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Date: August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)


Nakaka lungkot lang isipin na People are tend to judge you. Judging People goes both ways. Lalo na dito sa Adult Group Kapag nakipag usap ka ng maayos sasabihin baka pang dag dag lang ako sa mga babae o lalake mo.
And nakakalungkot din kung kinukumpara ka sa ibang mga nakaka chat at nakaka...

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LibrongUod
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

OK lang yan. Learn from it. We do have the moments of judging others first before looking at the bigger picture. LAHAT TAYO ACTUALLY COMMITTED THE SAME MISTAKE. It's how you deal with these people that matters.

I admit minsan prejudging din ako. Kaya I always remind myself, "I should be atop the table." Why? The difference in standing atop a desk and just standing on the floor to where the desk was placed is the view - you get to see the bigger picture from above rather than below.

If they judge you, don't judge in return. Easy to say but hard to do. But, try as you might. Kasi it will always be a cycle. You are judged, you judged, the one whom you judged will judge others, and so on.

I Master, I Universalize, I Believe.

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LibrongUod
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

Better to stop the cycle, eh? And as for your post, you did the right thing.

I Master, I Universalize, I Believe.

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inang.grasya
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

Stannnnnn lika inuman na! Wag na intindihin mga hukom na yan na walang appointment galing sa Supreme Court.

Ikaw ang nakakakilala sa sarili mo. Kung di ka tanggap kung sino at ano ka, di wag. Move on. Mahirap magpanggap dahil lalabas at lalabas na tunay na pagkatao at pag-uugali.

Amazona kung tagurian pero malambing naman.

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August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

Kaya ako? Basa ng basa.... Wag ng mag comment. Kaso kahit read mode,,, mag comment parin ang iba...

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Stanl_Islao
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

it's not a mistake it's just the truth and the fact of life. May mga tao talagang ganun

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August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

Hindi lang dito meron nyan Islao..kahit saan madaming ganyan..learn from your experience na lang...:)

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a.bit.innocent
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

As what they always say,di natin mapipilit kung ano ang pananaw ng ibang tao sa atin. Kung ayaw nya mag pabali ng pananaw nya sayo,de wag. Ipilit man kasi or hindi, kung man na buo na sya na "ikaw" sa isipan nya,medyo mahirap na burahin yun. At kung gugustuhin mo na burahin yun,kailangan mo ng sandamakmak na paraan para patunayan sa kanya na mali sya sa naiisip nya. The question is,whorthy ba yung tao or hindi? If yes,effort na agad. If no,well.. hayaan na. :)

Mas kilala natin ang sarili natin kesa sa pagkakakilala ng iba sa atin. :) Yun ang pinakamahalaga. :)

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Bebeko
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

Tol, tumigil ka na sa kaka-emote mo dyan. Puntahan mo ako dito at hinahanap ka ni puti.., patok ka raw lekat ka hahahaha

"You learn nothing from life if you think you're right all the time." - Prof. Richard Feynman

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Stanl_Islao
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

hahaha nag eemote ka dyan hahaha kahapon pa tumatawag mamaya andito na sila susunduin ako

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pilyangpasaway
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

you can't please everybody, just stay who you are and what you are and they can take it or leave it..... as long you do no harms against them. those people who judge you i am sure, nagka muwang ka na dito sa mundong ibabaw bago mo pa sila nakilala, so you can live with out them..

You never know how Strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.

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August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

Sometimes you can't really blame those people who would tend to "judge" you.  Because maybe they had past experiences, mostly unpleasant ones which greatly influence how they treat their acquaintances now.  

And I think it is not really pre-judging but just being cautious in dealing with people, in who to trust your emotions with so as not to get hurt again.  Malay natin dumaan sya sa point na sobra syang nagtiwala sa isang tao tapos that person betrayed his/her trust at sobra syang nasaktan.  That could be a factor kung bakit ganyan ang ipinakita nyang ugali sa yo ngayon.  Maaring yong sinasabi mong "parang hindi makabasag pinggan" ay matagal na nyang kilala so syempre magkaiba yong magiging treatment nya sa yo compared dun sa isa...

Minsan din kasi intindihin natin kung bakit ganun ang treatment sa atin ng isang tao.  Now kung ayaw pa din nyang magtiwala sa yo even after you had proven to her/him na iba ka then just let it go. Mahabang proseso 'yan but you'll get there eventually.

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LibrongUod
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

I feel you, Miss. I feel you. I was planning to add the gist of your comment with my comment above pero I assume some of the readers eh magko-comment on the "past experience" thing.

Just had this experience din kasi with someone, and she's kind of acting weird, and I know, it's because of her past experience, na hindi ko naman masisisi. She must have gone a whole lot of pain to act such.

I Master, I Universalize, I Believe.

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Stanl_Islao
August 31, 2014 (8 years ago)

Judging People is not being Cautios Judging people because of your past and because the person you are judging is not good looking that's being Judgmental. If you let your past clouds your judgement then you will eventually judge people. Remember don't let other person pay for the crime that they didn't Do. So on the Reason of because of their past is just an excuse to judge a person

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shobe.sheen
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

My signature text here at FSS says, "Zhong Kou Nan Tiao" which means "you can't please everybody".

If you think that they still judge you even if you've done your best to alter their negative perception of you, then stop exhausting yourself. There are other important things to pay attention to. Oftentimes, we feel that we are being judged. This happens because, we may not be aware of it, but we are the worst critiques of ourselves.

Di po talaga maiiwasan yan. What's important is, ikaw mismo alam mo po kung kailan hindi na tama ang pagiging judgmental.

Shobe♥

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LickMe
August 30, 2014 (8 years ago)

Stan I'm a classic example of being judged by a few, if not by many.. But as what all the members who commented here before me, you can never please everybody.. You will die trying..
My rule in life is that - only those significant to me matters..
Thus, in this Adult site, in the chat room - they can think whatever they want to think.. You know yourself better .. And if they still judge, good riddance to them.. :-)

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Stanl_Islao
August 31, 2014 (8 years ago)

MAy kasabihan that we are being judge on our actions. If some one is being nice and courteous and present him/her self properly does that persons needs to be judge negatively?? I don't think so right? And now if someones is a cock tease and play on someones emotions just for the fun and just to make one's self ego to boost and to make them feel good seeing someone strugling i think that's why people tend to judge negatively. A Good Deeds =Good Acknowledgements A Bad Deeds=Bad Acknowledment But people tend to judge those who are good by the people that are negatively motivated

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starst1949
August 31, 2014 (8 years ago)

"IT DOES NOT MATTER TO ME IF IT MATTERS TO PEOPLE WHO DO NOT MATTER TO ME; AS LONG AS IT DOS NOT MATTER TO PEOPLE WHO MATTER TO ME"

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August 31, 2014 (8 years ago)

Nalito ako dun ah... Pero nabasa ko naman ng maayos ng marahan lang...

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Stanl_Islao
August 31, 2014 (8 years ago)

Paalala lang po this post is not based on my experience it was based on our experience as a whole hindi lang po dito sa On line Community but sa totoong buhay po natin we do encounter judgemental people every day lalo na yong may mga sinasabi sa buhay lalo na yong mga guapo at magaganda lalong lalo na yong mga feeling guapo at maganda....

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