Masturbation (Normal or Not)

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Date: January 22, 2016 (2 years ago)


I was in 2nd Year College that time nung naging prof.ko 'tong coolest and ma-kwento kong prof sa Philo 2.

So kapag Philo 2 more on sa Life ang topic namin and tinatawag ng mga blockmates ko na "Counselling thursday" as in puro chismis sa buhay ang pinag uusapan namin and tbh hindi siya nakaka bagot.
Favorite prof ko siya actually, dati siyang semenarista sa Baguio pero lagi niyang sinasabi na tinalikuran niya yun ng dahil sa "libog".
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4 years ago na 'to napag usapan sa classroom pero hanggang ngayon na weweirduhan pa rin ako.

According to him, ang pag mamasaturbate daw ng lalake ay normal pero kapag ang babae ang nag masturbate ay abnormal and kasalanan ang tawag dun.

Tinanong daw niya yung wife niya noon kung nag mamasturbate daw ba siya tuwing umaalis siya ng matagal and laging sinasabi ng wife nia na gawain lang yun ng mga abnormal at makasalanan na babae.

Hindi ko alam san nakuha yun ng wife nia, pero I asked my prof that time "Bakit pag lalake normal sa babae abnormal? Eh diba ang sabi sa bible na kasalanan ang pag nanasa sa kapwa lalo na kung hindi mo pag mamay ari? So meaning parehas lang na abnormal and makasalanan ang nag mamasturbate diba?"

Hindi ko na maalala yung buong sinabi ng prof ko pero ang mejo naaalala ko na sinabi nia.. "Nung nasa baguio kami, totoong nakakatakot mag masturbate kasi iniisip mong kailangan mo maging malinis hanggang matapos ang pagiging seminarista pero hindi mo maiwasan ang hindi mag masturbate dahil may needs ang mga lalake na kailangan ilabas so may karapatan ang mga lalake mag masturbate. And sa society na meron ang pilipinas normal mag masturbate ang lalake pero ang mga babae hindi kasi tatawagin kang makasalanan at h...

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iampatrick
January 22, 2016 (2 years ago)

(ngayon ko lang nabasa)... di ka-abnormal-an  ang pagma-musterbate ng lakake o babae... yung prof mo yung abnormal hahaha (just a comment author) :)

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checkmate1234
January 22, 2016 (2 years ago)

your professor of philosophy is a idiot. dont ask seek the truth about masturbation.

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Bebeko
January 22, 2016 (2 years ago)

It's your body and you have all the right to do what pleases you. Sa ganitong aspect ay kanya-kanyang belief yan. Walang tama o mali base sa kung ano ang pinaniniwalaan ng isang tao. Walang right ang sinuman na magdikta sa choices ng isang individual. We have our own convictions to follow, faith, culture or upbringing man yan.

Kaya nga mas mainam na hindi sana pinagdedebatehan ang ganito dahil personal choice or views na yan ng isang tao. Hindi lahat naniniwala sa bible o relihoyoso. No one has the right to impose their own belief sa isang bagay na nagpapaligaya at nagpapakuntento sa isang tao. If u think na masama ang isang bagay ay free ka pa rin to do it or not. Freedom yan as our basic right basta walang mapeperwisyo na iba.

Good job!

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Bebeko
January 22, 2016 (2 years ago)

To continue..,

Kaya huwag kang maguluhan. For me ay kasalanan lang ang isang bagay like masturbation kapag inisip mo na nagkakasala ka nga. But then, it's my personal belief. Basta para sakin ay normal sa babae at lalake ang gawin yan ngunit ito ay isang private moment ng individual na hindi na kailangang ipagsabi pa.

If palagi tayong susunod sa dikta ng society ay baka hindi na tayo ganap na lumigaya dahil parang palagi itong laging ico-consider sa bawat kilos o desisyon sa buhay. Gawin na lang ang gusto basta ito ay magpapasaya sayo.

Good job!

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alexaaaUP
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

So dapat kebs na lang, dedma na lang. Hahaha. Pero kasi ako nalito ako tbh noon (mejo ngayon), kasi iba kung paano ako pinalaki and iba ang nasa society na nakikita ko kesa sa nakikita nila. Hahaha. Ewan ko pero kasi kapag lalake ka gawin mo kahit anong gusto mo okay lang sa mga tao sa paligid mo kasi "Lalake" ka. Pero ang babae kapag about sa sexual desires and etc.may masasabi na sayo na negative kasi "babae" ka. And laging sinasabi ng matatanda na kapag nagsex and dalawang tao, walang mawawala saa lalake pero sa babae malaki ang nawawala. Ayun.

