Posted in Blog: Tagalog | Categories: Non-Erotic | Tags: chat
disclaimer: all the things i wrote here are my personal prejudice based on factual events that happen to me and as well as factual data based on records found in the internet.
Isa sa mga maiinit na topics sa chat lately : nang iwan / iniwan || paasa // umasa || black and white // grey areas
sa mga balitaktakan sa chat room, hindi maiiwasan ang biruan at asaran, at sa isang adult site tulad ng FSS, kailangan naten ng mga open mindedness sa mga makakasalamuha naten. hindi sa lahat ng oras ay makakasundo naten ang ating kabalitaktakan at hindi sa lahat ng oras at kontra naten sila. so dumarating ang oras na talagang nghahanap tayo ng mga taong sadyang masaya lang tayo kausap kaya pinanganak ang alamat ni whispher.
dahil sa alamat n whisper, ay marameng nang naging biktima ng "nang iwan at iniwan" kaya ng karoon ng mga "paasa at umasa" sa mga dahilang "black and white at grey area"
so di lang naman eto nagyayare sa whisper, kahit sa pub chat nagyayare at higit sa lahat sa mga kanya kanya nateng pang araw araw na kabuhayan, eto ay nangyayare.
for me, we should rectify this problem by understanding the standpoints of the diversity of the people who comes here.
1: sexually frustrated people (tang ina ang magdeny tamaan ng kidlat)
2: people who had or still have heart problems (tang na tlga yung mga mg dedeny jan magulungan sana ng pison)
3: bored ( and they just want to have fun)
4: people who wants free sex ( tangina wag na mg deny mdami jan)
5: curious people ( syempre meron tlga neto )
eto ang top 5 na naiisip kong rason bat andito mga mga members im sure meron pang iba pero eto siguro ang pinaka mataas na chance ng posibility bat andito tayo
so baket nga ba may nang iiwan at naiiwan? kaya ngkakaron ng paasa at umasa? dahil sa black and white and grey area?
i think the reason is simple. we are looking at the same sky with different perspectives.
kase iba iba ang target. imagine a person with a heart problem maka chat yung people who wants free sex for example.
lets admit it, kapag broken hearted tayo we are vulnerable to the little nice things done by people to us. and we cherish them so bad. since a person who wants free sex will do everything to get laid. they will show emtional attachment. and that is perfectly normal. give enough emotional attachement will warrant the key to their pants. so with time ngka biruan sa pub chat dumalas ang pub nauwi sa whisper, unless makapal talaga ang muka at diretcho pm at sadyang malandi pag me ng pm eh go agad sagot lng ng sagot eventualy mauuwi sa exchange of phone numbers
then the habit to txt messages every now then becomes a habit of daliy doze of txt messages that will turn to few minutes phone calls to hours and to the point that they are close enough will meet each other. if both parties feel like it they will have sex and if not its not yet the the end of the world, its just a another hurdle along the process.and you will still pursue until: you give up and realize na paasa yung isa kase mali maling signals ang binibigay. kaya merong umasa. or biglang mawawala kase nakahanap ng ibang ka chat, kaya ayun merong naiwan. for whatever reasons. dont care if its black and white or grey it doesnt matter.
but if we look at it was that time, maturely handled? i dont think so. im not a heavy chatter but i do chat and i see to it that i will have only a handful of people i can deal with at a time. so i keep my connections on a short leashe so that i wont get lost the conversation. coz first its impolite to forget a topic that you just are talking about.
so i would suggest this to everyone. and this is how i do things. when i find someone i want to talk to, i try to speak with them in pub so that when i send them a whisper its not impolite and not intruding, second, give it a few hours to a few days and see if that person will pique your interest. then ask that person directly if they are as interested in you the way you are to them. get a middle ground. find where you can meet in your objectives. and take it from there
ask yourself if you can live with that or not. and try to minimize your regulars at 3 at most, so that you wont have a problem dealing with them, if none of the first 3 fits you bill, tell them directly, its not impolite, its bein... Read More