About LDR

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Date: October 22, 2017 (8 months ago)


Let's make it simple. LDR is a timeline of griefs, sacrifices, longingness and insecurities.

I'm currently writing a story about Long Distance Relationship, pero ang problema, hindi ko naranasan ang ganitong uri ng relasyon.

So yeah. Nandito ako para sana kumalap ng experiences. Hehe Pasensiya na po, nagbabaka sakali lang. Marami na akong napagtanungan pero nakukulangan pa rin ako. May hinahanap ako na baka dito ko matatagpuan.

Please, pagbigyan na po. I WANT TO HEAR YOUR HEART ABOUT YOUR LDR STORY. kahit payak lang po. Anything goes.

Kwento po kayo sa comment section. Kahit ano lang basta tungkol sa LDR with true love and experiences. Kahit paulit-ulit nang nabanggit pakisulat pa rin po.

Ginawa ko po ito dahil gusto kong magi...

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I dreamt of being a published writer of inspirational and motivational stories, cause I want to inspire those who have physical disabilities and less fortunate people whom are downhearted. I want to bring hope into their hearts and I want them to see a beautiful world that's full of dreams. I also want to share my thoughts about unconditional love, life's regrets and marital failures through Erotic stories. I may not change your world, but I wish, with my simple works, i've touched your hearts.
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To be honest, i'm a liar. ♥♞♬♂⚄☜†∇

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Akira13
October 22, 2017 (8 months ago)

Ldr kami  ng bf ko. Mabait sya at masipag magaral. College na din kasi sya ngayon  tapos 3rd yr pa kaya busy sa thesis. Nung una, hinahanap hanap ko palagi attention nya. Nung mga 4months 5 months kami. Ngayon mga 1 yr na kami, nagsawa na ko kakahanap sa atensyon nya. Palagi kasi kami nagazway about sa time. Sobrang buzy nya kasi palagi, literal. Kaya ayon, parang nawala na excitement ko kausapin sya. Parang okay nga lang sakin eh kahit di ko na sya makausap. Pero di ko kaya makipagbreak kasi natatakot ako. May pagkadepress kasi sya tapos mahal na mahal nya daw ako. Natatkot ako na baka pag makipagbreak ako, mamaya kung ano gawin nya.

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Fiction-Factory
October 24, 2017 (8 months ago)

So madam, kung ok lang magbreak kayo, makikipag-break ka na? As in gusto mo na siyang hiwalayan? Tuwing kailan kayo nagkikita? Gaano kadalas? Nawalan ka ng gana dahil sa absence niya? Nawala yung love?

To be honest, i'm a liar. ♥♞♬♂⚄☜†∇

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jeffrey_31
October 25, 2017 (8 months ago)

Ldr din kami ng gf ko, sa 6 years namin na relasyon yung unang taon lang kami magkasama , ngabroad kasi ako for 3 years tapos nung bumalik ako dito sa pinas asa abroad narin sya , after 4 years ngkita ulit kami pero 9 days lang . Mahirap ang ldr, kelangan  maayos ang communication nyo, nandyan yung lagi kang tamang hinala kapag hindi mo agad sya mkausap or matagal sya mgreply, tamang hinala ka kpg lumalabas sya ang tagal tagal umuwi, may pagkakataon bilang lalaki matutukso ka din kasi malayo ang mahal mo. Ang pinakasad lang msasanay kna lang na magkalayo kayo , parang normal n lang lahat, hindi ka sanay ng may katabi pagtulog. All in all tyaga , sakripisyo, kalyo sa kamay walang ktapusang videocalls , nakakapagod , hahaha

Reader ...hopefully become a writer :)

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Fiction-Factory
October 25, 2017 (8 months ago)

Salamat Sir sa comment. 9days lang after 4 years? Nagkasalisihan kayo. Mga ganyang LDR ang nakakahilo, yung nagkasama na kayo then magkakalayo, means may pundasyon kayo. At yung tamang hinala ang pinakamahirap, jelousy without basis. Sir, may punto ba na gusto mo nang igiveup yung relasyon niyo? Sa palagay mo ba, ang LDR ang siyang weakest relationship, o yun ang strongest? Paki-abang mo yung story ko Sir, makaka-relate ka. Hehehe

To be honest, i'm a liar. ♥♞♬♂⚄☜†∇

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Istupher
October 27, 2017 (8 months ago)

