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To Go or Not Go Out with Ex-Jowa

Submitted by on July 2, 2016 (5 months ago)
Posted in Blog: Taglish | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: , , , , ,

Hi everyone,

I just want to get your opinion of what to do when you’re in this particular awkward situation:

I had an ex-bf which is married now and our break-up five years ago was not really that good. In short, there was no closure. We parted ways and cut the ties right away. * communications after that. So, I remain single but moved on already.

I’ve got two questions for both men and women:

1. What if you accidentally bumped with your former bf/gf in the mall then invite you to have coffee?

2. What if he/she’s with the wife/husband, what will you do?

As for the first question, I would say yes to the coffee invitation with the hope of assessing myself kung okay na ba ako or hindi pa. It’s my chance to challenge myself na I’m fine kahit walang closure because, basically, no closure is what happening in real life and sometimes, we should accept that and move on. 

If my former partner is with the wife and he greeted me, I’d say hi or hello. Greetings lang naman ‘yon and no need to be sour about it or iwasan. I guess it is called maturity on my part.

All answers/opinions are very much welcome.

Thank you. :)...

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