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Asl? - "Are You Sexually Liberated?"

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Date: September 15, 2022 (11 days ago)


Ah, the classic opening line in "chatlandia" since time began.

May nakachat kasi ako last night and I said that ASL can get an upgrade.

ASL. Makes me wonder what this does when asked? To me, it seems to only filter conversations with people who fit in a certain preferred demographic and location.

Limiting and non-inclusive, in my opinion.

Ang dami ko pang sinabi, what I am trying to say is, gasgas na yan.

I have listened to FSS ladies here who have opened up where they get asked for their ASL instead of having an interesting question to start a meaningful conversation.

Ganito yan. When approaching someone in a bar, for example, you don't say, with all of your porma or landi, "Hi, asl?"

That will be very awkward, right?

So the way we communicate has gotten an upgrade but the dynamics remain the same.

You can try what is called the push-pull method.

No, it does not involve intercourse....yet.

It simply refers to using language that makes you inviting and interesting (pull) then a tad bit distant (push) then you reel...

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DaddysHubadera
September 15, 2022 (11 days ago)

Yasssss! Learn from the expert! Para di kayo boring and parang iisa ang hulma nyo. We like men who can make a conversation. 😁😁😁

HubaderaNiDaddy, DaddysHubadera

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Mindgasm
September 15, 2022 (11 days ago)

Salamat. hehe. Still continuously learning pa rin naman. I am just glad you find me entertaining.

Ng slight.

Advocate tayo ng continuous learning.

(pati reply sa comment mo, 'matic na ang push pull din).

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Byutifoolly
September 15, 2022 (11 days ago)

Sana maraming makabasa dito sa blog ni Author. Para hindi naman "Hi Asl" minsan pa nga Asl na lang kagad. Akala mo may utang ka  bigla ka na lang sisingilin. "Bayad mo" :(

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Mindgasm
September 15, 2022 (11 days ago)

Salamat sa suporta. Given time, mas enjoyable pa lalo ang opening lines. I see you regularly in the chatname list. I hope we can talk more soon.

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Zhaiii___
September 16, 2022 (11 days ago)

Be Chill
First, consider how you woukd feel, if a stranger approached you. You'd want them to be relaxed and friendly, and most of all, normal.

Ditch up the pick up lines
Try with all your might to resist the urge to fall back in some corny gimmicks or eye-roller if a pick up line.

Read the room
Good timing is key to flirtation, so be sure to observe what she's doing before you go.

Check her body language, and check also your body language

Keep it Low Stakes

Don't ask for her number (At least not right away)
You might choose to give her your phone number instead of asking for hers. Or, even better, give her your social media handles.

Pay attention to negative, nonverbal cues

Be comfortable with Rejection
Whatever you do, just be sure not to internalized the rejection. Don't overthink it and definitely don't ask her why.

Respect her time

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Mindgasm
September 16, 2022 (10 days ago)

I'd like to respect your time by thanking you for sharing more of your insights on how we must all get along here in our modest FSS community.

Hello, Zhaiii_!

Hope to talk with you, too.

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QSLeigh
September 19, 2022 (8 days ago)

Just go with the flow. For me, being mysterious is the best way to go.

Yung tipong magugulat ka, ganon pala sia. 😅

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Mindgasm
September 19, 2022 (7 days ago)

Nagulat ba kita? 🤣

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cheesycakes
Tuesday, 20 September 2022 (6 days ago)

nakakaamaze! I can say that I learned something new today haha thanks!

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Mindgasm
Thursday, 22 September 2022 (5 days ago)

Cheesycakes, I guess mas gagamitin mo na ang push-pull method. That is one of the techniques used by most pick up artists.

Use (enjoyably) responsibly.

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Vildur
Saturday, 24 September 2022 (2 days ago)

Its like PUA skills right there, Goddamn sir. Learning from the expert

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Mindgasm
Sunday, 25 September 2022 (1 day ago)

Thanks. I still am a constant learner. I keep myself open to new ways of doing things.

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