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Date: April 6, 2022 (1 month ago)



Do you ever feel like responsible for someone and you need to save them in anyway? Maybe you have Savior Complex or White Knight Syndrome.

According to the blog PeopleSkillsDecoded.com, the savior complex can be defined as "A psychological construct which makes a person feel the need to save other people. This person has a strong tendency to seek people who desperately need help and to assist them, often sacrificing their own needs for these people."

Ilang araw at gabe na rin itong gumugulo sa aking isip. May nagsabe kasi saken na napapansin nya na karamihan (again, karamihan hindi ko nilalahat) sa community na 'to ay may problema. Mapa kaibigan, boyfriend/ girlfriend/ asawa, pamilya, trabaho o pag aaral man yan. Ginagawang pampalipas oras ang pagbabasa at pagtambay sa mga chatroom. Isang paraan para takasan kahit pansamantala ang problema. Dahil dito, madalas, we tend to vent out our situations sa mga online friends naten which is okay lang as long as alam mo yung limitations na ilalabas mong information at tatanggapin mo.

Sabe nga, Good intentions are not enough. Hindi porket maganda yung hangarin mong tumulong ay tutulong ka na. Madalas kasi nasasacrifice na din ang sarili naten sa pagiging emotional dumpsite ng kapwa naten. Isama mo na rin yung personal space and money mo. Personal space and time na dapat ay pahinga mo pero iniisip mo yung solusyon para makatulong. Yung money, madali naman kitain yan, pero hindi sa lahat ng oras kailangan mo maglabas ng pera para lang sa kapwa mo baka kasi inaabuso ka...

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rikudosp
April 6, 2022 (1 month ago)

There are some naman who act as "white knights" because they have ulterior motives din - because they feel na if they offered help, they must receive something in return.

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Lanabanana
April 7, 2022 (1 month ago)

Well yeah, I know a few. I hope wala na silang mabiktima

We always listen but fail to understand.~~

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yulica
April 6, 2022 (1 month ago)

i remember a friend na who was trying to help someone who was drowning, ang ending both of them died. minsan there are people na napapahamak sa kagustuhang tumulong. kaya kelangan maging wais tayoΒ Β palagi.
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Lanabanana
April 7, 2022 (1 month ago)

Tama naman mamsh. Wais sanlahat ng desisyong gagawin

We always listen but fail to understand.~~

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Mindgasm
April 7, 2022 (1 month ago)

As iron sharpens iron, so do people sharpen another.

Always cum to where you are called to go.

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