabol mo sa asawa mo. Malay mo andiyan lang sa paligid mo yung taong deserving para sayo, you just have to move on ang look on the brighter side. Hindi pa tapos ang lahat, umpisa pa lang ng laban. Prove to her that she made the worst decision in he life by leaving you and the kids. Always pray to God and He will never fail you. Karma na ang bahala sa asawa mo. Good luck sayo at sa laban mo sa buhay. God bless you sir.

Silent but deadly.

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somebodyuused2know
July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

Yoko na sana magbigay ng opinyon kaso nakakadala yung mga nagbato ng sampera nila.

Ang hirap lang isipin kung anong klaseng asawa ba siya sayo, and it would be unfair to judge her solely on the grounds that you presented here. Pero if we are really going to defy fairness and presume that she's not in love with you anymore, then what else are you doing?

I understand its not easy to let go. Lahat naman madaling sabihin but its not always as easy as 1, 2, 3. Pero wallowing in self pity isnt going to fix anything. Not your self esteem, not your relationship, neither your heart. But you can save your kids from being sucked into that unhappy vortex you are letting your wife create for you. Snap out of  it. And be man enough to let go, doing that wouldn't necessarily mean you are weak. It would only mean you are strong enough to know when to give up the fight.

"Go find someone else to feed your ego. I'm busy."

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somebodyuused2know
July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

Tama sis sis Midz, kung mahal ka pa niya she would see your flaws but won't speak ill about you. She won't give up on you. Lalo na kung usaping pera o kabuhayan lang ang sinasabi niyang dahilan. Generally speaking, a wife who truly loves her man would never give up that easily.

"Go find someone else to feed your ego. I'm busy."

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hornbig
July 15, 2014 (8 years ago)

never choose sum1 who needs to think twice about choosing u. . bro, spend your time on those dat love you unconditionally. .don't waste it on those dat love u when the conditions are right for them. .kaya mo yan bro. .you just need more time and it will heal. .

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July 16, 2014 (8 years ago)

Kulang ka sa sex yan ang mali mo kulang ka sa libog dimo nilalandi asawa mo wag ka mag based sa cash or anything attention lng need ng babae dun k ngkamali 200% im right

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uzindakol26
April 27, 2017 (5 years ago)

Kelangan mo nga talagangagpatingin sa psychiatrist

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