21 Days

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Date: March 27, 2018 (4 months ago)


A trivia on Facebook caught my attention. It says,

"No matter how strong or deep your love is, our brain takes only 21 days to forget Love and create New feelings. Even if you think you will die with pain after loosing ANY TYPE of Love but after 21 days, you will get used to new people new routine. NO LOVE IS PERMANENT."

I don't know if it has already proven or has a scientific explanation or a common bluff trying to convince others that it's true. Anyway, just after I read that, I smirked. I know that's impossible, how can we unlove someone who became part of our lives and means a lot to us? How can we forget someone who taught us how to love and trust, again? In just 21 days? I am sure this is just one of the creations of some people out there who tries to express their bitterness or what to the world.

But I'm wrong.

In less than a month, I forgot how I loved you.
Or maybe the attachment or the idea of being in love with you.

I guess it works because in fear of being left and hurt again, I always talk to God. Every day, every night, every moment that I think my feelings are taking me somewhere deep, I always ask His guidance -- that if this man is not yet the one for me, or will bring no good to me, please take him away from me. But if finally, he's the one I meant to be with, please guide us until the end.

And I realized, God really has a plan for all of us. Because whenever I pray, every time I ask His guidance and do His will, I never regret anything. Thank you.For letting me see the reason why things should happen though sometimes in a painful way.

Thank you for listening. Thank you for wiping my tears every time I r...

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somebodyuused2know
March 27, 2018 (4 months ago)

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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User Not Found
March 28, 2018 (4 months ago)

I don't hate you too. I just thought you we're different. We'll you're different, in a way. That's why I love you and I will always do.

Letting go is hard but there's no other way. I have given you ample time to reconsider and you opted to be silent.

To quote Mark Twain : “Truth is stranger than fiction, but it is because Fiction is obliged to stick to possibilities; Truth isn't.”

Be happy.

Char !

"Virtual is like everything else. Assume nothing. Only then can you truly see what you're dealing with." - Quellcrist Falconer , Altered Carbon

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User Not Found
March 28, 2018 (4 months ago)

erratum ; Well pala yun.

"Virtual is like everything else. Assume nothing. Only then can you truly see what you're dealing with." - Quellcrist Falconer , Altered Carbon

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User Not Found
March 28, 2018 (4 months ago)

dami mali. you we're dapat you're yun. Gutom strikes again. Pa-edit na lang please and pa-delete ng mga comments. Thanks.

"Virtual is like everything else. Assume nothing. Only then can you truly see what you're dealing with." - Quellcrist Falconer , Altered Carbon

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somebodyuused2know
March 28, 2018 (4 months ago)

I'M A NICE PERSON. JUST DON'T PRESS THE BITCH BUTTON.

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Rex_Jones
March 28, 2018 (4 months ago)

I'm glad that your able to get back up on your feet and able to recover.
But I would have to say I beg to differ what FB or any Science would say in regards to this matter.  I have high respect for Science  and those great minds that have taken such time to come up with such research that helped develop the world we live in today. However for this topic...well some questions are best answered with another valid question. So here it goes..

I think most of us agree that God=Love and Love=God. We all know that God is spiritual and so is this thing called Love. Whereas, Science itself is limited to 5 senses, which are Touch, Seeing, Hearing, Smell and Taste. Every theory, and proven conclusion Science have come up with are all based on data gathered using any or all of these 5 senses. Unfortunately none of those senses can produce a tangible solid data about the spirit realm. That being said..A question for Science - Why even study a subject that is not close of being within your reach?

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Filipiniana
March 28, 2018 (4 months ago)

I get where you're coming from and I respect it. As I've said, whether it was proven or not, a fact or a bluff, it doesn't matter. We can all prove it on ourselves if this works or not. In my current case, it does, which might be different to you. :)

Mahirap maghanap ng taong pangmatagalan sa sitwasyong pangmabilisan.

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Akela143
March 28, 2018 (4 months ago)

Pretty well meditated sissy..😘😘😘

No inhibition. Less depression.

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Filipiniana
March 29, 2018 (4 months ago)

Thanks! 😘

Mahirap maghanap ng taong pangmatagalan sa sitwasyong pangmabilisan.

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libog_na
April 10, 2018 (4 months ago)

I still love every girl I have ever loved, or ever thought I loved. Even the ones who did horrible things to me. It doesn't matter who left who, if I was in love once, I am still in love. Love really is eternal.  

However, it doesn't mean I want any of my exes back, or that I'm sorry we're apart. I'm just in love with the parts of them that I loved. Sometimes love isn't enough, we have reasons to leave that don't have anything to do with love or the lack of thereof.

This post hit home because I broke up with someone 8 days ago after two years. Am I sorry we broke up? No.  Would I take her back?  No.   Do I still love her?  Syempre....

"No one ever leaves you as they found you"

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Filipiniana
April 15, 2018 (4 months ago)

Your last question hit me. "Do you still love her? Syempre." But you're not sorry that you two broke up and no plans to take her back. Right? But why? That's confusing. For some.
But let me tell you a little secret about us -- girls. Once we ask guys if you miss your exes and the things you usually do together, no matter what you explain to us, no matter how many NOs you give to us, once you said, "Yes, I still love her..." no matter what's the next words are, the discussion is over. You still love your ex. Period. Haha!
And that's where the jealousy and insecurity starts. Just please lie and say No. That's what we only want to hear.

Or maybe I was wrong. 😂

Mahirap maghanap ng taong pangmatagalan sa sitwasyong pangmabilisan.

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libog_na
April 17, 2018 (4 months ago)

Alam ko, it's confusing to me too!  But it's true. What I'm saying is that IF we got back together, we would still be in the same situation, with the same hurts and frustrations. I don't want to go through it again. But, yes... I still love her.

Haha, maybe I will just say no from now on!  It makes more sense. :)

"No one ever leaves you as they found you"

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Filipiniana
April 20, 2018 (4 months ago)

Oh yes you got it right! Haha

Mahirap maghanap ng taong pangmatagalan sa sitwasyong pangmabilisan.

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DadiNoli
June 8, 2018 (2 months ago)

..it takes 21 days to make or break a habit..loving someone so dearly eventually becomes a habit..same with breaking up w/ someone & moving on takes more or less 21 days..

yes, i agree w/ you when you said the discussion is over when a girl hears from a man honestly saying 'i still love her' even if the man said i've moved on..say it like when it's meant..either the guy still loves his ex or he has already moved on..there shouldn't be any in.between a relationship..

carpe diem!

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Filipiniana
June 9, 2018 (2 months ago)

Tama. Its just an answer between Yes or No, not Maybe, Konti, Medyo, or anything that saves themselves and put in the middle of the two. There's no more time left for guessing in this life.

Thanks for reading my stories ;)

Mahirap maghanap ng taong pangmatagalan sa sitwasyong pangmabilisan.

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DadiNoli
July 24, 2018 (27 days ago)

i love your stories ever since i've read them..it touches my heart..

carpe diem!

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