The Art And Science Of Sex Chatting

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Date: April 15, 2022 (1 month ago)

Yes, you read that right.

Sex chatting is more than a series of "uhhhs, ahhhs and sige pa,".

There is an art to the way the words you send to your partner are meant to evoke feelings of arousal and wanting for more.

Our brain has a very primal function of keeping us all safe. It is the one that tells ourselves that, "oh, ano yan? di ko alam yan, baka delikado."

This is the job of the "fight or flight" mechanism inside our brain.

Now, when aroused, or to use a more plain term, "horny," the hormones in our brain that make us feel that we are seemingly ready to let go of this defense mechanism and allow us to wallow in the sexual fantasy that seem to seep through to our reality are what makes us searching for this kind of high.

Which is why, in most cases, sex chatting has the feels of it being really happening when it is done right.

The question that begs some answering then becomes, "How the heck do you do it to me, Mindgasm? Why does it feel so real and so good that I can't get enough of you?" (Okay, so I may be exaggerating the truth. Lols).

Here are some simple ways to spice up your sex chatting repertoire to make your partners want more of you. Get ready to take notes because you are now getting inside the sexual mind of the Mindgasm.

1. Create a narrative of what you will do to your partner and not what you will want your partner to do to you.
- The reason for this is simple. Your partner will want to know what's in it for them if they will spend 30 mins or 3 hours sex chatting with you (depending on how long you engage in virtual foreplay). So make what you send them clear that it is their pleasure you are after, not yours (let your partner volunteer this to you, if not, be the expert at pleasuring him or her with your words).

2. Make the narrative a sequential set of sexy events that build up on top of the other.
- Just like in real life, gents, you don't go straight to her pussy right away.

You make her excited by "nibbling at her earlobes," and then "kissing her from the shoulders to her neck up to her cheeks," afterwards you are now "letting your lips touch and your tongues play with each other as you suck on each alternatingly," before "touching her from her waist, pulling her closer, moving your hands up her sides to massage her soft supple breasts as you hear her mouthing moans...

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I believe that the mind is the sexiest part of the body.

Conversations stimulate me.

A woman's breasts, hair, lips and skin are a plus for me.
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Gemmy20's Profile Picture
April 15, 2022 (1 month ago)

This is very informative article sir! Keep it up!

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April 15, 2022 (1 month ago)

You're welcome. I will keep coming up with articles and blogs that can help more here. Thanks for appreciating, @Gemmy20

Always cum to where you are called to go.

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April 15, 2022 (1 month ago)

nice, very well said Sir.

Women are to be loved, cherished and adored!!! I may have failed many times but I will keep on tryingโ€ฆ

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April 16, 2022 (1 month ago)

Hope this makes your experiences better and for your partner, too. Please share how it goes. Ask if you have questions.

Always cum to where you are called to go.

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