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Heartaches (Vent)

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Date: October 27, 2021 (1 month ago)


Well, it happened. My relationship for four, almost five, years has come to a close.

No, it's not about my cheating episodes before. It's not about this site too. It's just...

I guess we fell out of love. I just woke up one day and I can't feel anything for him anymore. And over time he did as well.

Slowly, we drifted apart. Slowly, it disappeared. His good morning texts didn't spark it for me anymore. The sex stopped being fun. The ring on my finger felt tight, uncomfortable.

The breakup was clean. I went to his place, picked up the things I leave whenever I come live with him for a couple weeks every now and then, and lastly I left the ring on his desk. We said our goodbyes. No "I wish it didn't happen" BS too, we just sorta accepted it.

But it's normal, right? To stop feeling for someone? To sud...

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rednaxel947
October 27, 2021 (1 month ago)

Thats good move with closure. Now slowly focus to where u will be happy. One thing lang dont put ALL the love you have. Heart and brain must join together 50% of ur heart and 50% of your brain. Best wishes

rednaxel947

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Abet_29
October 27, 2021 (1 month ago)

Very well said
Atleast nag katikiman kahit di itinadhana
😀
Joke lang

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ronnvampire
October 27, 2021 (1 month ago)

It happens, it sucks, but it happens. The way I see it, you don't so much fall out of love as you begin to realize that you don't really love them enough to commit (and vice versa). I guess that explains the empty feeling, too. You just got used to having something there, like an old shirt you can't seem to bring yourself to let go of.

It'll get better, though, and as for that empty feeling, well, that hole in you can only be filled by you, so work on loving yourself. :)

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otkep
October 28, 2021 (1 month ago)

sending hugs.

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Mr.M
October 28, 2021 (1 month ago)

It makes you wonder where the hell did that emotion dry up on you?Nice break away though.Some end costly yours is a good clean 1.Hope you get a better 1 next time.

Minsan na namatay pero muli nabuhay

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guitarer
November 3, 2021 (29 days ago)

I also just recently broke up with my partner for 8 years. 2 of those years engaged. Medyo parehas tayo ng circumstances but mas magulo yung amin.. too long of a story to tell here but I"ll just say that the mishaps and the unlucky events that happened around our relationship slowly broke down our trust for each other and eventually our love. I miss her everyday and I'm not sure she does but I have to be mature about the decision that we made. We keep pulling away from each other and the resentment and fighting is not healthy anymore. After a while, it just beats you down you know?.. It has been a struggle everyday despite the fact that I also work at home.. It feels really empty. You sound like you are in a stronger mental capacity than I am so good on you.

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