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After 3 weeks na bakasyon, I wanna share some of my experiences which I hope na may maka-relate or makatulong kahit paano.
Let me just remind you that this blog is not about sex but siguro mas malalim pa. I just turned 41 and I celebrated it with my family in the morning and friends naman that night.
I met different people sa loob at labas ng FSS. I went to bed with some of them. Not just for sex but mostly as a group which I didn't regret out of being careful na rin. But of course, sex was not far away. I'm a friendly person but flirty most of the time. Masarap lang na makipaglandian but I guard myself palagi. I know what I want and I know how to control myself.
Being 41 with a lot of experiences in life ay nakatulong sa akin to stop, look and listen especially pagdating sa opposite sex. As I said earlier, I know what I want kaya di mahirap for me to control myself. I love to be with ladies. I respect them at all times, makarinyo ako at maalaga. They can attest to that. Hindi ako after na maikama sila but just to be friendly and nice.
Sometimes I think of people na nag-aadvertise pa sa FSS about sex. I have nothing against it pero siguro iba lang sila talaga sa akin. I believe na there's always somebody out there. Wag lang maging tamad at puro sex ang nasa isip ay tyak na makakatagpo ng fubu or FWB (friends with benefits). It takes time syempre kaya mag invest ka ng oras, effort and money too.
In my case ay ayoko ng ibang relationship other than "friends". Yun ang gusto ko at yun ang fit sakin. We can be friends na kahit katabi sa pagtulog ay walang malisya. Ganun ako... and inang.grasya can attest to that (nakasama ko rin si Mids sa room). Inang and I developed a platonic friendship na kaiinggitan ng marami. In fact, sa Hyatt ay nakita pa nya ako naliligo na naked or naglalakad sa room ng naka- underwear lang. Sinisigawan ako kapag mali pero sobrang maasikaso. I love inang.grasya and she has my highest respect. She knows her place, she's so smart and sensitive. I adore her children, too. Pero I have to warn you, masamang makaaway yan hahaha.
Of course, I admit I had steamy nights rin sa ibang women who were not in that category. But I made sure na alam nila situation ko. I gave them my best behavior. I didn't make any advances na magiging uncomfortable sila and most of all...I never pushed myself. I just went with the flow. I did my best at alam nila yan.
I must also admit na may ilan sa mga ladies na naglakas loob na magpakita ng motibo about sex and some insinuated that they wanted to have a relationship, kinda. On my part it's important kase na sabihin agad ito sa babae. Pag-usapan agad. Wag manghinayang na di makaiskor kung kawawa naman at aasa ang babae. I did all that. I repeat, I know what I want kaya di mahirap sakin. I know kung saan ako pupunta kaya I make no promises. One thing is for sure, na sulit sila kapag kasama ako.
Will I advertise myself? No, di naman kailangan.
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