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Find it in your news feeds now. What will you see?
Mga artista or even your friends in FB, hooking up, immediately after a breakup.
Ever wonder how do they do it? How do they fall in love immediately after ng breakup? Or rather why? How do they start a new relationship right away? Possible ba? Well, I guess, it is.
For me, one of the best ways to get over a heartbreak is to do that and nothing else works as well. Kapag nahanap mo na yung someone that you like to be with right after a painful breakup, this new person helps you forget the pain, makes you feel better, comforted. Others may call it rebound, but for me, it's not.
After a breakup you find yourself disoriented, unstable, it is very devastating. The pain is there and it’s real for you. Sometimes it feels like you’re completely helpless and you’ll never get past the suffering.
Having a new person in your life brings with him/her stability, a much needed support, will boosts your confidence, your self-esteem to where it originally was, makes you happy. And so, falling in love right away will make you realize that there is always a light at the end of the tunnel.
At paano pala if this person is the original Mr./Ms. Right? The lessons you've learned from the past pala may actually help you in choosing the right partner this time around. It can happen.
So, seeing someone new right after a heartbreak is a great idea. Pero, you still need to make sure you take a little time off in between. You need some time to heal, some time for yourself, to reflect on how the last one went and how you want the future one to go. Eventually, you'll realize kaya mo na. When you do feel sad or hurt because of your past romance, don’t take it out on your present partner. That's unfair.... Read More