Friends In The Real World

October 9, 2014 (2 years ago)
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Konting browse and I came across this article. Since FSS ay parang FB or Twitter ay naisipan kong i-summarize. Some parts are mine.

1. Virtual Friends Ay Di-Pwedeng i-Substitute To Real Ones

Social networking sites ang easiest way to keep in touch with those countless people lalo na kapag busy tayo. However, the ‘emotional touch’ kailanman ay di pwedeng i-replace ng internet chats, comments and posts.

2. No Face-To-Face Talks On Facebook, Twitter

Posible rin na marami ang komportable na makipagkaibigan to avoid face-to-face (FTF) contact with others.

Ang mga ito ay WORRIED about negative conclusions being drawn about them sa FTF meeting, kung saan they will not be able to hide their drawbacks (hitsura, katawan, awkward mannerisms, speech deficits, language difficulty, etc.

3. Face-To-Face Interactions Ay Mas Satisfying

According to the study, people are happier and laugh 50% more when talking face-to-face with friends or via webcam than when using social networking sites.

Mas maganda kasi na nakikita mo ang kausap mo para alam mo kung ano ang reaksyon nya sa bawat salita na bibitawan mo, joke man yun o serious matter.

4. Talking On Phone/Texting vs. Sharing A Smile

Para madevelop ang real friendship we need to see that the other person is trustworthy. We need to be absolutely sure that a person is really going to invest in us and is really going to be there for us when we need them.

5. Mag-ingat Sa Manipulasyon

Mahirap itong makita dahil di mo naman "ganap" na kilala ang virtual friends. Magtaka kung ito ay handang mag invest ng oras at pera kahit maliit o wala namang balik sa kanya.

In this situation ay maaari kang magamit sa personal niyang motibo ng di mo alam. At times, ang nabuong virtual friendship ay nagdudulot na ng stress lalo pa kung puro negatibo ang napag-uusapan.

In conclusion, sana ay huwag namang kalimutan ang real friends kagaya ng katrabaho, kamag-anak, kaklase, kababata, kasamahan sa church, kapitbahay etc.., dahil sila ang mas nakakasama at nakikita natin halos araw-araw , kaysa sa virtual friends na nakatago sa likod ng kompyuter.

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