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College Friends Never Last

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Date: September 1, 2021 (3 months ago)


Note: Medyo straight forward yung title but this is only an expression I'd like to share. Opinion ko lang po ito, and if you disagree, I respect it. Wag niyo lang po ako awayin, jk.

Hi FSS! Gusto ko lang sana i-share yung nararamdaman kong lungkot and frustration sa overall experience ko sa college and it's about friendship. Even back then, aware naman ako that college friends come and go, especially yung mga taong iba naman ang course pero naging kaklase mo pa din thru minor subjects. Same goes to my first blockmates, considering na mahiyain talaga ako and irreg na din ako after ng ilang terms.

It was not until my 3rd year college na nagkaroon talaga ako ng "solid" na tropa. Around that time, sila yung mga ka-course ko talaga and magkakasama na halos kami sa bawat major subjects namin. Pati yung iba kong ka first block napasama na din hanggang sa naging 11 kami; aminado ako na may bonding talaga ako sa bawat isa sa kanila.

In terms of acads,halos sabay-sabay kaming nagre-review at tulungan pag may exam, minsan pa nga tulungan pati sa sagot e (oops, bawal yun aral is the key pa din). Kahit sa projects, kami kami na din magkakasama and as usual sabay sa pag-gawa ng design, paper, at kung ano pang required.

Mas malakas naman samahan namin non in terms of non-acads, not to mention na pati sa org magkakasama pa rin kami. Majority sa kanila noon ay kalaro ko either sa CODM or ML pag free time; yung sa hindi naman gamer ka bonding ko din since parehas kaming na hook sa kpop. Isa nga sa kanila parang naging kapitbahay ko pa simula nung nag-rent ako sa isang condo property during my 4th year (tho magkaiba building namin). Probably sa kanya ako pinaka naging close non kasi eventually na fall ako sa kanya, na itago na lang natin sa alias "Cherry", but for the sake of the tropa, tinikom ko bibig ko.

Point is masaya ako sa kanila noon, and yung camaraderie na binigay ko sa kanila is same sa og tropa ko nung HS. Masyado akong naging komportable sa kanila and masyado din akong nabulag sa mga happy memories na natatandaan ko sa kanila. BIG MISTAKE.

Masyado siguro akong natuwa na kasama sila na hindi ko napansin tunay na kulay nila hanggang sa unti-unti kong na realize ang totoo just recently.

Nagsimula iyon nung unang lockdown; at first masipag sa chat mapa zoom man yan or discord, and wala naman totally na nagbago except sa magkaka hiwalay kami. Masyado akong nakuntento sa kanila, na hindi ko napansin major...

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Desss
September 1, 2021 (3 months ago)

You only need a handful of true friends. :)
These are the ones who will be  just there for you no matter what. Kaya smile lang palagi!

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AnakinSkywalkerrr66
September 1, 2021 (3 months ago)

Yes, I agree that number of true friends does not matter as long as they are sincere. So far masaya pa naman ako, sadyang naiinis/lulungkot lang pag na-alala. But thanks for the cheer up, much appreciated :)

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LudusMania143
September 1, 2021 (3 months ago)

Hindi ka nag-iisa.

Yung mismong taong nagsabi o nagturo ng Golden Rule (Treat each other the way you want to be treated.) eh tinakbohan ng kanyang mga kabarkada nung nagkagipitan na maliban sa isang tunay na nagmamahal na paborito niyang kaibigan.

Pero ang maganda sa katapusan ng istoryang yun eh nagbalikan din yung mga barkada niya at humingi ng kapatawaran (maliban nga lang sa isang nagtraydor sa kanya). Kaya pwede rin mangyari na marealize din ng katropa mo na nagkamali sila at humingi ng tawad sayo. Kung hindi man eh at least pang isang tunay na kaibigan na nasa tabi mo pa rin.

In life and in different stages, we get to meet a lot of people. Most will be your acquaintances. A Few may become friends. But only a Handful may remain as True Friends.

To have True Friends, then BE A TRUE FRIEND. Practice the Golden Rule in all of your relationships. Nothing can go wrong when you abide by the Golden Rule.

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AnakinSkywalkerrr66
September 1, 2021 (3 months ago)

Nice story sir. Napa plastikan ako sa kanila pero ganon din talaga buhay, be an ant or a boot. May lesson din naman ginawa nila, hindi nga lang maganda yung execution. For now, doing my best to be the better person, and tama ka golden rule is a must. Salamat sa support sir.

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Mr.M
September 1, 2021 (3 months ago)

I agree to your opinion that as a FRIEND 1 should be honest enough to say what's on their mind about you.However its not that easy sometimes specially when its of touchy subjects lalo na kung personal.Still if you  consider them as your FRIENDS man up and confront them about it.Maybe they'll see the wrong of what they've done.In someways this may even bond all of your so called FRIENDS or not anymore.Mahirap pag may tampuhan ang magkaibigan kaya subukan mo na maiayos ang samahan nyo sa pinaka magandang paraan.Goodluck in trying at least you'll do your part in being a FRIEND.✌

Minsan na namatay pero muli nabuhay

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AnakinSkywalkerrr66
September 4, 2021 (3 months ago)

Thanks sa support sir. Pero di na kailangan i-confront since I decided to part ways na din sa kanila, hindi din kasi worth yung confrontation mas lalo na kung alam mo namang ayaw na talaga nila sa'yo as a friend. Red flag yung pag backstab pero pinapabayaan ko na lang, focusing myself na lang to be the better person. But salamat sa advice, much appreciated.

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Mr.M
September 4, 2021 (3 months ago)

Then you've made your final decision about it.That's a good option.Perhaps in the coming days you'll find better friends but don't set your standards too high yun tama lang like giving lee way on minor infractions.Goodluck

Minsan na namatay pero muli nabuhay

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abcdef_143
September 3, 2021 (3 months ago)

i feel the same way too. 🥺 ang sakit pala na yung tao na sobra sobra mong tinuring na kaibigan ung tipong may promises pa na wlang limutan at walang magbabago . tropa /bff for life pero bgla nalang mawawala . isang araw parang nagsing ka nalang na wla na pla sya sa buhay mo . may communication . pero parang ang casual nalang .. at hndi mo na feel ung sincerity ng friendship nyo .. ung prang hndi ka na nia kelngan .. kasi napalitan ka na..
maskit . . mas masakit pa ata sa break up . 😭🥺
though nangyari ito.
yung thing na lang na nagpapagaan sa loob ko knowing im not part of that person's life anymore is yung memories. happy memories na pipiliin kong alalahanin at itreasure instead na ifeed ko pa ang sarli ko with heart aches.
kaya sayo .. i hope all the best at wag na natin saktan sarili natin 😊

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AnakinSkywalkerrr66
September 4, 2021 (3 months ago)

Salamat po! Tama,mas masakit to kesa sa break-up pero ganon talaga no choice kundi mag move on. Happy Memories should stay tho, para hindi ka rin ma overwhelm ng galit pero pa practice na din akong dumistansya para sa sarili ko. Ok naman na ako, hindi ko na sila kailangan. Thanks sa advice po!

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