Posted in Blog: Taglish | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: gf, relationship, break up, bf, no closure, coffee date
I just want to get your opinion of what to do when you’re in this particular awkward situation:
I had an ex-bf which is married now and our break-up five years ago was not really that good. In short, there was no closure. We parted ways and cut the ties right away. * communications after that. So, I remain single but moved on already.
I’ve got two questions for both men and women:
1. What if you accidentally bumped with your former bf/gf in the mall then invite you to have coffee?
2. What if he/she’s with the wife/husband, what will you do?
As for the first question, I would say yes to the coffee invitation with the hope of assessing myself kung okay na ba ako or hindi pa. It’s my chance to challenge myself na I’m fine kahit walang closure because, basically, no closure is what happening in real life and sometimes, we should accept that and move on.
If my former partner is with the wife and he greeted me, I’d say hi or hello. Greetings lang naman ‘yon and no need to be sour about it or iwasan. I guess it is called maturity on my part.
All answers/opinions are very much welcome.
Thank you. :)...
Posted in Blog: Taglish | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: Lovers, Boyfriend, love letter, relationship, fiction short story
A/N: This story is part of my "made-up random" short stories collection and posted on my personal blog, which has been in indefinite hiatus for almost a year.
Teka, bago ko umpisahan ang aking love letter (naks, love letter!) eh gusto kong sabihin na first time 'ko na gumawa nito. Hindi ko alam kung tama ba or kailangan bang may formula or structure pag sumusulat ng love letter. Pero ang importante 'yong nilalaman. Agree ka? Oo ka na lang ha.
Sige, heto na.
Alam mo, sa unang pagkakataon, nasabi ko rin 'yan. Kahit ako medyo nagulat eh, dahil kahit sa magulang o kaibigan ko hindi ko pa nasabi 'yan. Hindi ako sanay. Nahihirapan ako, 'yon ang totoo. Siguro dahil dinadaan ko lang sa gawaing bahay, sa pagta-trabaho, sa mga simpleng regalo kapag na-trip-an kong magbigay.
At simula noong unang beses na sinabi ko 'yan sa 'yo, kahit paano ay nasasabi ko na 'yan sa mga talagang minamahal kong kaibigan at sa magulang ko syempre. Naisip ko tuloy, kailangan ibang tao pa ang magbigay ng lakas ng loob sa'kin para lang masabi 'yan.
Ewan. Hindi ako sigurado kung ano ang dahilan bakit mahal kita. Kailangan bang may dahilan? Specific reason tulad sa Math problems? Siguro'y makulit ka at napapatawa ako sa mga hirit mo? Marahil lagi kang ngumingiti kapag m...
Posted in Blog: Tagalog | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: love, friendship, relationship, m.u
First, let’s define “NO LABEL”:
Ito yung tipong hindi kayo, pero parang kayo matatawag ring M.U. (Malabong Usapan Mutual Understanding) Pseudo-relationship
Ano nga ba ang opinyon ko rito?
Masaya at nakakakilig, pero sa simula lang. Halos bihira tumagal ang mga ganitong klaseng “Relasyon”. BAKIT?
Patagal ng patagal, may isang sobrang mafa-fall. Ang tendency, mas mag-eexpect. At kapag nag-expect, at hindi natupad ang gusto, masasaktan.
Since wala namang “commitment”, eh hindi namang obligadong tumupad ng pangako. Kapag gustong magquit, basta-basta lang aalis.
Selosan? Tsk. Di pwede, hindi naman kayo e.
May iba siyang crush? Di dapat umangal, wala namang “karapatan” eh.
Dahil sa mga “problemang” ito, humahantong ang ganitong relasyon sa “STRANGERS AGAIN”. Kasi mahirap nang bumalik sa pagiging “Just friends” pagkatapos ng lahat. Bibihira lang ang mga nakaka-cross sa border ng MU to LOVERS. Yung mga nagiging “official couple” na talaga. Patatagan lang talaga ‘to at kung gaano kamahal ang isa’t isa. Makikita dito kung totoo bang nagmamahalan ang dalawang tao, o kung laro-laro lang ang lahat.
Ikaw, hanggang kelan mo ba kakayanin ang relasyong “UNOFFICIALLY YOURS”?
NOTE: THIS IS A REPOST OF AN E-ARTICLE POSTED IN SEVERAL BLOGS AND WEBSITES. ORIGINA...
Posted in Story: Fiction, Taglish | Categories: Mature | Tags: mature, relationship
Dick’s shaft remained inside Claire’s pussy and he felt her pussy pressing on his shaft
“ahhhh Claire… hmmm shit ang muscle control mo ahhhh” with a smile on his face
Claire smiled sweetly and smacked his lips…
Claire and Dick fell asleep….
In the middle of the night, Dick woke up and with only the light coming from the full moon, she can see the angelic face and the curvy figure of Claire. Dick thought how possible it is that an angel be at his side now.
Carefully and gently, he caressed her hair and took some of the strands away from her nose. Gently and slowly he planted a kiss at her cheek, at her chin, and a smack at her lips.
“Hmmmm..” murmured Claire.. “Loves, why are you awake?” she asked
“I just wanted to make sure that all of this is not a dream”, Dick answered “I can’t believe na may diosa sa tabi ko now”
Claire gave Dick her sweetest smile and slowly lifted her hand, pulled Dick’s head closer to her and planted a light kiss on his lips. Instinctively, Dick opened Claire’s mouth his tongue, circling it inside Claire’s mouth. Claire, sucked Dick’s tongue and pulled his head closer.
Dick gently inserted his hand inside Claire’s blouse and mashed her breasts gently…. pinched her nips between his two fingers and slowly...
Posted in Blog: English | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: love, Lust, relationship
Ever wondered if you were truly in love, or truly in lust?
