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Date: August 19, 2022 (1 month ago)


5 months ago, I met this guy here and we clicked right away. There's no topic untouched with him. Did we do sop/soc? Yes. Did we talk about his family and their problems? Yes. Did we meet? Once. Nagkasalubong lang sa grocery. He was with his wife and baby boy pero naglakad sya mag-isa kasi kumuha ng alak haha. (Yes, he's married. We live in the same city. Goes to the same grocery and church. Small world or just a big city. Whatever.) After that we started talking more. But I always make it a point that we only message/call when he's at work or if his wife isn't around. If we do message each other when they're together or when he's home, that's only to check in with each other's whereabouts and stuff.
Safe to say, I was starting to fall for him.
I know it's wrong but sabi nga ni Selena Gomez "the heart wants what it wants".
Of course I never told hi...

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sugarglazed
August 19, 2022 (1 month ago)

OMG! Hugggsss sis!

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sugarglazed
August 19, 2022 (1 month ago)

Sabi nga ni Ariana Grande "Thank You, next". Move on din sis. ☺️

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Danniella
August 19, 2022 (1 month ago)

That's how it sis sabi nga nila sa una lang talaga masaya. Pumasok tayo sa ganyan at alam na natin consequences. Kaya! NEXT! 😁😁😁

Messy

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yulica
August 19, 2022 (1 month ago)

i know how it feels. ur not alone in this crazy world,experiening the same old story. time to turn the next page .kaya mo yan. kinaya nga namin. lol

a friend to all, a mom to some, a lover to one

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Danniella
August 19, 2022 (1 month ago)

Hahahahhaha kakayanin talaga. Pinasok natin eh kaya panindigan dapat ang exit.😂🤣😂

Messy

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sephie_gurl
August 19, 2022 (1 month ago)

hi sis.. sad to say i think you're feeling is already telling on you to wakeup and move away from a married man
there's nothing wrong falling for someone but if you're wrecking a home at the same time.. well?
don't give in to feelings or do the right things for the wrong reason.. your guide is the "why would i do that?"

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EmElCee
August 19, 2022 (1 month ago)

At least sa 'yo may transition. Ang matindi yong maganda pa usapan nyo today tapos kinabukasan hindi ka na kinausap hanggang sa umabot na ng isang linggo. Iisipin mo baka kung ano nangyari sa kanya pero nakalagay naman "last seen recently" :D

But yeah, our "tamang hinala" usually works, even in situations like yours :D

“If I distance myself from you, question yourself, not me.” - Harvey Specter

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sugarglazed
August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

Badtrip yung nang gghost even sa chat. 😂 i mean hindi naman tayo nag dedemand ng update every hour or min, pero pag aalis na, magsabi man lang di ba para di sana tayo nag ooverthink? Haha

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rednaxel947
August 21, 2022 (1 month ago)

Agreed. Just say thank you for the time

rednaxel947

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aishaa
August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

Nakaka-tangina magghost e. Lahat ng panget na pwede maisip tungkol sa sarili mo naiisip mo 😣

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aishaa
August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

So hard to move on and let go kung naging part ng sya ng arawaraw mo 😫
I'll talk to him first so we don't end things ugly.
Hirap maging marupok 😅
Thank you, mga sizzums!

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fearfool
August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

Anyare na sa anti ghosting bill,  dipa ba na usad :D,  for me it's never wrong to love someone kahit ano pa dahilan, pero syempre may consequences good or bad we should accept lang talaga where we stand. Kaya mo yan good luck.

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mambubulog
August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

Sabi nga nila
Ndi manlalamig kung walang ibang pinag iinitan...


NEXT!!!!!!

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Byutifoolly
August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

Ganon ba yun?
Akala ko sarili mong karanasan eh.

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August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

agree

mind over matter

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surako
August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

Karma is a bitch

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Mindgasm
August 20, 2022 (1 month ago)

I am so sorry you are feeling like this. Here's my take on this. It is still possible to commit to maintaining the "secret relationship" so to speak.

It will take a lot of guts on the part of the married man and a lot of cooperation from his secret partner to make the secret relationship work. Does that make sense?

I am speaking from experience. I wont elaborate on details but communication and commitment to commit to the secrecy is a coordinated tango not a freestyle dance performance.

We are here. We are waiting. - Optimus Prime

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rednaxel947
August 21, 2022 (1 month ago)

Might be you did the same? If not just continue to message him. Tyak along the way makamove on ka din. May darating at darating pang mas pwede mong maging sa iyo. Best wishes

rednaxel947

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BellaVictoria
August 21, 2022 (1 month ago)

I’m so sorry to hear about your experience. There could be many factors why the change, and we are not stupid not to see/feel the change. However, maybe there are some reasons why - it could be valid ones too like life happening, maybe?

But if your instinct says something is not right, then it is what it is. You just need to move on.

Also, while it is always nice to get a closure, let’s face it, how often do we get closures anyway? We just gotta deal with it.

Cheers.

Sorry, I can’t hear you over the sound of how awesome I am.

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Viandf
August 22, 2022 (1 month ago)

Basta online talaga, that’s a risk that can happen anytime. Lalo na pag married kausap mo.and always believe your gut. If Meron ka ma feel, malamang totoo na yun.

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