Fingering: Bring Her to Orgasm With Your Hand

June 8, 2012 (4 years ago)
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Instead of just using a finger as a dipstick to see if a woman is wet enough to have intercourse, her partner can have a great time (and give her immense pleasure!) by sticking around down there, and giving her an orgasm by hand. When a woman knows how to give herself an orgasm from masturbating, she should be able to enjoy it when her partner brings her to orgasm from manual stimulation. Manually stimulating a woman doesn't mean that her partner just rubs her clitoris. There's much more to it than that. The following tips will help you bring a woman to orgasm using your hand.

"Handy Tips" for Bringing Her to Orgasm

  • Get help from her. Ask her what she likes, or put your hand over hers while she shows you what she likes. She should show you how much and where she likes to be touched so you can do the same.
  • Wet is best. If she's not very wet, use a lubricant. Or dip your finger into her vagina and use some of her natural lubrication.
  • Use a circular motion to touch the clitoris. Gently rub the tip of one or two of your fingers around and over her clitoris, using a circular motion.
  • Be careful with the sensitive clitoris. Don't put too much pressure on the clitoris. Many women do not like continuous direct stimulation of their clitoris, because it is too sensitive. Rub on top of the clitoral hood (the skin that covers the clitoris), or around the clitoris.
  • Rub around the vagina and labia. Rub with one or two of your fingers up and down the opening between her labia, on her labia, and around her vagina.
  • Slip a finger or two into her vagina. Some women like to have their vaginas penetrated with one or more fingers. A woman might like it when you rub the upper, inner wall of her vagina; where the mysterious G-spot is located.
  • Stimulate the vagina and clitoris at the same time. Use one or two fingers to stimulate around her clitoris in a circular motion, while you move a finger or two in and out of her vagina.
  • Kiss her and touch her all over. While your hands are busy down below, kiss her mouth, or anywhere on her body. When you have a free hand, rub, stroke, touch, fondle her inner thighs, nipples, breasts, buttocks, anus, or anywhere on her body that is sensitive and erotic to her.
  • Keep up the rhythm. When she's on the verge of orgasm, keep a steady rhythm going on the place where she is most sensitive: around her clitoris.
  • Stop after her orgasm, unless she wants more. Many women's clitorises become very sensitive after orgasm, so they might want you to stop touching right away. But you should ask her about this. Because for some women, have one orgasm just makes them want to have another orgasms right away. In t
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