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Bebeko
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Nobody can blame you sa upbringing na yan. But since may isip ka na at nakakaunawa ng tama at mali ay alam mo ang makakapagpasaya sayo. U can make a sound decision how to run your life. Hindi lang sa masturbation issue but sa lahat ng aspeto ng buhay.

Don't let society or any person ang magdikta sa buhay mo. I've been to that point na masama raw magmasturbate pero masarap eh lalo na noong hayskul. Pero kasalanan rin naman ang magsinungaling. Kahit nga mag-isip lang ng masama sa kapwa ay nagkakasala na rin. Pero kapag ganun na lang palagi ang naging takbo ng buhay mo ay confused ka nga palagi. Indecisive and always need to explain your actions sa sarili mo at sa iba. Nakakapagod yan at nakakaawa pa ang labas mo kapag ganun.

Good job!

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kidlat
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Miss alexaa,makaluma ung prof mo.tsaka makasarili un,ang lalaki tao,ang babae tao din,so anong pinagkaiba?wala,sa panahon ngayon pantay pantay na lalaki man o babae,un prof mo,,gusto lang nun sya lang liligaya or may desire un na mag ask sa kanya un girl para sya magturo pano magmasturbate..kung gusto mo gawin mo,in private nga lang kasi marami malibog sa paligid mo..hehehehe

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wickd.witz
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January 22, 2016 (2 years ago)

Yung sinabi ng professor mo to put it bluntly : "kagagaguhan", "unethical" and "conduct-unbecoming" for a supposedly role model ... a shame on the stature that he's on. Kakahiya. No wonder (giggles)

And what ?!
"Nung nasa baguio kami, totoong nakakatakot mag masturbate kasi iniisip mong kailangan mo maging malinis hanggang matapos ang pagiging seminarista pero hindi mo maiwasan ang hindi mag masturbate dahil may needs ang mga lalake na kailangan ilabas so may karapatan ang mga lalake mag masturbate. And sa society na meron ang pilipinas normal mag masturbate ang lalake pero ang mga babae hindi kasi tatawagin kang makasalanan at hindi normal."

Laughable state of mind for a so-called "seminarista". Hahahahaha ! Lafftrip

THE FACT THAT THERE IS A HIGHWAY TO HELL BUT ONLY A STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN, SAYS A LOT ABOUT THE ANTICIPATED TRAFFIC NUMBERS.

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alexaaaUP
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Iniisip ko na lang noon na kaya niya nasabi yun kasi lalake siya. Hahahaha. Ewan ko pero nakakatawa nga pero nakaka lito. Hahahaha. Kasi yung lola ko ganyan din mag isip eh. Hehe.

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wettpuss00
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Well, if mag bibase ka sa mga ganyang bagay ay talagang malilito ka my dear. Of course, kung magtatanong ka sa isang "seminarista" there will be a chance na sasabihin niya ang mga bagay na yun. But dear, at the end of the day it will be your choice. Nasa iyo pa din kung ano ang paniniwalaan mo.. There are a lot of people out there na pwede mong tanungin. Punta ka sa  espesyalita for sure matutuwa ka sa payo nila cause they will allow you to do so. I am not saying wag kang maniwala doon sa prof mong (sorry for the term) g*g* just seek for other opinions at timbangin mo kung ano ang mas makakapagpagaan ng loob mo.. ^_^

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alexaaaUP
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Hahaha. Oo nga sabi nga nila healthy daw ang pagmamasturbate. Hahaha

Hindi naman ako paniwalang paniwala sa kanya noon. Hahahah. Nalito lang ng kaunti kasi galing siya sa pagiging semenarista so first time ko makarinig ng ganung point of view noon. Totoo na bias ang society na meron ang pilipinas pero when it comes to religion bias din pala diba. So mejo napapa isip lang ako. Hahahahaha.

Hoolah!!

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drew26
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

It's normal sa lalaki at babae ang mag masturbate, same lang yan kasi me desire ang babae at lalaki, if seminarista yung prof mo, iba paniniwala nya, compare s normal na tao, healthy sa body ang magmasturbate according to health study, its gives lots of health benefits in our body like stress relief, live longer than who less masturbate... etc.

Life is short .... just enjoy life!!!

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antoinette
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

ive discovered it when i was 8 years old. was exploring and it felt good. ive never read it in the bible. nothing was mentioned specifically about it. the bible was my first erotica story. i think i came many times while reading first testament. bad ko noh. but looking back, if i were my mom, i would tell my daughter (even if she doesnt open up about it) that it is natural. there is no shame in celebrating that part of yourself privately. i never had any cramps coz i always flick the bean when my period is near.

i wanna run to you... ohhhh

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wickd.witz
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January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

To answer the question. Masturbation is perfectly normal. Do the act in any manner or way you like it on any hour of the day as you see fit. Male or female doing the act doesn't make any difference.  Go for it girl.

