Posted in Blog: English | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: love, letting go, moving on, acceptance, Happy, Reminisce
This evening while I was driving back to work, this song played in my selections and it brought me back to where I was 9 months ago. The time, where I had to let go of a man I thought I would end up with ..
And the song I mentioned in the first part is entitled BREAKEVEN and is from the band, The Script ... I swear the first 6 months after that break up, I played the song LITERALLY every day.. over and over until it sank to me to forgive, forget, move on and get a life ..
But that journey?? It was one of the most painful realization I went through .. And if not for the time and compassion of my friends, support of my family - - I could say, I would still probably be caught in that moment ...
Know that everyone goes through a stage where their loved one hurts them.. A stage where your dreams, your hopes go down the drain as if they were nothing..
And if you are in this stage as I write this, know that it is a - - "stage" ..
You have to go through the pain, the denial part, the ifs, the buts, the why and how.
Take it ... Cry if you have to ... Shout if you have to .. Be bitter if you have to ...
Hate the world if you have to.
But do not stay in that stage for long ... You have to rise to the occasion .
And come out a lot stronger, a lot wiser ..... Read More