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9 Dangerous Words / Phrases

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Date: July 10, 2022 (1 month ago)


"Yung mga babae ang hirap ispelingin."

"Ang labo ng mga babae, pare. Ang hirap nila kausap."

"Badtrip, kasi hindi mo malaman kung ano talaga ang gusto."

"Ang bilis magbago ng mood."

… and the list goes on.

Ito ang mga usual na reklamo ng mga lalaki about sa mga babae. Not gonna lie though, most of them are true, not because we are difficult to manage. Most of the time, hindi nyo lang gets bakit and you guys kept missing to read between the lines.

Read between the lines.

"It doesn't take a genius to read between the lines."

May mga babae kasi na hindi kayang sabihin directly what's on their mind or kung ano ang gusto. Tapos guys being guys, hindi naman talaga nila kayang i-decipher what we are saying /thinking all the time.

A couple of days ago, I stumbled upon a video from Joyce Meyer, isa syang author and Charismatic Christian speaker. I found this humorous and yet very relatable kasi ako mismo, I used these words/phrases quite a lot.

I am sharing it here as 101/FYR (For Your Reference) sa guys who are still confused/had no idea what's behind these words/statements.

Don't worry, hindi naman sya about Christian living even though galing sya sa Christian Speaker, so please read on.

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9 "Dangerous" Words/Phrases na ginagamit ng mga Babae na kailangan ma-gets ng mga Lalaki.

(Baka sakaling ma-figure out mo na bakit laging badtrip yung nililigawan/girlfriend/asawa mo sa iyo.)

1. Fine / "Okay/Fine/ Okay, Fine!"

This is a word that a woman use when they are right and you need to shut up.

Example:

After a long debate kung bakit late dumating ang girl sa meetup:

She: "Usapan natin sa Shangri-La tayo mag-meet at 6pm!"

He: "6pm nga, pero hindi mo naman sinabi na sa Shang sa Shaw."

She: "Duh! I said na may bibilhin ako sa Greenbelt after diba?"

He: "But sinabi mo rin na gusto mong dumaan sa Megamall pagkatapos.

She: "So ako pa ang mali?"

He: "Oo, dahil hindi mo naman nilinaw kung saan talaga exactly."

Usually may long silence in between nito but dahil sa inis nya sa'yo eto na lang ang magiging sagot nya:

"Fine, Fine!"

Kasi ayaw na nya makipag-usap sayo further.

2. 5 Minutes / Teka Lang

5 minutes, that means when a woman is getting dressed, she needs 30 minutes. But if a woman tells a guy "5 minutes", 5 minutes is really just five minutes. She needs your help with something immediately, and you must stop whatever you are doing in 5 minutes.

This is self-explanatory. Kapag sinabi namin na "Please give me 5 more minutes." We need at least 30 minutes more, and don't ever say na "Ang tagal naman!" Unless you want to see our eyes roll.

3. Nothing / Wala!

A very important word - Nothing.

"What's wrong honey?" Nothing.

This is the calm before the storm. This word means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begins with "Nothing!" always ends up with "Fine!".

Alam mo yung parang na-sense mo na may mali kasi bigla syang tumahimik, pero hindi mo sure kasi kanina lang, mukhang okay naman sya.

Wag mo syang tanungin ng:

"Ano meron?"

"Bakit, baby?"

"May problema ba?"

"Anong nangyari?"

"May nagawa ba ako?"

Most likely, 95% na makukuha mong sagot ay "Wala!"

Yung iba naman ay "Ewan!/Ano sa tingin mo?"

Two possible scenarios ang pwede mong gawin:

- Deadmahin sya - This is actually a double-edged sword. Kasi it's either mas lalo kang mapahamak or on the brighter side, baka gusto lang namin ng silence talaga.

- Mag quick flashback ka. May sinabi ba sya na nalimutan mong gawin? May sinabi ka ba na hindi mo dapat sinabi at that moment? There has to be something. And kapag naalala mo na kung ano yun, say sorry and tell her why. Wag sorry lang.

Choose your options wisely.

4. Go ahead! / Sige lang!

This is a dare and not a permission. Do not do it.

Another self-explanatory.

"Babe, punta muna ako sa bahay ng tropa. Mag inom lang kami saglit."

"Babe, male-late ako...

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mahabaratbu
July 11, 2022 (1 month ago)

Definitely useful but not 100% accurate worth the read specially for those men that are still trying to figure out how their partner thinks.

Don't just look, but observe.

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BellaVictoria
July 11, 2022 (1 month ago)

Thanks for dropping by!

As mentioned, this is non inclusive and does not guarantee 100% accuracy, mainly just FYR.

Sorry, I can’t hear you over the sound of how awesome I am.

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rednaxel947
July 11, 2022 (1 month ago)

Better understand the partner's temperement e.g gf, wife, business partners and so on.mostly girls are melancholy in character, sometimes bossy or scattered brain. Learn to deal on such. Esp girls do some mood swings,understand it esp if  monthly visit is coming. Let her argue give her the time to avoid quarrel. Time will come to u men but learn how to talk with her in a sweet way of her wrong doing not offending her.

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Bebeko
July 11, 2022 (1 month ago)

Kaya kadalasan nagkakaroon ng hindi pagkakaintindihan dahil sa very vocal naman ang women kaso hindi clear ang gustong sabihin which is contrast sa ugali ng mga men na gusto ay clear and direct.

Very useful ang lists to understand more ang kababaihan although parang palaging kaming nasa chess game hahaha. Still worth to read dahil may idea kami kapag naencounter ang ganitong scenario.

Good job, Bella!

"You learn nothing from life if you think you're right all the time." - Prof. Richard Feynman

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BellaVictoria
July 19, 2022 (1 month ago)

Parang wala masyado naka relate, Bebeko! (Only the masters know!)

I just wish kasi clear, concise and direct ang girls pero mas lamang yung pagiging emotional. Tapos in the end ang line nila/namin ay “Bakit kasi di nyo ma-gets?”

Even I, on some days, may mga bagay din na hindi ko masabi direct (on a very rare case though)

Thanks for dropping by!

Sorry, I can’t hear you over the sound of how awesome I am.

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