Me and My Ex

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Date: October 11, 2018 (6 months ago)

Just I don't think being friends with an ex is somewhat wrong or someone shall be judged by the means of it. Because first and foremost, an ex was an ex. Also it's not as if you committed a crime for being casual and civil to each other. To say the least, I guess maturity gave its fairshare to things you need to deal with.

For a fact,it takes time to heal your broken heart and put on the pieces that was once broken but it's never right to hold grudges onto someone who once gave and let you experienced the feeling of "kilig". Being friends only proves that both of you had cleared your past issues behind. Left with mutual respect and understanding to remain what you were before you became a couple. No dramas just pure agreement that you two won't work in any intimate ways .

Remind your self that you two were somehow had that "pinagsamahan" before you guys entered in a so-called relationship. Yes, you were hurt and for whatever reasons you decided to end it up- but isn't it great to free your self from hatred and negativity? Life has too much to offer and even the love you truly deserve is just waiting at the finis...

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October 11, 2018 (6 months ago)

True. But always look for the reasons why you were hurt. Then look at that person who did that to you. Look closely and see if that man has what it takes for you to accept him again. If you talk of mutual understanding only, its a right thing to do, but it you talk of second chances of fully accepting him back, you should first look closely, you dont give in to your previous emotions that ended up getting you hurt in the first place, you look closely, whether that man deserves your acceptance, through effort, through words that count, through his eyes of either truth, deceit or desperation/regret, obviously its the truth you seek, nothing else to consider but the truth, hence shall you decide for the best. May Allah always be with you.

She smiles naughtily when I turn into her Deadman :}

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October 11, 2018 (6 months ago)

Luckily, i dont give in to sweet words of second chances. I do forgive but let's leave it like that. I gave my best shot in every relationships i had. Well maybe not what they were lookin for but atleast i did my part. And as for me, i consider them as one of my friends but the problem now is they don't do the same. That i cannot control. Well anyway, thanks for your words 😘🙂

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October 11, 2018 (6 months ago)

Good thoughts.

Good job!

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October 14, 2018 (6 months ago)

Oh thank you 😺

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October 13, 2018 (6 months ago)

Thats meron kana bang new one..?

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October 14, 2018 (6 months ago)

Well, yeah. More than i asked for 😊

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November 1, 2018 (5 months ago)

Maganda tlga na friends pa rin kayo ng ex mo kasi its such a small world.. pangit nmn na magkkita kayo tapos d kayo magpapansinan... but sabi nga nila there is no such thing as an ex... kasi ang iba nakkpagkita pa at my nangyayari pa sa kanila.. but the main p* is dapat sorted out lahat ng bagay para walang back issues.
Might take some years basta importante naayos nyo

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