I had a long standing relationship with my Ex... 10 years ro be exact.. Not quite of a long distance nung first 3 years kaso I was studying in an all boys school where phones are restricted... It was late 2002 when i started courting her, started as phone pals kapag month end leave, then became friends and eventually lovers after a year and a half... Medyo mahirap kasi we had to be creative with our ways of communication... I had to learn how to wire tap, hide cp kung saan saan para lang magkausap kami... When i went out, ayun medyo mas madali na yung way of communication.. But it was not until the 6th year nung nagkasama kami dito sa metro... Manila ako, taguig siya... She comes here kapag off nia... And then on the 9th year, she left for Qatar... After a year, nagbakasyon siya, and on the 2nd of February 2014... She said yes... Was so happy back then... Kasi finally, she is gonna be my wife... Kaya lang, that was my last card to save the relationship... I had a feeling na... TBC

Nemo Dat Quod Non Habent

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Istupher
October 27, 2017 (8 months ago)

I am losing her... I had a hunch nung paalis pa lang siya, that she is not coming back to me. Naramdaman ko yun nung pagkakita pa lang namin sa airport. Wala na yung init. She hugged me naman at first, pero iba na. Sabi nia wala naman daw iba... Bigla na lang nawala yung love... I was so devastated nung nagkahiwalay na kami. Kasi hindi ko man lang alam kung bakit nawala eh. Maayos naman communication namin nung nasa qatar siya. Bigla na lang nawala. Iyak lang ako ng iyak kapag nasa bahay ako, even at work kapag naaaala ko, iiyak na lang ako. Turned my attention towards work that time. After a few months, we met again as she promised to talk to me, she returned the ring and the keys to my house. Sa ring ok pa eh, pero nung nakita ko na yung susi, yun na, iyak na naman. Sa starbucks moa kami nagkita at nagusap... TBC

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Istupher
October 27, 2017 (8 months ago)

Iyak ako ng iyak noon, I asked her why, anong nagawa ko at hindi ko nagawa... She cannot answer me. Sobrang sakit, I asked her for another chance, but she said no. Nung maghihiwalay na kami ng landas, I hugged her tight for the last time. At nung naglalakad na siya palayo, I was saying, lumingon ka, lumingon ka, pero wala. Hanggang sumakay na siya ng taxi. Iyak pa rin ako ng iyak non. Ang masaklap nito, iniwan ka na nga, bulok pa yung nasakyan kong taxi, tumirik sa may paliko ng world trade center, since matanda na yung driver, i volunteered to push. Nagtutulak ako habang umiiyak. Saklap. Hahaha.. Eventually, things got better for me, travelled a lot and met new people, kaya lang I never courted another girl kasi alam ko, mahal ko pa rin siya at handa akong tanggapin siya ulit and eventually marry her. Naghihintay lang ako para sa kanya to give it one final shot .. And then...

Nemo Dat Quod Non Habent

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Istupher
October 27, 2017 (8 months ago)

Birthday ko, she greeted me. And i greeted her back on her birthday after five days. That was the start of our communication again. I was actually happy back then, but my close friends warned me, magingat daw ako and magiwan ako ng para sa sarili ko kasi alam nila na tatanggapin ko pa siya ulit kahit anong mangyari. I heeded their advice. And nung umuwi siya, undas, nagkita kami ulit sa sementeryo, quite awkward at first kasi we don't know what to call each other, nasanay kami sa pet names for the longest time. I invited her to watch the sunrise the next morning and she obliged. Doon na nagsimula ulit yung another chapter, we got back after a few days and I gave her the ring back saying, whatever happens, keep it... We agreed to give it another shot with an agreement na kapag nakaramdam ang isa na it's not working anymore, one will just quietly disappear from the other's life. And it happened again after 6 months... Bumitaw na ako. Pero alam ko na pag nakita ko siya ulit, siya pa rin..

Nemo Dat Quod Non Habent

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Bebeko
October 27, 2017 (8 months ago)

Istupher, it’s nice to read your story. Good luck sa love life.

Good job!

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Fiction-Factory
October 27, 2017 (8 months ago)

Wow Sir, ganda ng kwento at pagkakakwento mo. Natural na natural at tagos na tagos. Naluha ako, sa totoo lang. Naalala ko yung first break up ko, pinuntahan ko yung girl, nasira yung motor ni erfath, kaya nag-bike ako (yung endless bike love hehe) umiiyak ako habang nagba-bike sa kalsadang maraming tao na wala akong pake kung pagtinginan man ako.

Salamat Sir sa sharing, nadama ko yung hirap ng LDR at yung Power of Love. Promise, pagbubutihan ko yung story, at hindi mamadaliin. Sana lang maganda ang kalabasan, para naman hindi na landiin nung iba at samantalahin ang pangungulila ng mga taong nasa loob ng LDR. Napapansin ko kasi na madaling maagaw yung "iba" dahil sa pangungulila.

Salamat ulit Sir, sakaling may mahugot ka pang emosyon at matinding lungkot na pangyayari dun sa LDR mo, comment ka lang dito.