I just hate seminaristas and priests.

THE FACT THAT THERE IS A HIGHWAY TO HELL BUT ONLY A STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN, SAYS A LOT ABOUT THE ANTICIPATED TRAFFIC NUMBERS.

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LordDrake
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Cultural taboo ang masturbation. And like many cultural taboos, usually imposition lang ito ng mga sinaunang "moralists" (for the lack of a better term). Of course, there are cultural taboos imposed because my physiological reason and even common sense reasons.

May nabasa akong novel series na ang setting ay pre-historic (as in may Neanderthal pang co-existing with the characters). In one scene, nag-masturbate yung male character and afterwards may shame siya kasi sa (fictional) pre-historic culture nila sayang yung "essence" kung hindi ilalabas iyon during sex (even though hindi pa nila fully understood na yung "essence" na iyon ang pinagmumulan ng buhay). They just know na yung "essence" na iyon ay connected sa sex, which more often than not resukts un pregnancy and motherhood, which us a central part of their culture. They even have a festical called Mother Fetival, which are actually orgies wherein even mated couples are free to have sex outside of their matings.

The great thing about fiction is that anything can happen. The author is practically a god of the world he or she writes about.

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LordDrake
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

(Naubusan ako ng characters)

Honestly ngayon ko lang narinig yung taboo na ok lang mag-masturbate ang lalaki pero abnormal sa babae. Ang alam mko talaga ay taboo para sa parehong gender.

As for your prof's conversation with his wife that reinforced this notion, maybe it's a subversion of that taboo brought about by an acceptance that "boys will be boys" and will fool around, but ladies are still subject to restrictions regarding their individual sexuality.

Now if you are from a particular State U (based on your username *COUGH* UP*COUGH*), ang palagay ko ay kaya lang pinagsasabi ng prof mo yun ay para mag-initiate ng discussion at para mapag-isipan mo talaga ng mas malalim pa ang mga ganitong bagay-bagay. In particulat ang bagay na may kaunting leeway na ang mga lalaki when it comes to taboos, pero ang kababaihan ay nakakahon pa rin.

Kaya ipaglaban ang iyong karapatan! Pati na ang mag-masturbate! :D :P

The great thing about fiction is that anything can happen. The author is practically a god of the world he or she writes about.

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alexaaaUP
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Hahahahah! Dun lang ako mag rereact sa school kung san ako galing. Hahahaha. Hindi po ako graduate ng UP, isang sem lang ako dun. Hahaha. Pero nag sisimula din sa U yung school kung san ako nag college. Haha.

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LordDrake
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Hehe! Okies.

Regardless kung saang school ka graduate, I still think na kaya niya sinabi iyon ay para makapagsimula ng discourse at para mapaisip ka/kayo ng classmates mo na unfair pa rin ang society, lalo na sa kababaihan. At kung ganoon nga ang sadya niya, medyo nagtagumapy siya kais haggang dito pinag-iisipan at tinatalakay mo pa rin. So the question now, anong gagawin mo/natin para matanggal ang "unfairness" na iyan?

The great thing about fiction is that anything can happen. The author is practically a god of the world he or she writes about.

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shobe.sheen
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

"According to him, ang pag mamasaturbate daw ng lalake ay normal pero kapag ang babae ang nag masturbate ay abnormal and kasalanan ang tawag dun."

And this statement came from a professor? An ex-seminarian at that? I can't help but sigh and roll my eyes in exasperation.

Saying that masturbation, in general, is abnormal is one thing. But saying that it's abnormal when girls do it? It is definitely quite a stretch.

Professor talaga siya huh? Philosophy pa talaga?

Quick question, is this the same professor from whom you got that grammatically-flawed quote which you've incorporated in your previous story?

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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starst1949
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Iha, Shobe lol, you too can't move on dun sa prof na yun. Baka naman iba yun.
Still  I can't believe that people like him, a prof at that, still exists...imagine the damage he did to the innocent and gullible minds. The fear, the guilt he pinned on such a normal, enjoyable and orgasmic activity.hahaha

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BellaVictoria
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

I hope not the same prof. otherwise dapat masisante na yan.

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shobe.sheen
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

@starst1949: indeed pops! The horror. Kaya nga it's imperative that students filter the new ideas that are being spoon fed to them.

@BellaVictoria: I hope so too, achi. :D

Imperfect understanding is often more dangerous than ignorance.

