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Cuckolding: A Constructive Criticism

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Date: June 26, 2020 (12 days ago)


To start off, this is not bashing anyone's lifestyle, preference or outlook in life. I just want to convey my thoughts about this, break it down to what I liked and disliked. I've read a few cuckold stories on this site and other sites and there are very good ones and others that were too extreme for my taste. Taste... dito na po papasok kung ano ang mga trip natin.

Before getting into that, I did research cuckolding, usually after I read a story depicting it. I think I get the general gist of it from the stories, and it involves:

1) A person getting turned on by their partner getting sexual pleasure from someone else.
2) It has aspects of BDSM, domination by a 3rd party, submission from the cuck.
3) Humiliation. Now here's where the Internet is sort of giving differing opinions. While some explanations say humiliation is not a requirement, more people were saying that a level of humiliation is actually needed, which is why cuckolding is different from swinging or "hotwifing".

Ever since I've been reading erotica, I've always appreciated good writing. Especially those that can make me experience what's being written, particularly the sex scenes. I've always looked for stories that took it to the next level. I ha...

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sexxicouple08
June 26, 2020 (12 days ago)

Hello, let me share my experience because I'm a cuckold myself and I happened to be sharing my stories here and I'm not sure whether you've read it or not. But I wanted to share my experience on this and just to make sure It's not a thought its an actual experience and here it goes.

First cuckolding is not something that you're aware  unless you're in that position. I mean sure you can be aroused or even have a cuckolding fetish however it's very different if you experience it first hand because you wouldn't know that you liked it and its very complex the feeling of anger, jealousy, agony and the feeling of being anxious all the time and there's nothing you can do because you love your partner.

Because being a cuckold is not about letting your partner being fucked? NO! cuckolding is real if and only if you really love your partner because that is where the true feelings came from. You wouldn't really care if you don't really love the girl right?

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sexxicouple08
June 26, 2020 (12 days ago)

That's why people tend to leave their partner if they got sexual with another because it's too easy for a guy to leave a girl if she doesn't really love her and the explanation to that is simple. "You value your pride rather than your love for her, Because if you really love your partner forgiveness is always present". But ofcourse majority of male has a mountain of a PRIDE so you know what's going to happen next and this explanation about pride has nothing to do with cuckolding because whether you liked being cuckolded or not pride is pride and love is love. Love should weigh more than love not the other way around.

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j_n_b
June 27, 2020 (12 days ago)

Ah, on this one, I'd have to strongly disagree, especially since you said this has nothing to do with cuckolding. I believe breakups on cheating or because of a third party can more complex than that and cannot be oversimplified to pride. One huge aspect of it is pain, because the more you love a person, all the more the betrayal hurts. I don't think people forgive others because they've gotten over their pride. By going with pride alone, does that mean we should always forgive all the pain that's being caused to us? If we don't forgive our partner, is it because we are too proud? Tayo na yung sobrang nasaktan, pero pag di natin pinatawad,  dahil nangibabaw yung pride natin at di yung pagmamahal. May mali di ba?

"What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence." -- Christopher Hitchens

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sexxicouple08
June 26, 2020 (12 days ago)

Next is.

Humiliation has it's part. well I didn't know it before but now I do. so here it goes.

First you can't appreciate humiliation if you're just a reader or a third person or you don't like cuckold because real ecstacy of it is if you're involed. So basically if you're the one being humiliated and you have a cuckold fetish this one is superb.

Now let's talk about levels. My wife and I met a lot of swingers and cuckold/hotwife partners here in manila and they have different levels because some are Bi-couple some are straight and the others just go extreme.

Me and my wife are different I don't like being touched by any bulls who fuck my wife. NO! I only enjoy verbal  from bull and all out with my wife.

Some gay cuckolds are extreme they also wanted to interact with bulls and I don't like this part also even if we tried. (I can share this story maybe) so long story short my wife tried to convince me but I'm not gay. I am a cuckold yes but not gay so no Touch for me as well.

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sexxicouple08
June 26, 2020 (12 days ago)

So to summarize the levels of humiliation I think it would go down to 3

Level  - 1 purely Verbal
Level - 2 Verbal with physical contact with wife (No bulls involved)
Level - 3 All out and the bulls are involed.

I'm at level 2 and I had no plans on going to level 3.

So all the things that I shared here comes from my own experience and the other people who's in to swinging, & cuckolding/hotwifing. so these samples are not based on thoughts they are based on experience.

So I guess.. everyone who has a cuckold fetish or everyone whose not a cuckold but being aroused in this genre has different levels.
Also don't be afraid to explore your fantasies don't restrain yourself to the culture that we have. Depriving yourself the real pleasure will just make things worse.

And lastly,

For those folks who has a cuckolding fetish make sure that you have the right partner because it is worth it.

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j_n_b
June 27, 2020 (12 days ago)

Hi, thanks for replying. It's actually your story that has prompted this post. But it encompasses a lot more stories that I've read. As you may have received mixed comments, I wanted to open a discussion about this.

I'm approaching this from the reader's perspective, but I'm also trying to understand what I'm reading. As you described a few of the emotions, anxiety, anger, jealousy, agony, all of these are negative emotions that which readers can be feeling too.

"First you can't appreciate the humiliation if you're just a reader or a third person or if you don't like cuckold because the real ecstasy of it is if you're involved"
So I guess here's the main difference for me as the reader, is that after experiencing these negative emotions, there's no pay off, unless maybe I have that cuckold fetish for which I can say now for certain is I don't. And here's where the humiliation aspect would get overwhelming and thus, the turn off.

"What can be asserted without evidence can be dismissed without evidence." -- Christopher Hitchens

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Jefrey25
June 27, 2020 (11 days ago)

Hi sorry to mixed it up here but me ang my wife if into cuckolding too and reverse cuckolding if you can call it. People can't appreciate it if they're not into this lifestyle and haven't enjoyed it yet. Me and my wife are happy of our lifestyle. We  know it is still taboo in our society now a a days, but i guess there are people who enjoys it. And who cares if what people think. If the couple enjoys what they are doing and they think that it keep them stronger then be it

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Reawaken
June 28, 2020 (11 days ago)

Interesting. I didn't know may specific term pala para sa ganito.

So bull is the guy who wants his wife/gf to have sexual intercourse with another man while he watches?

So what are the terms for the wife/gf and the other person?

Re-awakening...

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SugouNgKadiliman
June 28, 2020 (11 days ago)

Adulteress/Vixen for the wife. Stag is for the husband.

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Reawaken
June 28, 2020 (10 days ago)

Thanks! So mali pala pagkakaintindi ko sa comments sa taas. Ano yung nabanggit na 'bull'? Sila ba yung other guy?

Re-awakening...

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Keempoy1990
June 29, 2020 (10 days ago)

Yep. Bull is the term used for the other guy sir. Tama din si sir Sugou sa vixen or adulteress for the wife.

Fear is necessary for evolution. The fear that one could be destroyed at any moment

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