To be honest, i'm a liar. ♥♞♬♂⚄☜†∇

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Istupher
October 28, 2017 (8 months ago)

actually naiyak ako ulit nung tinatype ko siya kanina... hahahaha... one other thing na hindi ko nabanggit, yung inipon ko pangkasal sana namin, ibinili ko ng bikes... that's one thing na nakatulong saken... tapos nung last chance namin, i got to know na she learned how to ride a bike (she didn't know how until then)... yun ang ginawa kong common ground to establish a new line of communication... kaya lang we grew so much as an individual to the point that we cannot be with each other anymore... take note, walang nagkajowa sa amin bago yung last chance... we dated others kaya lang pareho kaming may hinahanap eh... may kulang... i just don't know now kung may karelasyon na siya... for me a relationship is more on decision lalo na kapag matagal na and magkalayo... anyway, salamat sa pagbabasa, i hope may makuha ka sa kwento ko... good luck...

Nemo Dat Quod Non Habent

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Istupher
October 28, 2017 (8 months ago)

thank you for reading bebeko ..

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aphrodence
October 28, 2017 (8 months ago)

I had an LDR,  well yeah...  It's all about longingness,  temptations,
But in the end,  its still is your decision to return to your normal life after the long contract,.

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Fiction-Factory
October 28, 2017 (8 months ago)

Madam, paki-elaborate naman yung "Temptation s" part. Hehe what kind of Temptation? Na-fall ka ba sa iba, then pinigilan mo, o nahulog ka sa bitag at nagka-affair kayo?

To be honest, i'm a liar. ♥♞♬♂⚄☜†∇

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rumcoke
November 8, 2017 (8 months ago)

ive been in a ldr relationship for 7yrs 12 yrs total ng relasyon ko sa asawa ko! back in 2011 she left fot abroad and ok naman so far till last uwi nya 2015 she has hints and accused me of cheating take note im not the kind of person who cheats because d ako marong mag basa ng signals eh! hahahaha then this yr pag uwi nya nag paalam cya to attend her elementary reunion dun nag simula

she met someone from her elementary days bad courted her nag kaletse2x kami I notice na through our her vaction panay alis nya along with her elementary friends and that guy was always there one day I told her that I was her pics with that guy and told her I dont like her with me! ive never been the jealous type kasi I always thought if you love her trust her and that's when I learn may instinct din pala ang mga boys hahahaha

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rumcoke
November 8, 2017 (8 months ago)

so before she left she admitted she love him and wanted to be with her family so we tried to work it out only to found out while nasa abroad cya na she was calling him! she could call her family her parent but call him so I broke up with her and she has the audacity to say na d ko cya mahal for letting go! I felt into depression and still have low esteen for what happen I place my focus and attention to my daughter and work! I remembered my daughter slipping anote for me stating always be happy papa that really touch me!

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rumcoke
November 8, 2017 (8 months ago)

then she tried to reach out last may saying she wanted to work it out for our daughter only to be heartborken kay she ended up seeing with the same guy! so last sept she came home before hand she was saying she wanted to fix it but told her if uuwi ka sa leyte rather than cebu like she plan wala na tayo maayos because aside from her parents residing in leyte nandoon yung guy eh! so she lied go her family and stAyed with the guy for 2 days when I went to see her and my daughter! I already suspected of what happen because she insisted in heading to leyte then cebu

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rumcoke
November 8, 2017 (8 months ago)

her family is ashmed of what happen and nahihiya sa akin I just told her bahala ka you wanted it live with it! and I left with my daughter.....do I still love her I still do! if you are asking if she is happy shes not couse the other guy also left her! shes been reaching out but I guess I havent move on to the fact she cheated on me but Might someday especially since my daughter wanted us to be together

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Fiction-Factory
November 9, 2017 (8 months ago)

Alam mo Sir, nadudurog ang puso ko habang binabasa ko ang story mo. Ang sama ng loob ko nang mag-stay siya with that fucking guy for 2 consecutive days! Ang totoo nasaktan din ako! Nadama ko yung pait habang iniisip kung ano ba ang ginawa nila that time. Torture sa pakiramdam! And to think na mahal mo pa rin siya, ang hirap ng ganung sitwasyon! Bilib ako sir kung panu mo natanggap at na-overcome ang lahat. Thank you for sharing your absolute heartbreaking story. Blessed ka parin for having a sweet and wonderful daughter. Tama ka, stay who you are, wag kang mag-cheat tho you were cheated. Thanks ulit.

To be honest, i'm a liar. ♥♞♬♂⚄☜†∇

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rumcoke
November 9, 2017 (8 months ago)

I know what happened couse she admitted it to me what really pissed me off when sll thr drama happen that guy has the audacity to say he was just a victim cant even man up what he did

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