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Calooh09
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Idiots like your prof is one of the reasons kaya naging atheist ako.

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Mr.M
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

I do it because I learned it.From age 10 forward I did it.To hell what others say,the point is if you want to feel good that's one of your options.There are some who are so prude that they have not enjoyed the life they've been given of.What would be better to go to bed with another woman or to fantasize about her and release such a stress inside your body and mind.
Magpakasaya ka kasi ginusto mo pero yung iba na sinasabi "abnormal" at "makasalanan" e manalamin sa sarili.

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LibrongUod
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Naalala ko Psychiatry lesson namin dahil sa blog post mo. It's normal. In fact, even when we were kids, we tend to explore our genitals, we felt it pleasurable and so we continue to explore it. At puberty, this pleasure is replaced by desire to coitus or sex, and at adolescent (or in others, earlier), the desire is put into action.

Magiging abnormal lang ang masturbation if it is against your will, if you are coerced or forced to do it.

Your Philosophy teacher is definitely wrong.

I Master, I Universalize, I Believe.

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YankumiOh
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

Psychosexual stages ni pareng Sigmund Freud. I think genital stage tama? Unsure of this though. Di ako nakikinig sa teacher.hahaha

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LibrongUod
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

Yep, si Sigmund Freud nga. Phallic stage yung time when a child learn that genitals are source of pleasure. Yung genital stage covers puberty to adulthood.

Recently ko nga lang nalaman yan. Wala kasi kaming Psychology nung undergrad ko. Pero, since may Psychiatry kami, ayun, nalaman ko.

I Master, I Universalize, I Believe.

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LibrongUod
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

*child learns

I Master, I Universalize, I Believe.

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YankumiOh
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

Ahh thanks! Hahaha good to know, phallic stage pala. :-) Med student ka pala. Galing galing naman.

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LibrongUod
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

Hmm...Siguro. :P

Pero nakaka-relate ako sa post mo on procrastination. Minsan kasi gawain ko rin yun. ;)

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YankumiOh
January 23, 2016 (2 years ago)

I remember, I  have read before that masturbation falls against a certain commandment. Pero kungInormal or hindi, I think to each their own, I find masturbation, a waste of time though.

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mario_abante
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

Tawag dyan double standards of morality. May ibang standards sa lalake at may ibang standards sa babae. Sa aking pananaw, ang lahat ng tao ay pantay pantay at ang moralidad para sa kahit sino pag dating sa kasarian ay di maiiba. Kung anong di wasto at di maganda sa mga kababaihan ay di rin wasto at tama para sa mga kalalakihan.

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akosinena
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

Hindi ko lang alam pero ganyan ata mag isip ang mga seminarista. When I was in college yung prof ko sa Philosophy of Man, malabnaw din ang utak when it comes sa society. Dati din siyang seminarista and ngayon atheist na. Malabnaw sa utak daw kasi ang pagtuturo sa loob ng seminaryo. Yan din ang sinasabi niya kasalanan daw ang pag mamasturbate kapag girl ka. Kaya feeling ko ang lalabnaw ng utak ng mga dating seminarista.

Rape is not a crime, it's just a surprise sex.

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MidLifeCrisis
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

Baka kaklase kayo ni otor :)

And.I.Care.Not.

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akosinena
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

Hahahahahah malabo po. 3rd year na po ako nagka Philosophy subject. Hehe.

Rape is not a crime, it's just a surprise sex.

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anakincat
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

That idiot gives philosophy professors & former seminarians a bad name.

Good that he did not become another lost shepherd; bad that he became an academic misleader …

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maginoo
January 24, 2016 (2 years ago)

I don't see a valid and strong argument why it will be categorized as sin. Is it due to the illicit thoughts and imaginations, but still I think it's fine. You are not hurting anyone so I think dapat ok lng.

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reader69
January 25, 2016 (2 years ago)

It's like making love to yourself... Pleasuring yourself.... Pleasing yourself...

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envy1
February 8, 2016 (2 years ago)

Yung professor mo abnormal. mosiginist Prof mo. Just think of it na lahat ng bagay pati batas mga lalake gumawa kaya  pabor sa male. parang analogy is like if yung babae kasal may bang  lalake at nahuli, pwedeng ma demanda ng adultery pero pag ang lalake may ibang babae ang kaso lang ay bigamy. Diba napa ka unfair :)

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DeepHotDiver
May 28, 2016 (2 years ago)

ok lang poh un babae man o lalake..lalo na ngaun..

I love squirter..

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Alex.santos
September 20, 2016 (1 year ago)

Is it true?

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