Did you know that falling in love actually happens over time, and the journey from initial attraction to deep romantic love is a predictable course that depends on many different factors?
Love is an intense feeling of affection toward another person. It's a profound and caring attraction that forms emotional attachment.
On the flip side, lust is a strong desire of a sexual nature that is based on physical attraction. Lust can transform into deep romantic love, but it usually takes time.
Two individuals will transform their lust into love when they get to see the whole individual (their strengths and weaknesses) and get past the “fantasy level.
Dr. Helen Fisher, a well-known researcher on the topic of romantic love, has identified three stages to falling in love in her excellent book Why Him? Why Her?: How to Find and Keep Lasting Love and I've been inspired by her research in writing this post.
Which stage are you at?
Stage 1: Lust
Lust is the first stage of falling in love. It's driven by desire. The sex hormones play an important role in this stage. According to experts, this stage may begin immediately and can last up to two years.
Signs that you're in lust:
You're focused on the physical appearance of the object of your desire.
There is a strong desire to have sex, but not deep e...
Posted in Blog: Tagalog | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: eyeball, relationship, chatroom
Mag 10 buwan na pala ako dito sa FSS. Ang bilis ng panahon. Reader lang for a month bago sumali sa chatroom at nakipagkulitan. Maraming nakilala at marami rin bumubulong. Minsan tumatagos pa dahil hindi pa sanay makipagbulungan. Kapag newbie asahan na maraming whisperer. (wink wink wink...)
Sa mga nagdaang buwan, may mga bagay natutunan at naobserbahan sa pakikitungo sa virtual world. Ilan sa mga ito ay ang mga sumusunod:
1. Kapag nagpasiklab ng ari-arian o dami ng pera.
Obviously, mukhang sexual predator agad. Fuck and forget na gusto lang makaisa agad. Minsan parang pasimple ang kwento pero sa totoo ay sinasadyang sabihin yun para isipin mo na big time siya. Iwasan yan coz chances are it's not true at mababaw ang lalake.
2. Kapag nagkwento ng mga naikama niya "raw".
Red flag agad. Masamang pangitain. Kadalasan ay di totoo. Nagpapasiklab lang para kunwari ay maraming nahuhumaling sa kanya. Tiyak na ikukuwento ka rin niyan kapag nadale ka.
3. Kapag very eager makipag "SOP"
Parang nagmamadali. Libog na libog ba? Konting himas muna dapat, di ba?
4. Kapag nanghingi na ng load.
Di makapagtext sayo kase wala daw load. Ok lang na maubusan kaso kapag sinabing "penge ng load" ay takbo na agad. Deserve mo bilang babae na kahit sa text or call lang ay gastusan ka ng lalake.
5. Kapag nagyaya ng EB or eyeball tapos may pa...
Posted in Blog: Tagalog | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: love, relationship
1. May panahon sa lahat ng bagay. I-enjoy ang kasalukuyang season ng iyong buhay. Hindi mo puwedeng ipilit ang isang emosyon o relasyon na hindi pa hinog. Mapakla. Hindi rin masarap ang hininog sa kalburo. Iba pa rin ang natural at sariwa.
2. Huwag magpapaniwala sa love at first sight. Attraction at first sight mayroon. Magkaiba ang spelling at meaning ng love atattraction. Hindi mo puwedeng mahalin ang isang tao na hindi mo kilala. You should never a marry a stranger. Ang fairy tales para lang sa mga bata.
3. Kung BF/GF lang ang hanap mo humanda kang masasaktan. Dahil wala kang intensiyong patagalin ang samahan. All relationships should be motivated by marriage and not mere casual and temporal flirtationship. Kaya kung hindi ka pa handang mag-asawa, huwag muna. Baka paglaruan mo lang ang puso ng iba.
4. Hanggat hindi kasal, huwag ipagkamaling patatatagin ng physical intimacy/sex ang inyong pag-ibig sa isat isa. Nagdadaglang kayo ng kumplikasyon at problema. Dahil kapag nakasama iyan sa menu ng relasyon, mahirap tigilan. Hindi ninyo kailangang ng practicum sa bagay na iyan para masabing sexually compatible kayo talaga.
5. Pumili ng karelasyon na handang sumuporta sa pinagagawa sa iyo ng Panginoon. Always bear in mind your life mission. Mahirap makasama ang isang taong walang kaamor-amor sa iyong passion. Huwag magdagdag ng krus na magbibigay sa iyo ng labis na konsumisyon.
6. Mapapatunayan mong mahal mo talaga ang tao kapag nalaman mo at nasaksihan an...
Posted in Blog: Tagalog | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: Lyrics, Please don't ask me, relationship
Please don't ask me
what i'm thinking,it's about you.
And please don't asks me
I never can see you,what can I do?
My first impulse is to run by your side.
My heart is not free and so I must hide.
Please don't ask me what i'm gonna say to you.
I toss and turn,
Can't sleep at night.
it's worrying me.
I go to bed and turn off the light.
But your face I see.
It only hurts the more I pretend.
That we could be ever be more than just friends.
Please don't ask me,
Why i'm so inlove with you.
You could easily make me happy
that I know.
But I try my best to never tell you so
I will sing to you my love songs and pretend.
And i'll keep my secret right down to the end.
Please don't ask me why am I not talking,
I just can't explain.
And please don't ask me,
why I go out walking in the rain.
I could not live the lie it would take.
It would be a mistake.
Please don't asks me
Why i'm so inlove with you.
No please don't asks me
why i'm so in love
It's never easy to deny what the heart and mind keeps inside.Sometimes one must end their folly for another person's attention to notice them for their love.Sadly,they just can't say it out loud because they know society will condemm their illicit relationship.I won't deny but I won'...